Regardless of the heart, there is no perfect person in the world.

It's very difficult to get people to admit their mistakes. But in the final analysis, in this relationship with Zimu, is Zhao Xiaoyan really not at fault?

In intimate relationships, "being loved, respected and companionship" is the common pursuit of both partners, and in the case of boys, there may also be the need to be admired by their partners, so to speak, the emotional needs of both men and women are roughly the same.

"I said, there is no right or wrong, we just have different concepts of life." Li Zimu still eats more or less than Zhao Xiaoyan for a few years, and in the face of emotional arguments, Zimu always talks about differences without talking about right or wrong. It is not difficult to see that the difference in thinking between men and women seems to be very different, and the statement that "men are from Mars, women are from Earth" is not entirely unreasonable.

It's not that Zhao Xiaoxiang is unwilling to write about her own dirty and unknown side, it's just that in the relationship between Xiao Xiang and Zimu, it seems that the two have never had a crusade against Zhao Xiaoxiang. I have to say that Li Zimu is indeed infinitely tolerant of Zhao Xiaoyan, and he seems to have never asked for Xiaoyan, just let it grow freely.

From a sociological point of view, man is the sum total of all social relations. How could Zhao Xiaoxiang be selfless? She told Zimu that her father should be the pillar of the family and play a very important role in the family. Zhao Xiaoyan wants to pursue better material living conditions, hopes to provide more living security for her family, and she wants to realize greater value in life. How could Zhao Xiaoxiang really get rid of the shackles of human sophistication and secular worldliness?

Zhao Xiaoyan herself is still sinking in the world, but she blindly blames Li Zimu for not wanting to make progress, she imposes everything she wants on Li Zimu, but never asks Zimu if this life is what he wants. Zhao Xiaoyan always said that Zimu didn't consider her feelings when doing things, but how could she have considered Li Zimu's feelings herself?

Yes, Li Zimu is also a human being, a person of flesh and blood, a person with a mind and a soul, he should have the life he wants. Zhao Xiaoyan has always selectively ignored that Li Zimu is not anyone's lover, not anyone's father, he is just himself first.

Zhao Xiaoxiang only talked about his spiritual pursuits, but kept silent about his inner desire for the material level; She just saw her persistence, dedication and expectation for Zimu in her relationship, but she left behind her constant demand for Zimu's feelings. How noble is Zhao Xiaoyan's love for Li Zimu? She knew in her heart that many things in the world were unspoken.

Love should be unconditional giving, not blindly taking, can't Zhao Xiaoyan do what Li Zimu said for him to never look for a lover for the rest of his life? Won't his love for Zimu be slowly diluted by time? Who can guarantee that they will love only one person in their life?

It's just that Zhao Xiaoxiang suddenly felt that as Li Zimu said, maybe being an ordinary person is also amazing, and being an ordinary person is already super powerful......