Chapter 117: You Can't Get Over That Hurdle in Your Heart
Jiang Li opened his mouth, but he was speechless for a while, it turned out that this kind of getting along day and night, eating and living together was cultivating feelings, it seemed that it was, before
Yes, when I was in Daqi before, I didn't get along day and night, why didn't I see such a disturbing thing?
So she asked, "In the past, when I was in Daqi, I didn't get along with you day and night?" ”
This question is really. Lin Luo didn't want to answer, maybe her heart was upset at this time, so the questions she asked were very unstandard, she looked stupid, and even had some words to say.
"It's not the same. In the past, you and I were masters and servants, monarchs and ministers, even if we got along day and night, even if we really cultivated feelings, it was only the feelings of masters and servants, the feelings of kings and ministers. ”
Even the reason why you and I got along together at the beginning was because of this past acquaintance.
I think you need my help. You were unacquainted and at a loss for the world, and it was the best choice for you to settle down with me. ”
"But in modern times, our status is equal, after these six months of getting along, the relationship between you and me has long been different, even if we haven't known each other in Daqi for more than ten years, we can still get along very well.
It's no longer the past that maintains our relationship, but the newly cultivated feelings in the past six months, but I admit it, but you don't admit it. ”
Newly cultivated feelings.
Jiang Li frowned, when was it cultivated? How was it cultivated?
Do you have fun with yourself from time to time on weekdays? Is it to eat and live together, to go shopping, buy groceries, set up stalls, and cook together? Is it the brown sugar ginger water boiled in the name of warding off the cold every time you come to the decucate water? Or is it the sweetness you taste every time you take sugar from that bucket?
Or is it all the bits and pieces that have been getting along these days?
Jiang Li was thinking very hard, trying to get a glimpse of how the so-called feelings were cultivated from the relationship in the past six months, but the more he thought about it, the more he felt that his brain was messed up.
Because everything this does seems to be cultivating feelings.
Seeing her pensive, Lin Luo didn't say anything more, in fact, he didn't want to talk about this, at least not now. What he envisions is to boil frogs in warm water, go with the flow, and slowly cultivate feelings in the daily bits and pieces, and then everything will fall into place.
Unfortunately, the water had just been boiled a little warmer before the frog spotted it, which led to these conversations. He couldn't help but wonder, if everything was said, would this face-loving tsundere frog think of jumping out of the pot?
Or do you want to increase the heat and complete this process of boiling frogs in one fell swoop?
After a long time, Jiang Li finally whispered: "I didn't deny it. In the past few months, we have indeed cultivated some new feelings between you and me, but this is not the relationship between men and women, the friendship between you and me should be friends. ”
Lin Luo didn't rush to answer, he had already arrived downstairs, he opened the unit door, let Jiang Li go in first, and then flashed in, as the unit door behind him closed, there was a bang, and at the same time, he also asked out loud: "Have you ever had friends before?" ”
“.”
These words touched Jiang Li's soul, and she was silent for a few seconds: "No." ”
"You don't have friends, so you think we're friends?"
Lin Luo tilted his head to look at her, "Or can you tell the difference between the love of men and women and friendship?" ”
“.”
Jiang Li pursed his lips and said nothing.
Lin Luo didn't ask, but said: "Friends are not like us, but to say that there is a relationship between you and me, it is not necessarily true." ”
Jiang Li was a little surprised by his words, and tilted his head to look at him.
Lin Luo also turned his head and looked back, "Is it unexpected?" But that's not the case, so I don't need to be arguing about it and look like I'm PUA. ”
Jiang Li frowned and said: "I've heard you say this many times, and I've always been puzzled by it, but I think it probably refers to your behavior of guiding me, haven't you been doing this?" ”
"PUA means that you understand it that way, and that's pretty much it." Lin Luo took out the key from his pocket and opened the door, "But I told you for a long time just now, and the purpose is not to PUA you, so as to make you feel that we already have a relationship between men and women." ”
Jiang Li followed him into the house, watched Lin Luo turn on the light in the living room, and asked aloud, "Then what is your purpose?" ”
"I just want you to admit your heart. What do you think we've been doing these days? ”
"Do what?"
"When we fall in love, at least we are already in the early stages of falling in love, although we are not yet in the relationship between men and women, but you and I already have a certain good feeling."
"I don't think so."
"Actually, you've found out, but you can't get over the hurdle in your heart, so you bite it to death and don't admit it."
“.” Jiang Li really didn't know how to answer this, as if he couldn't answer it right.
If you continue to deny it, you will become a hurdle in your heart that you can't get over, and you won't admit it. If admitted. Although it does seem like falling in love these days, it's just an image, and it's not real, maybe it's still an illusion.
So why admit it?
Lin Luo didn't continue to speak for a while, took off his coat, and threw it on the sofa.
In fact, he can understand Jiang Li's psychology very well, as an emperor in the past, not only could not be interested in love, but felt very resistant.
After all, the education she received since she was a child and the cognition she has established for a long time have long formed an inherent thinking in her mind - as an emperor, she must not be immersed in the love of her children.
Now she no longer regards herself as the emperor, but her identity has changed, but her psychology has not changed for a while.
For example, today's mode of getting along, the feeling of being close or far, wanting to refuse and welcome, is clearly the initial stage of men and women falling in love. It's just that after she realized this, she couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart, and she was even more reluctant to admit that she was actually in love.
So she pushed four, five or six, saying that this was guided by herself, she was very confused, and she just passively accepted it, so as to get used to it.
Throw all the pot on yourself and refuse to consume yourself.
Jiang Li also took off the down jacket on his body, turned his head to look at him, and retorted: "You keep saying that I can't get over the hurdle in my heart, and you say that I am in love with you, I don't think so, but I think you are PUA me again." ”
"Don't just learn a word and use it blindly, this is not called PUA, this is a frank truth."
"Besides, if you can really admit it generously, you won't talk to me one by one, and you won't throw the pot at me, saying that I am guiding you or something."
"Then I will not call me what you call me in the future."
"Whatever you want."
Seeing Lin Luo's indifferent look, Jiang Li felt even more irritable, so he simply entered the room and slammed the door shut.
(End of chapter)