What's the most vicious way to abolish someone? After reading it, your back trembles.

Let's listen to a few stories to let you know how ruthless people who understand gambling are.

Story 1: If someone says bad things about you behind your back and you happen to hear you, you can quietly take out your mobile phone, turn on the recording function, and then send the audio to this WeChat group of all of you. At the same time, don't forget to mention that someone sent me this audio, everyone should listen to it. The people who say bad things about you will come and ask who sent you, and if you keep silent, they will be suspicious of each other, disagree, rifts, and internal disintegration. This story comes from the game theory of discord.

Story 2, when he was cold and depressed, he hurriedly sat under a big tree to enjoy the shade, and a child on the tree deliberately peed on his head, Han Xin not only did not get angry, but also gave the child a few pennies. After Han Xin left, another person came to rest under the tree, and the child urinated on the person's head again, the man got up and drew his knife and waved, the child's life was gone, and he wanted to let him die before making him mad. This story comes from the art of slashing in game theory.

Story 3, during World War II, the pass rate of the US military's parachute was 99.9%, which means that for every 1,000 people who parachuted, one person would die because the parachute was unqualified. No matter how the U.S. military requires manufacturers to achieve a 100% pass rate, the person in charge of the manufacturer always says that they have done their best, and 99.9% is already the limit, unless a miracle happens. As a result, the U.S. military changed the acceptance system, and each time a few parachutes were randomly selected from the delivered parachutes and asked the person in charge of the manufacturer to parachute for testing. Since then, a miracle has really appeared, and the pass rate immediately reached 100%, which is the disaster in game theory.

Story 4, Cao Cao is suspicious by nature, and he is always afraid that someone will murder him when he sleeps. One night, Cao Cao was sleeping in the tent, the quilt fell to the ground, a guard came to help Cao Cao cover the quilt, Cao Cao jumped up, drew his sword and killed the guard, and went to bed to continue sleeping. After waking up, Cao Cao deliberately asked, who killed the guard? So the people around him told him what happened. Cao Cao wept bitterly and ordered the guards to be buried. From then on, no one dared to approach Cao Cao when he slept. This story comes from the game theory of killing chickens and monkeys.

Story 5: A pair of Tibetan mastiffs from the Shang Dynasty in ancient times returned home. One day, the Tibetan mastiff bit to death the eight-year-old loyal dog of Dr. Wang's house next door, and the rich businessman not only did not lose money, but also humiliated him in public, which made Dr. Wang lose face. One day, Dr. Wang saw an official and said that your disease is not difficult to treat, but there is a blind medicine that is difficult to find, that is, you need Tibetan mastiff bones to make medicine, and without him to do medicine, the effect will be greatly reduced. After saying that, he left. That night, the Tibetan mastiff of the wealthy merchant was somehow killed, and a few bones were missing. This story comes from the game theory of murder with a knife.

Story 6: Seeing that the balance of the 11th holiday was insufficient, my friend Dalin complained to me with a sad face: "I found that I had a 'waste' break, and the thought of going to work at the end of the holiday made me feel uncomfortable......"

I asked her what she was doing during the holidays, and she said:

"Holidays, it's used to be idle, sleep until three o'clock in the morning every day, wake up and order takeout, watch TV series, brush up on short videos, and before you know it's night again. I ordered another supper, played games, and soon it was early in the morning, until I was too sleepy to play the game, so I went back to sleep...... Except for attending meals and buying snacks, it is easy not to go downstairs. If you don't have to go out, you don't even brush your teeth or wash your hair......"

After listening to it, I told her: "As soon as you have freedom, you will enjoy and squander it desperately, this way of vacation, who will you waste!?" ”

Mr. Hu Shi once said:

"Your leisure often determines your life."

There are 10,000 ways to spend leisure time, take the eleventh holiday as an example, some people are excited to travel with their partners; Some people are at home with their families and babies, enjoying rare parent-child time; Some people read, bake, recharge themselves, and run their own comfortable little days......

And if you spend the day idle, enjoying, doing nothing.

By the time the holidays have passed, you'll have a lazy, unimproved self.

As the saying goes, "The quickest way to get rid of a person is to leave him idle all day!" ”

Story 6: In real life, the best way to "abolish" a person is to get him used to making excuses for himself, for example, it's not my problem, it's someone else's bad; It's not my problem, it's that the growth environment is not good enough; It's not my problem, it's that other people's abilities are too low...... Excuses such as these run rampant in people's actions, making a person farther and farther away from success and closer and closer to abolition.

Someone may say, "I'm just looking for excuses to complain or comfort myself, how can it affect the overall picture of success?" How can it be scrapped? "But really? Imagine if you want to relax your arms because your hands are too sore, or you want to stop because your feet are too tired, what will happen if you are climbing? Obviously, it is easy to cause people to slip into place in a small relaxation, or even break their bones, and lose the opportunity to climb again! Therefore, if you want to be successful, you can't have excuses, and the sign of a person's "abolition" is to get used to making excuses for yourself!

Making excuses can be seen everywhere in our daily life and work, such as not completing the things to be done in a day, but I really want to sleep, or want to play games, I will tell myself to leave it for tomorrow, it doesn't matter, it's too late today, and the benefit of continuing to do it is not high, so I can sleep peacefully or play with peace of mind. I got up late the next morning, and there were all kinds of excuses, the alarm clock didn't go off, the road was too congested, I was unlucky and didn't get to the car in time, or I was too tired yesterday, I slept late, etc.

If you find too many excuses, people will develop the habit of making excuses, and people will become accustomed to using excuses to cover up the truth in everything. And people who have developed the habit of making excuses usually do only two things: it's none of my business, and that's none of my business. This kind of person has a reason for whatever happens. If things are not done well, it is not a problem of ability, but a problem of the thing itself. It is not without fault that such a person fails to succeed or become wasted, but is accustomed to using excuses to cover up his mistakes.

The habit of making excuses can easily lead people to form a life attitude of wanting to save face and shirk responsibility. If you have the opportunity to talk to this type of person, you will find that the way they speak is always to speak badly and feel sorry for themselves. Eventually, such a person will turn into a truly wasted person in self-pity. So, to be successful, we must not be like that. In normal times, we can learn more from setbacks, find ways in failures, and find opportunities when we are proud, instead of using excuses to prevaricate everything.

In addition, the habit of making excuses is to transfer the responsibility that should be borne to society or others, and once we have the habit of making excuses, then our sense of responsibility will also disappear with the excuses. At first, finding excuses and calculating is just to fight for personal petty interests, but over time, when it becomes a habit, interests for the sake of interests, and calculations for the sake of calculation, it will make people become narrow-minded and selfish, and then gradually go to the road of abolishing themselves.

"There are no excuses to succeed", this is also the most important code of conduct pursued by the United States Military Academy at West Point for 2 0 0 years, and it is the first concept that West Point teaches to every freshman. He reinforces that every student tries their best to complete any task, rather than making excuses for not completing the task, even if it seems reasonable. With this philosophy in mind, countless pastry graduates have gone on to achieve extraordinary things in all areas of their lives. The purpose of West Point is to let students understand that no matter what kind of environment they encounter, they must learn to be responsible for all their actions! There are many outstanding people who are the most perfect interpreters and executors of the idea of West Point, such as the great General Patton.

In short, excuses are a breeding ground for failure, a sign of a person's abolition, it will make people not see their own shortcomings, and they are accustomed to evading responsibility. In fact, everyone will make mistakes, everyone will fail, and when they don't do well, they will be brave enough to take responsibility.

If you feel that you have no heart, you are always cheated by others, and you can't make money, it is all because you don't know anything about human nature.

If you know how to abolish people, you must do how not to be abolished.