Love rises with the wind, and the wind stops.

Li Zimu's love was like a gust of wind gently passing through Zhao Xiaoyan's fingertips, although he knew that it had come, he couldn't catch it no matter how hard he tried.

There is a famous "Beb's Law" in psychology, when a person experiences a strong stimulus, the further stimulus becomes insignificant to him or her.

Now, Zhao Xiaoxiang wants to put aside the rights and wrongs that are very puzzling to her because of her lack of life experience, and talk about the growth and lessons she has gained from this failed relationship experience.

Maybe he was unwilling to be resolute and decisive when Li Zimuti broke up, or he didn't understand the choices he made for his life, or he was reluctant to give up the determination to grow old together, or just greedy for the warmth and beauty when they were together.

Li Zimu spoke calmly about his sincere apologies for disappointing Xiao Xiang, expressed his exhaustion and boredom during the relationship with anger, and sincerely begged Xiao Xiang to let him go and seek the true happiness that belonged to Xiao Shan. He said he didn't deserve a sample, and that he deserved better.

Li Zimu seems to be very transparent, but there are many truths that he doesn't seem to understand, just like he doesn't quite understand, there will always be better, and the moment is the best truth.

"I used to have a wish to set up a store that would sell a lot of my favorite clothes, and then I could try on beautiful clothes every day." Zhao Xiaoxiang always has a lot of strange ideas.

"Then you're going to find a boyfriend with a storefront." Li Zimu always spoke to those close to him with a sense of anger.

"Brother, I didn't mean that, I mean, we can work together towards the life we want." Xiao Xiang understands Zimu's inferiority complex and resentment about life, and she has never complained about him.

Zhao Xiaoxiang is a girl with a very positive attitude towards life, even if she can't see the light for a while, she can always feel the existence of light, and the persistent sample always has this "superpower". Therefore, she has an extraordinary persistence in many things.

"You keep saying you love me, but what do you do that really love me? Put away your self-touching and hypothetical feelings, and tell yourself about your love, okay?" Li Zimu may really not feel the love that Zhao Xiaoyan gave him. Zimu said that he just wanted to find someone to play with, drink together, and play mahjong together, and he just wanted to have a hot meal when he went home, as if it didn't matter to Zimu who the other party was.

Every happiness she really feels is happiness, and there is no distinction between high and low happiness itself, but the life that Zhao Xiaoxiang wants is not like this, what she wants is steadfastness after hard work, peace of mind after continuous self-breakthrough, and what she wants is a partner who is in the same boat through thick and thin and makes progress together. Zhao Xiaoyan seems to be able to understand the specific meaning of Li Zimu's inappropriateness. It's just that this inappropriate voice still contains compromises that are unwilling to make changes and efforts because of lack of love, and Xiao Xiang will always think stubbornly.