Chapter 157: Lin Che: They were all born to the same parents, why is there such a big difference?
"Just!"
Lin Che looked at Zhu Fan and shook his head, and sighed:
"Auntie, what should be said, I still have to say, you are a noble family, but there is a big problem with the education of children."
"It was originally a good seedling, but now it has long deviated from development expectations."
"If you don't correct it in time, your child will go in an extreme direction, which is not a good sign."
The words fell.
The hall fell silent.
Queen Ma and Brother Zhu Biao glanced at each other, she didn't expect Lin Che to be so outspoken, and directly pointed out that there were problems in the Zhu family's education.
You must know that the children of the Zhu family are basically raised by Queen Ma, and Zhu Yuanzhang rarely cares about the education of children because of his busy state affairs.
Queen Ma started with the crown prince Zhu Biao and educated the children below.
Lin Che's words were a slap in the face to her.
Listened to this.
The faces of the three people, including Lan Yu, suddenly turned pale.
No one has ever dared to accuse her of education problems in front of the queen.
Even Emperor Hongwu Zhu Yuanzhang never dared to say that about the queen.
Zhu Fan looked at Lin Che and couldn't help swallowing and spitting, feeling that his body was numb.
Scold the emperor, okay!
He also scolded behind his back!
However, scolding the queen is absolutely not okay!
What a virtuous queen Queen Ma is, and how many people have she saved from Zhu Yuanzhang because of her virtuousness?
Saying that the queen has no way to educate, doesn't it mean that she is not virtuous enough?
Just when Zhu Fan was about to go up to play the round.
Queen Ma's gentle voice rang out at this time:
"What Mr. Lin said is that in terms of educating children, our husband and wife are indeed lacking."
"The child's father is too strict with the child, there are many rules, the three sentences are not in agreement, either beating or scolding, this child's irritable personality is like his father."
"And we love our children too much, no matter what wrong things the children do, we are reluctant to scold, let alone beat."
"Our husband and wife treat their children very extremely, and the impact on the children is really great, which has also led to the children's education becoming a big problem!"
Queen Ma did not get angry because of Lin Che's criticism, but took the initiative to review:
"Mr.'s teachings have deeply touched the old body, thank you Mr. for telling me the truth."
"Old body, thank you!"
Although Queen Ma met Lin Che for the first time, he learned through the Zhu family's father and son that Lin Che's teaching has always been straightforward and never hidden.
Unlike those ministers in the court, if you want to get a truth from them, you have to straighten their twists and turns.
As the queen of the world, she admires Lin Che's straightforwardness and simplicity.
I was able to visit this time just to learn.
"As soon as my aunt said that, I understood."
Lin Che thought for a moment and nodded:
"The father has a strong personality and lacks tolerance for his children, either beating or scolding. The mother is extremely tolerant of her children and overly spoiled. ”
"These have a huge impact on a child's personality."
"You husband and wife, you are really at the extreme, and the children educated in this way will inevitably do things to extremes, and they are easy to drill the horns, which is vividly shown in Zhu Er."
"However, they are also brothers, children born to one parent, but why is there such a big difference between the eldest and the second!"
"The boss has a generous personality, is polite, does not rush or slow down in trouble, and does things in a measured manner."
"But the younger brother is impatient, reckless, anxious, and improperly considers problems."
"These two brothers are really a contradictory pair!"
"I feel that my brother is more like my mother, maybe my brother is more like my father."
Listening to Lin Che's methodical analysis, Queen Ma sighed secretly, and had to admit that the other party's comments were still very right.
Zhu Fan has been like this since he was a child.
Like his father, his personality is good or bad, and there is no character.
If you commit this thing today and that tomorrow, you will also be the most cruel son who was beaten by his father.
The boss has always been gentle, unhurried, and very inclusive.
Since he was a child, he has never been beaten by Zhu Yuanzhang, and he has rarely even been scolded.
Come to think of this.
Queen Ma shook her head and smiled, and sighed:
"What Mr. Lin taught me is that in the future, we husband and wife should change the way we educate our children."
"Thank you sir for your advice!"
"The old body has been taught!"
Lin Che had great respect for Queen Ma, and when he heard this, he quickly put down the teacup in his hand and said respectfully:
"Aunt is so polite!"
"Let's just get an axe in front of my aunt!"
"Don't get to know the juniors."
Speaking of this, I saw Zhu Fan holding his arms and swaying on the side, and joked:
"What are you hanging around?"
"Are we wrong?"
"Look at you, and then look at your eldest brother, they were all born to the same parents, why is there such a big difference?"
Zhu Rong: "..."
After listening to Lin Che's ridicule, Zhu Fan suddenly became honest, sitting next to the crown prince Zhu Biao, watching his nose and nose, and honestly listening to the queen mother chatting with Lin Che.
Seeing that Zhu Fan was honest, Lin Che turned his gaze to Queen Ma again:
"Dare to ask my aunt... What do you want your children to live in the future? ”
"Do you want to get ahead and glorify your ancestors, or do you want them to live this life in peace?"
Faced with Lin Che's sudden question, Mr. Queen Ma was stunned, then thought about it and replied:
"Of course, it's a peaceful life."
After a pause, Queen Ma continued:
"What is to get ahead, what is glorious to the ancestors, these are all empty for me as a woman."
"We just want our children to live their lives safely, disease-free, and disaster-free."
"Other than that, nothing else."
Queen Ma's heartfelt words moved the Zhu brothers.
Brothers, you look at me, I look at you, unconsciously lowered my head, my heart was mixed, and I had more respect for the virtuous queen mother.
When Lin Che heard this, he was in awe, sat up straight and said:
"Aunt's mind is transparent, so that the younger generation admires!"
"However, if my aunt chooses the former, I am afraid that this idea should end here."
"I think as an elder in the family, which parent doesn't want their children to get ahead and glorify their ancestors, these are understandable, but if the child is burdened with great pressure because of this, it will make the child grow up in the opposite direction."
"It's just that the aunt is so transparent, I'm afraid that the uncle may not be like this, I hope that the child will want his son to become a dragon, so as to carry the heavy pressure..."
Lin Che's words shocked Queen Ma.
Lin Che is right, it is precisely because Zhu Yuanzhang has too high expectations for his children that he is so strict with his children.
If he was there in this question, he must have chosen the wrong question.
"What the gentleman said is very true!"
"Our children are fortunate to be favored by Mr., these are their blessings!"
"Mr. can call the old body 'aunt', and the old body hopes that Mr. will not treat us as outsiders!"
"If you have anything to say, the old man is happy to be Mr.'s audience!"
(End of chapter)