The most important hurdle for women to break in this life is the "love" pass, and the most important hurdle for men in this life is the "desire" pass.

Only a woman who has broken the love barrier, and only a man who has broken the desire barrier can truly be invincible.

The so-called breakthrough is to stop clinging to what you care about most.

If you want to have a man, you have to not care about men.

If you want to gain fame and fortune, you have to let go of fame and ego desires.

All sentient beings are suffering, and what is suffering is their own obsession.

No matter how much money a woman makes, as long as she does not break the "love barrier", she will be trapped and burdened by love for the rest of her life.

As long as a man does not break the "desire" barrier, no matter how much fame and wealth he gains, he will eventually be ruined.

The human body is a mass of desires, and human nature is a combination of divinity and animal nature.

Ordinary people follow their own humanity, while masters are against their own humanity. A master can defeat animal nature with divinity, and control the instinctive desires of animals with a high self.

Conform to the humanity of others and attract people's liking; Rebel against your own humanity and change your life against the sky. Obedient to adult, reverse into immortal, mysteries are only in the upside down.

Women generally have strong emotions, while men are more inclined to meet their physical needs. For women, emotions are a crucial factor in their lives; And for men, it is equally important to meet physiological needs. To be truly invincible, women need to go beyond emotional distress, while men need to go beyond the satisfaction of physical needs.

Transcendence means no longer being overly dependent or obsessed with these needs. If they want to build a deep relationship with a man, women should learn not to care too much about men. Similarly, if men want to gain fame and fortune, they should learn to let go of their pursuit of fame and fortune and their attachment to their own desires.

We all suffer from our own obsessions. Even if women are hugely successful in their careers, their lives can still be fraught and exhausting if they don't get past emotional distress. In the same way, even if a man gains more wealth and fame, if he does not go beyond the satisfaction of his physical needs, he may end up in ruin.

Essentially, the human body is filled with all kinds of desires. Human nature is a combination of divine and animal nature. Ordinary people conform to their desires in life, while masters can overcome or surpass these desires. The master can use its divine essence to overcome its animality, using its higher self to control primitive desires.

When interacting with others, conforming to their desires makes them popular; But to achieve self-transcendence, one must do the opposite, overcome one's own animality. Conforming to human nature makes a person mature and steady, while transcending nature makes a person transcendent and holy. This delicate balance between transcendence and conformity determines the direction and destiny of life.

And I think there is another kind of most difficult barrier in this world to break, that is, the "greed" barrier that everyone has.

Greed together, it is out of control, only let go of greed, in order to truly achieve no obstacles, invincible in the world.

Greed is the most irresistible desire in people's hearts. It is like an invisible claw, tightly grasping people's hearts and making them unable to extricate themselves. Whether it is the pursuit of fame and fortune or the desire for material things, once greed arises, it is like a rolling stone down the mountain, and it is difficult to stop.

However, breaking the barrier of corruption is the most important level on the path of cultivation. Only by truly letting go of greed can we be free from obstacles, not fascinated by material desires, and not trapped by lust. This requires us to constantly cultivate our hearts in our daily lives, to be vigilant at all times, and not to indulge ourselves for the sake of momentary pleasure.

For women, it is even more important to break the barrier of corruption. Because women are more emotionally sensitive, they are more likely to get caught up in emotional entanglements. Only by letting go of over-dependence and attachment to emotions can we truly be independent and live our own lives.

In the same way, men need to break the barrier. Fame, fortune and material things are important, but excessive pursuit will only lead to endless exhaustion and emptiness. Men should learn to let go of material greed and pursue inner peace and true happiness.

In this society full of temptations and impetuousness, we all need to continue to practice and grow. Only by constantly surpassing oneself and overcoming one's own desires and greed can one truly be invincible in the world.