2023/12/31 Don't be a parent who belittles your child

In real life, many family environments are like purgatory on earth, where children grow up and their childhood is filled with all kinds of suffering. On the one hand, many parents hope that their children will be successful, but on the other hand, they constantly belittle, scold, and deny their children, bullying their children for a long time, and depriving them of their self-confidence. These parents often show a good side on the outside, but at home they become domineering kings, they never know how to respect their children, and they still claim to be good children.

Children who grow up in this family environment are full of bad emotions such as low self-esteem, sensitivity, timidity, and cowardice from an early age. They can't bear things, they don't dare to take responsibility, they lack courage and self-confidence. When these children grow up, many of them only realize that they have been negatively affected by their families of origin until they reach middle age. They begin to realize that their lives are limited by their family of origin, and they begin to realize that they are mentally controlled by their family of origin.

In order to get out of this predicament, these children need to learn to stop losses in time and take the light for their own lives. They need to re-examine their values and outlook on life and rebuild their self-confidence and self-esteem. They need to learn to protect themselves and stop letting their parents' actions affect their growth and development. At the same time, they also need to seek professional help and support, such as psychological counseling, family education guidance, etc., in order to better overcome difficulties and achieve self-growth and development.

The influence of the family of origin is far-reaching, but it is not immutable. As long as we are aware of our own problems, face them bravely, and strive to change ourselves, we can get out of the shadow of our original family and create a better future for our lives.

Therefore, respect and understanding are essential in homeschooling. Parents should give their children enough love and support, encourage them to try new things, and develop their self-confidence and independence. At the same time, parents should also respect their children's individuality and wishes and not force them to do things they don't like. Only in this way can children grow up in a healthy and harmonious family environment and become confident and responsible people.

In real life, there are family environments that are like hell on earth, where children grow up and their childhood is shrouded in all kinds of suffering. Some parents always want their children to be successful, but they keep suppressing, belittling, and denying their children, oppressing their children for a long time, and weakening their self-confidence. These parents often pretend to be good people outside, but as soon as they get home, they become domineering overlords, they never respect their children, and they also call them good for their children.

Children who grow up in such a family environment are full of negative emotions such as low self-esteem, sensitivity, timidity, and cowardice from an early age. They can't bear things, they don't dare to take responsibility, they lack courage and self-confidence. When these children grow up, many people don't realize the negative impact of their family of origin until they are middle-aged. They begin to find that their lives are bound by their families of origin and realize that they are mentally controlled.

In order to get out of this predicament, these children must learn to stop losses in time and take the helm for their future. They need to re-examine their values and outlook on life and rebuild their self-esteem and self-confidence. They need to learn to protect themselves from their parents' actions that continue to hinder their growth and development. At the same time, they also need to seek professional help and support, such as psychological counseling, family education guidance, etc., in order to better overcome difficulties and achieve self-growth and development.

The influence of the family of origin is indeed far-reaching, but it is not impossible to change. As long as we are aware of the problem, face it bravely, and strive to change ourselves, we can get out of the shadow of the original family and create a better future.

Therefore, in family education, respect and understanding are the top priorities. Parents need to give their children enough love and support, encourage them to try new things, and develop self-confidence and independence. At the same time, parents must respect their children's individuality and wishes, and not force them to do things they don't like. Only in this way can children grow up in a healthy and harmonious family environment and become confident and responsible people.