"Can't I change, why can't I change, why can everything else be changed." This is Li Zimu's confusion, and now it has become Zhao Xiaoyan's biggest confusion.

One of the biggest illusions in a girl's love always feels that she will be the special case, and she can change the person she loves with her lonely love. Zhao Xiaoxiang and Li Zimu's love between high and low eventually died, perhaps Zhao Xiaoxiang was too convinced that "love is across the mountains and seas, and the mountains and seas can be flat" is a crucial wrong factor.

"Trust is the cornerstone of love, and betrayal is the poison of love. Everyone is an adult, don't pretend not to know what is ambiguous, what is out of bounds, although love does not distinguish between first and last, but to be a man to be polite, righteous and honest. Don't always say that your lover doesn't trust you, you have to know how to keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex, and know a sense of proportion, so that you are worthy of being trusted. Zhao Xiaoyan didn't want to give up this rare heartbeat easily, and talked to Li Zimu over and over again.

"You can hang out too, I have never restricted any of your freedom." Li Zimu calmly recounted his opinions, as if sitting across from him was an inconsequential stranger rather than his lover. Zhao Xiaoxiang is deeply aware that anyone's three views are the comprehensive product of decades of growth environment, and it is not easy to change his cognition and conduct through a few words, even if this person is his lover.

"Passion, intimacy and commitment" are the three elements of love, but in a love relationship, the needs of men and women seem to be very different. It is undeniable that in most cases, boys learn about girls from romantic action movies, and girls learn about boys from novels. Sometimes, it's likely that a woman is just a virtual male character carefully sketched out by a female author.

Zhao Xiaoxiang is a person who hates trouble extremely much, and dealing with complex intimate relationships is not her strong point. But in the love relationship with Li Zimu, Zhao Xiaoxiang's sensibility overcame reason, and for the first time, he really had the idea of wanting to join hands with him for the rest of his life.

"Many people are saying that we broke up so undignified because I had a love affair with you, saying that I think I have suffered a big loss." "Sex" is of course a very important part of love, but for Zhao Xiaoxiang, what she longs for more is "platonic love", what she pursues is the persistence of "one person for a lifetime", and the common growth of each other. "So, so many kisses and walking hand in hand in the sunset can't engrave the love of each other in the deepest part of your heart, right? If we really have a husband and wife, as they say, will you break up with me so decisively? Zhao Xiaoxiang also asked Li Zimu this question very sincerely, and she also wanted to know whether love without "sex" could be sustained, and she wanted to know if this was one of the reasons why he wanted to break up. In addition, there is no better answer to convince Zhao Xiaoxiang why their abrupt love can't be cultivated.

Li Zimu didn't answer, maybe he already had the answer in his heart, but this answer was not enough for outsiders.

Zhao Xiaoxiang loves Li Zimu, just because of the faint smell on his body when he hugs each other, loves him holding Xiaoxiang's hand and just said lightly, only children will hold hands and walk in love, love the peace of mind that he brings to Xiaoxiang with his modesty and courtesy, and love him just quietly accompany Xiaoxiang to sit on the sofa for the quiet years.

What girl doesn't want to get married, have children, and enjoy the joy of family? Zhao Xiaoyan said more than once that he wanted to get a marriage certificate, but Zimu always said that he would have to wait.

"I'm sorry, I failed you, I apologize to you, it's all my fault. You can beat or scold, I just want you to come out of it. A good time is rare, like you, Li Zimu also sincerely hopes that Zhao Xiaoxiang is good, but this is better than Xiaoxiang, but it is really "a slap in the face to a sweet date".

Without the passion of love, love may gradually be consumed by life and eventually go to destruction, or it may be like a waterfall that flows thousands of miles and finally flows between the gentle slopes and stone crevices at the foot of the mountain, and in the middle, trust, support and companionship must be the antidote to love.

Love also needs to learn and grow. I hope that each of us can have the courage not to be afraid of the eyes of others, not afraid to be a "resentful woman", and to bravely seek inward and seek help when encountering difficulties. Maybe one day, Zhao Xiaoxiang will wake up and find that what can trap her for a short time is only the "authority fan" in her own inherent thinking.

There are cracks in everything, that is where the light comes in, no matter what, Zhao Xiaoyan still chooses to firmly believe: loving someone very much is a very beautiful thing, and it will always be ......