Seeing that Queen Ma was so open-minded, Lin Che was no longer polite, and said directly:

"Everyone understands the truth."

"As long as parents can figure it out, then their children will be free for the rest of their lives, if parents can't think about it, then the child will live a miserable and difficult life."

"After all, there are some things that are hard to come by, and this is not for everyone."

"Once you can't get ahead and glorify your ancestors, you will live in the shadow of this halo for the rest of your life, do you think children can live well?"

Queen Ma has been listening carefully, even if she has her own opinions, she can't bear to say it.

"Auntie, what we're talking about may be a bit hollow."

"Why don't we tell a little story, my aunt will definitely know it very well when she listens to it."

Lin Che picked up the teapot and was about to get up to pour tea for Queen Ma, but Lan Yu, who was standing on the side, was quick and not only poured Queen Ma's tea full.

He also poured tea into the tea cup of the prince, King Qin, and Lin Che who were present, and stood aside obediently.

Lin Che saw it in his eyes, but he didn't care, and then said:

"This story is still the "Zhuangzi" that I told Zhu Er in the edict prison"

In Zhuangzi. Dasheng Chapter. ”

"During the Spring and Autumn Period, Yan Yuan, a disciple of Confucius, said to Confucius, one day I crossed the river by boat, and I saw that the boatman was very skilled, so I asked the boatman, can I learn to drive the ferry?"

The boatman replied, "Yes, those who are good swimmers learn it quickly, and those who are good at diving will be able to master it in a short time."

"What do the boatman's words mean in the story?"

Facing Lin Che's question, Queen Ma thought about it for a while, and then understood the meaning, and then said:

"The more unafraid of the water, the quicker he can learn to steer a boat, because he is as easy on the water as he is on land."

Hearing this, Lin Che nodded happily:

"Auntie is right, that's the truth!"

"It's like when the gamblers in the casino have very small bets, the gambling skills seem to be very high, and it is easy to attract the gambling game."

"But when the stakes are raised to the point where you decide your net worth, you will become hesitant, because the gambling game determines your own survival."

"With that mentality, you tend to lose the bet."

"Zhuangzi said: Those who are heavy on the outside are clumsy on the inside!"

"To put it simply, if you take things too seriously, you will become sluggish in your thinking and clumsy in your heart."

"Learning to ship is afraid of drowning, gambling is afraid of losing money, in the final analysis, there are two words: timid!"

"Mental burden and mental pressure, to put it bluntly, is still because of timidity, ordinary people's lives, timidity almost throughout their lives."

Lin Che took a sip of tea, glanced at the Zhu family brothers, and continued:

"For example, a young man is usually eloquent, but when he sees a beautiful girl he likes, he can't speak well, and he doesn't look like himself at all."

"For example, for the doubts of my father and mother, I unconditionally gave up my ideas, and was willing to cater to the expectations of my family, and I was mighty and domineering outside, and I couldn't see it at all when I got home."

"The list goes on and on..."

"Am I right?"

Faced with Lin Che's sudden rhetorical question, the Zhu family brothers suddenly felt extremely embarrassed, and subconsciously lowered their heads.

Seeing this, Lin Che was even more sure that what he said was right.

He smiled and said:

"This is because deep down, you want to leave a good impression, and you are afraid that you will say the wrong thing, so you will become aggrieved."

"If you look closely, it's not hard to see that whenever you have no desires, it's often the best time to play."

"The root cause is still 'timidity'."

"Timidity is also the biggest obstacle to progress!"

"I asked you, why is the champion of the imperial examination so highly respected? Is the court interested in their abilities? ”

Just when Brother Zhu Biao was at a loss, Lin Che shook his head:

"Not really!"

"It is the experience of thousands of troops crossing the single-plank bridge and fighting all the way to winning the imperial examination."

"These valuable experiences will make them raise the threshold when facing difficulties high enough, and the threshold is too low, so that when they encounter problems, they hesitate to move forward."

"A person like this, who is so cowardly to death, that he doesn't believe in himself, why should he let everyone follow him?"

"Then the question is, do you think our current emperor, Emperor Hongwu, is a cowardly person?"

The voice did not fall.

The Zhu brothers suddenly shook their heads like rattles.

They are all the sons of Zhu Yuanzhang, if anyone says that Emperor Hongwu is a cowardly person, he will not think so.

Emperor Hongwu stepped from a beggar to the Ninety-Five Honor.

It is also unique in the thousand-year-old history of China.

Every step he took was not carried by his head.

If you want to say that he is a cowardly person, can he still establish the Daming Jiangshan Society?

To say that he is a cowardly person, can he crush Chen Youliang, Zhang Shicheng, Fang Guozhen, and the big and small princes of Qianyuan all the way and achieve great things?

For this issue, Queen Ma, who is sitting there and sitting firmly in the Diaoyutai, has the most right to speak.

She didn't answer, but was curious about what Lin Che was going to say.

Syllable!

Lin Che listened to the box with both palms and said with a smile:

"Yes, if our Hongwu Emperor has a trace of timidity, he will not have today's Daming country."

"Emperor Hongwu has gone through many hardships and hardships along the way, but he has never had a trace of timidity in his heart, which is also a magic weapon for him to defeat his opponents."

"Your brothers, who come from a noble family, if you are more timid in your future career, you will be doomed to achieve nothing."

"I don't dare to fight for a woman I like, I don't dare to challenge in the face of opportunities, and I don't dare to take the initiative to admit my mistakes in the face of mistakes, these are all manifestations of timidity."

"I will live in aggrieved life for the rest of my life."

"If you look at the depressed people, here's why they're not ambitious."

"If you want to succeed, but you are afraid in the face of difficulties, how can such a person succeed."

Hearing this, the Zhu brothers looked at each other.

Lin Che saw it in his eyes, but he didn't care, and continued:

"As long as you are not timid, you will not feel nervous and frightened in the face of anyone, in any situation."

"Don't be timid because you have difficulties, but be brave enough to face them and accept challenges."

"Only a person like Emperor Hongwu can reach the pinnacle of life!"

"Timidity will make people retreat, but courage will keep going."

Lin Che's impassioned gesture made the Zhu family brothers and Queen Ma inexplicably excited.

"Don't be afraid, be bold and do it."

"Learn to swim first, then go boating."

"This is the simplest road left by Zhuangzi a thousand years ago!"

"the boat like a god!"

Let's talk about it.

Lin Che turned his head to look at Queen Ma, who was completely confused, and arched his hand:

"What does Auntie think of what she said below?"

(End of chapter)