"I'll admit that you're in a big mess. ”

Li Mai also said with a smile, "From a certain point of view, caring is chaotic. If you care too much about her and care too much about her, you will be too afraid of losing her. So once she doesn't answer the phone and doesn't reply to the message, even if she responds later, it will make you keep guessing that she is this and that...... I can't guess what you know, you have to figure it out for yourself. But that's the truth. ”

Of course, it is also possible that she does have a zài problem. Because generally speaking, a woman in love can't wait to be with her boyfriend every day, and it is rare that she will not answer the phone. ”

After a pause, Li Mai said, "Actually, you can think like this. All your speculation is because you, for her, don't trust her enough. Then you can change your perspective and think again on the premise of absolute trust. In this way, what she tells you is true. I'm really busy with work, I'm really tired and don't want to go out. There must also be such women. In my opinion, a woman with an ego doesn't think about the feelings of others. That she's yours, to be honest, I feel it from your description. ”

Tang Zheng became more and more frightened, and said, "Brother Mai, in this way, am I looking for the wrong person, in fact, she is not suitable for me." ”

Shaking his head slowly, Li Mai said, "You can't say that. On the contrary, for you, in terms of emotions alone, you have found the right person. But feelings are a matter of two people, you treat her like this, the question is whether she is like this to you, at least enough to love you. In fact, once you figure this out, you can just let it go, and the rest is easy to solve. ”

"The key is whether she really loves me, when I know I already love her. Tang Zheng summed it up and said, "Is that what you mean?"

Li Mai smiled and nodded.

"In love, it is you who test her and she who test you, constantly testing each other, and the sea of suffering is endless. Li Mai said with emotion.

Tang Zheng asked, "Brother Mai, is this the same thing about chasing your sister-in-law before?"

Shaking his head, Li Mai said, "I'm more special with your sister-in-law. We didn't really fall in love, except on the day we proposed, and we didn't even go on a date alone. There's no way, with a drag oil bottle, two people can't have a little privacy. ”

Tang Zheng smiled and said, "But I think my sister-in-law values Haohao more, in fact, we have seen it a long time ago, and my sister-in-law is a good mother." ”

With a bitter smile, Li Mai said, "So I said that I am more special with her." Because her son knew her, and because her son came together, and then she began to understand. The whole process is reversed from a relationship in general. ”

"I also want to have a son. Tang Zheng said enviously and worriedly, "This year, watching Hao Hao grow up slowly, I have found more and more that life is really magical, and I think it is the greatest meaning of life to grow up with a new life." ”

After nodding at him, Li Mai said, "It seems that you have the potential to be a daddy, your perception is very profound, and you will be a good daddy in the future." ”

Shaking his head with a wry smile, Tang Zheng said, "It's difficult, her parents strongly oppose it, and I'm worried about whether she can withstand the pressure." Too many couples have parted ways because of family opposition. ”

"Not necessarily a bad thing. Li Mai said, "You should regard it as the first pass, if you can pass it, you will get up smoothly in the future." ”

"I hope I can get through this without a hitch. Tang Zheng said, and then asked, "Brother Mai, when do you think I should confess my true situation to her?"

After thinking about it, Li Mai said, "Don't be in a hurry, take a step and look at a step." At least their family has to accept your status as a poor boy before they can accept your current ...... The identity of the rich and handsome. ”

Smiling, Li Mai said, "Marriage is a matter of two families, or a fusion of two circles of friends." Have you seen her colleagues or friends?"

Tang Zheng shook his head, becoming more and more frightened in his heart.

"I've known each other ......for more than two months," Li Mai said in a deep voice, "If she takes you as her boyfriend, she will want her friends to know about your savings and be willing to take you out." People have a subconscious show-off mentality, and when they get a good thing, they always want more people to know about it. ”

Tang Zheng's expression became stern, and he said, "She never mentioned these things. To this day, the circle between me and her is completely separate. I mentioned taking her to meet my friends, but she didn't say yes. ”

Shrugging his shoulders, Li Mai said, "It's obvious. At least she's hesitant to deny you. After a pause, seeing Tang Zheng's heartbroken expression, Li Mai couldn't bear it and said, "Alas, there is no equal love." Either you love her more or she loves you more, you love her more, the initiative is in her hands, and the uncomfortable role can only be played by you. ”

Tang Zheng eased his feelings, of course he didn't want to be too vulnerable in front of the big boss, even if the personal relationship was very good. He said, "Brother Mai, I think it's too hard to fall in love, and my heart is very tired. ”

"So in fact, people are very cheap, but it is precisely because of this that humans and other animals are more advanced. Li Mai smiled slightly, "You don't have to be in a hurry, get along slowly, concentrate on falling in love when you fall in love, don't rush to get the topic of marriage into it first." ”

He also emphasized: "Be cautious when you get married." ”

Tang Zheng nodded thoughtfully, and said, "Brother Mai, I'm much better now." I talked to you, and I wasn't confused. I think I know how to move on with her. Let it be, it's my can't run, it's not my strength that can't stay. ”

Such words can only serve the purpose of self-comfort. Li Mai smiled and shook his head slightly, "You have to fight for everything by yourself, and inaction will only lead to failure." The same applies to finding a wife. Your sister-in-law and I have hesitated before, and I almost lost her because of it. Opportunities are often only once, so cherish them. ”

Tang Zheng was confused again and asked, "Brother Mai, do you mean to say that I want to cherish her?"

Smiling helplessly, Li Mai said, "It is said that people in love have low IQs, and it seems that there is some truth in this." Xiao Tang, it is you who are in love with her, whether she is someone you should cherish or not, only you know in your heart. When I say that, I just want to tell you that kind of truth, understand?"

Tang Zheng was stunned for a moment, then quickly reacted, and said with a wry smile, "It's indeed a little sluggish." ”

Shaking his head helplessly, Li Mai stood up and said, "Okay, don't think so much, it's time to go on a date, what to do, and solve the problems one by one." Go back, I have to coax your sister-in-law to take a nap, and come to me anytime if you have something. ”

Tang Zheng then stood up, "Okay, Brother Mai, then I'll go first." ”

"Go ahead. ”

sent Tang Zheng to the front yard, watched him drive away, and sighed helplessly, and secretly said in his heart, these people under his command can toss one by one, and they clearly drive a good car of six or seven hundred thousand, but they say that they usually go to work and crowd the bus......

"This Xiao Tang usually looks like a very well-behaved person, but I didn't expect him to be a master of pretending to be a master......"