2023/12/31 There must be a threshold for making friends
Making friends is an important social activity, but in the process, we must set certain thresholds. If there is no threshold, all kinds of people will flood into our social circle, resulting in the exclusion of excellent people because the "environment" is not right. It's like having a lot of fish in a tank, and if the quality of the fish is uneven, the bad fish will gradually dominate, and the good fish will be pushed out.
In history, the rise and fall of many dynasties are related to whether they are "close to the virtuous and far from the villain". Villains, lazy people, dishonest people, insincere people, and people who are too negative and negative will only bring negative effects to us, consume our energy, and drag down our development. For these people, we should not have the idea of educating them, but should choose to stay away from them. Adults should only screen for those who are suitable for them, rather than trying to change those who are not suitable.
Making friends is like having a unique party!
But in this happy party, we have to set a threshold. Why? Because if there's no threshold, heck, everyone will be squeezing in and making a mess of the party.
It's like the fish in the fish tank are of different quality, and the bad fish want to squeeze out the good fish.
Historically, the rise and fall of many dynasties have been related to making friends. You have to stay close to the virtuous people, and stay away from the villains, the lazy people, the dishonest people. They will only make you emaciated and drag you down. When you meet these people, don't think about educating them, running fast is the last word! Adults have to learn to select the right friends, rather than trying to change the right people.
These people will cause you a lot of trouble, waste your time, energy and money. They specialize in sabotage and mess up your mood, family, and career. So, don't dwell on them, there's no need at all.
When it comes to choosing a social circle, we need to be as picky as a little bee collecting honey. Choose only the sweetest flowers and ignore the ones that are not beneficial or even poisonous. In this way, you protect yourself and respect others. Learn to appreciate and respect the good in others, and don't keep looking at the shortcomings. In this way, we can truly understand others, accept others, and grow together.
Also, we need to be independent and not rely too much on others. Each person is an independent star with their own values and lifestyle. Respect this independence while maintaining your own independence. In the process of making friends, you have to find people who can support each other and make progress together, not people who will only consume your energy.
You have to be cautious when it comes to making friends! You have to set a threshold according to your own values and principles to screen out friends who are really worth dating. At the same time, you must also be vigilant and protect your personal information and privacy. In this way, we can build a social circle full of sunshine and make the road of life smoother!
In the social world, making friends is something that needs to be taken seriously. We have to set certain thresholds to screen out those who are truly a good fit for us. If there is a lack of thresholds, it can lead to a mixed social circle and good people being squeezed out. It's like having a lot of fish in a tank, and if the quality of the fish is uneven, the bad fish will gradually dominate, and the good fish will be pushed out.
The rise and fall of dynasties in history is often related to whether they are "close to virtuous ministers and far away from villains". For us personally, associating with villains, lazy people, dishonest people, insincere people, and people who are too negative and negative will only bring us negative effects, consume our energy, and drag down our development. For these people, we should not have the idea of educating them, but should choose to stay away from them. Adults should only screen for those who are suitable for them, rather than trying to change those who are not suitable.
When choosing a social circle, we need to be as carefully selected as a bee collects honey. We should respect the independence of others and maintain our own independence, while looking for those who can support each other and make progress together. At the same time, we also need to pay attention to protecting our personal information and privacy to avoid being used by bad people.