2023/12/30 Keep your distance from others

Keep some distance from everyone so that you will form a magnetic field and people will unconsciously respect you.

What someone says, you must think about it, you must think about it more and don't do it in a mess.

You have to take it slowly, let that person look for you a few more times, beg you a few times, and slowly everyone will start to respect you.

Human nature is that if you embarrass others, others will respect you.

If you don't embarrass them, they'll on your neck, not to mention whether they'll respect you.

Keep your distance from others and form your own magnetic field

In interpersonal interactions, we often meet all kinds of people, some are enthusiastic, some are cold as ice. However, in order to gain the respect of others in interpersonal interactions, we need to learn to keep a certain distance from others. This distance is not indifference and arrogance, but a manifestation of self-protection and respect for others.

First of all, keeping our distance from others allows us to form a unique magnetic field. This magnetic field is not a mysterious force, but our own temperament and personality. When we keep a certain distance from others, we have more time and space to think and precipitate, so as to form a more independent and mature thinking system. In this way, we will naturally attract those who share our like-minded interests and form a positive social circle.

Second, keeping our distance from others allows us to be more careful in our relationships. In interpersonal interactions, we often meet all kinds of people, some of whom may make unreasonable demands or give irresponsible suggestions. If we don't keep a certain distance from others, it's easy to be swayed by what these people say and make some unwise decisions. Therefore, keeping our distance from others allows us to analyze problems more calmly and handle interpersonal relationships more rationally.

Of course, distancing ourselves from others does not mean that we become cold and arrogant. On the contrary, we should establish good communication and cooperation with others on the basis of respect. When we encounter a problem, we should take the initiative to seek a solution, rather than avoiding the problem or passing the buck. Only in this way can we gain the respect and trust of others in our interpersonal interactions.

To sum up, distancing yourself from others is a beneficial interpersonal strategy. This strategy allows us to form a unique magnetic field that attracts those who share our interests; At the same time, it can also allow us to be more careful in handling interpersonal relationships and avoid being swayed by irresponsible people. Of course, we should also establish good communication and cooperative relations with others on the basis of respect.

Keeping your distance from others and forming your own magnetic field is not only an interpersonal strategy, but also an attitude towards life. In this noisy world, we are always easily troubled by all kinds of trivial things, and keeping our distance from others can make us more focused on our lives and know ourselves more clearly. At the same time, distancing ourselves from others does not mean isolating ourselves, we still need to connect with others, but this connection should be based on mutual respect, trust and understanding. In our dealings with others, we should keep a normal heart, not be overly dependent on others, and do not expect too much from others. Only in this way can we be comfortable in interpersonal communication and truly live in harmony with others.