When others look down on you, you have to "treat it coldly"

When others look down on you, you have to be indifferent, and you don't have to eat uncommonly.

Only when people look up to themselves can they have dignity. It doesn't matter if you are a person or not, the key is to have backbone.

People are mixed in society, no matter which class you mix into, they are "less than the top and more than the bottom".

Those who are taller than you will look down on you; Those who are lower than you will scold you; Those who are poorer than you will hate you; Those who compete with you will calculate you; People at the same level as you will exclude you.

There are very few people who really have the same three views and are like-minded.

Therefore, when others look down on you, don't always bow your head and please, but learn to treat it coldly. No matter how low your posture is or how polite you are to people, there is no way to satisfy everyone.

Life is like a pickle, what kind of flavor you soak with someone, and if you soak in the atmosphere of smart culture for a long time, you will have the thinking of a strong person.

The strong never depend, never wait, never complain, but take the initiative to create and fight for everything I want!

In the eyes of the strong, it is my fault that others hurt me. As long as you are not greedy or stupid, you will not be deceived. Because of his own greed or his own stupidity, he gave the liar a chance.

It's like a person running to the wolf's side and being bitten by the wolf, and why does the wolf have no conscience? Actually, it's you who are stupid, it's you who think too well of wolves.

Why don't you protect yourself?

Why don't you keep a proper distance from the wolves?

Always remember that how much value and leverage you have, how much value you will receive.

This applies to the workplace, to the love field, to all relationships.

If you don't learn and don't grow, it doesn't matter if your husband/wife/boss has you or not, he won't take you seriously.

If the other party loses you, he has a devastating blow and loss, he will attach importance to you every day and offer you as an ancestor. The problem of countless people is that they are obviously weak, and they still complain about injustice every day.

When faced with the contempt of others, you should take a calm approach. There is no need to be too concerned about the evaluation of others, because human dignity does not depend on the opinions of others, but on one's own self-esteem and self-respect. In social life, no matter what class you are in, you will inevitably encounter a variety of complex interpersonal relationships. People who think highly of you may look down on you, people who are lower than you may beg you, people who are not as good as you may be hostile to you, people who are in competition with you may be calculating about you, and people who are in the same class as you may exclude you. Therefore, in the face of the contempt of others, do not lower your value to cater to it, but learn to deal with it calmly. No matter how much you lower your posture or try your best to please others, it's impossible to please everyone.

Life is like a pickle, and the environment in which we live has a profound impact on people. Associate with wise people, and over time, your own way of thinking will become stronger. The real strong do not rely on others, do not wait for opportunities, and do not complain. They take the initiative to fight for everything they want. For the strong, the harm of others does not stem from malice, but from their own problems, and it is their own greed or stupidity that gives others an opportunity to take advantage of.

Always remind yourself to protect yourself and keep an appropriate distance from others. Always remember that your own worth and bargaining chips determine how much others value you. This principle applies to all kinds of relationships, whether in the workplace or in love. If you don't continue to learn and grow, your partner or boss may lose interest in you and stop paying attention to you. Conversely, if you are indispensable to others, they will value you more and even treat you as a treasure.

Many people complain about injustice, even though they are inadequate. As a weakling, you should focus on improving your ability and value, rather than indulging in unnecessary complaints.