Many people may ask, "According to this statement, if you encounter a problem, don't you think about it?"

There are also people who will deliberately make things difficult: "You can have what you want, mental thinking is so important, then I have been thinking about money, why hasn't the money come? I have always wanted a few wives, why don't I have it? This is simply nonsense." ”

Let's start with the first question, positive thinking is not to let us ignore the problem, but to actively think about the benefits, everything is one and two, from the problem, what can we learn? When encountering challenges, we believe that we will be able to break through, encounter difficulties, we firmly believe that everything will pass, and we always maintain hope for the future.

If you want to get anything other than thinking, you also need to go all out, if you want to take off, you must push the lever to the full, if you only push 99 percent, then you won't get it, without the courage to break the boat, it can only be regarded as nothing, in that case, money, love, career will not have.

Not only that, but on the premise of going all out, we also need to constantly adjust and be consistent in the process of achieving our dreams, are we intimidated by difficulties? While thinking about having money, have we asked ourselves? Do we want it, or do we want it very much? Or do we have to get it, or do we have to get it?

Why were we able to come out of the 100th floor of the labyrinth? Because we persevered, no matter the hundreds or thousands of failures we encountered along the way, we always maintained a firm faith, thought is the cause, and the environment is the effect. Without good thoughts, there are no good results.

Look at the people around us. Gabby, Kir, Troll, Odin, Thor, and others, they have achieved more than us. There are also those who have lower achievements than us, except for their personal intelligence, why are they different from us? This is that they can't always believe in themselves, otherwise the achievements of Gabby and others will be higher than ours, and Odin and other great gods would have been able to destroy the universe in a single hand.

What are the benefits of a positive mindset? Let's listen to this little story.

In a kingdom, among the king's many ministers, one of them was particularly wise, and he had the distinctive specialty of being able to support absolutely positive ideas at all times and in all places. No matter what happens, he is always willing to look at the good side of things and reject the negative aspects.

Because of this positive attitude towards everything, he did deal with many difficult matters for the king, and he was respected by the king for everything, and he needed to be consulted in everything.

The king loved hunting, and once accidentally injured himself while chasing his prey and broke an index finger, the king was in severe pain, and immediately called in the wise minister. Ask him for his opinion on the accidental finger severance.

The Minister of Wisdom still maintained his style, and told the king with ease that it should be a good thing, and advised the king to think on the positive side. When the king heard this, he was furious. Thinking that the Minister of Wisdom was mocking himself, he immediately ordered the soldiers to take him down and put him in prison.

Wait until the wound of the severed finger has healed. The king forgot about it, and went about hunting in high spirits. Unexpectedly. Misfortune is not alone, the king actually led a team into an ancient tribe.

According to the custom of this tribe. The leader of the two men and horses had to be sacrificed alive to their gods, so they took the king and placed him on the altar, and just as the ceremony was about to begin, the presiding wizard suddenly screamed.

It turned out that the sorcerer had discovered that the king had severed his index finger, and according to the laws of their tribe, it was damned to sacrifice an incomplete sacrifice to the gods. They hurriedly removed the king from the altar, expelled him from the house, and captured a fellow minister to sacrifice him.

The king returned to the court in a wolf manner, rejoicing that he had not died, and suddenly remembered that the wise minister had said that it was indeed a good thing to have his finger severed, and immediately released him from prison and apologized to him in person.

The Minister of Wisdom still maintained his positive attitude, smiled and forgave the king, and said that this qiē was a good thing.

Unconvinced, the king asked, "It is a good thing to say that I have severed my fingers, and now I can accept it." But if I say that because I misunderstood you, I put you in prison and suffered, is that also a good thing?"

The Minister of Wisdom replied with a smile: "Of course it is a good thing that the minister is in prison. If I hadn't been in prison today, who would have been the minister who would accompany you on the hunt?"

There must be two sides to everything, so why don't we follow the example of this wise minister and choose to face life with a positive attitude?

Practice has proved that a positive mindset is not innate, it can be cultivated through our conscious awareness, and the cultivation of a positive mindset can generally be divided into eight steps.

1. Spend more time with optimists and don't waste time on top of sadness.

2. Change idioms. Don't say, "I'm really tired." And to say, "I've been busy cultivating for a day, and now I'm in a really relaxed mood." Don't say, "Why don't they want to figure it out?" but say, "Give it to me, I know what to do." ”

3. Learn lobsters. At some point in its growth, the lobster sheds its protective hard shell on its own, making it vulnerable to enemies, but it can effectively defend itself until it grows a new shell. It is normal to have changes in life, and every time we change, we will always encounter strange and unexpected events, so don't hide and make yourself more cowardly. On the contrary, we must dare to deal with dangerous situations and develop firm faith in strange events that we have not seen and that are beyond our knowledge.

4. Pay attention to your own life. Instead of saying that swallowing a mouthful of poison yao can lead to liberation, we should firmly believe that self-confidence can get through the difficulties.

5. Engage in beneficial recreational and educational activities. Watch the natural beauty, play fun and meaningful games, and convey your optimism to everyone and warm their hearts.

6. In fantasies, reflections, and conversations. The timetable xiàn shows that we are in good health, even if we are stabbed eighteen times. We can also laugh and say, I'm fine. Ahem. But remember to treat it promptly.

7. Whether it is our loved ones, friends, or even strangers, we have to show our faith and pass on our faith to others.

8. Take time out to develop your confidence, travel around, and get together with close friends. Reading our favorite novels, humming a few favorite songs, having dinner with our siblings, etc., these beautiful scenes can help us regain our confidence.

If we don't even believe in ourselves, then that's the worst thing, and it's much more important than not being able to improve after a hundred years of cultivation.

In the process of hard work, we will inevitably be knocked down by difficulties, which will lead to doubts about our own abilities, especially when the situation is particularly difficult. Little devils are always able to take advantage of the situation, we should continue to work hard, we must not be discouraged, and firmly believe that this qiē is an ordeal before success. Wealth is not available now. Just to get more wealth in the future, it is impossible to find a beloved partner now, this is just to be able to find the most suitable person in the future. There is no way to break through now, it's just for a blowout after accumulation.

A positive mindset can turn a coward into a hero. Because they adhere to the principle of turning weakness into strength.

In a small town, a young boy named Jim. When he was ten years old, because of a serious illness, this little boy who loves sports lost his precious legs, but he was very strong-willed, he smiled and said to others: "Hehe, I can cut myself a few times in the leg in the future, none of you can do it." ”

Because of his talent, he was recruited by an academy and became an administrator, and his courage and perseverance were quickly passed on to the participants, and one day he did not participate in the training, and later the doctor informed everyone that he would not live for half a month.

Because of his encouragement and cheering, the team held a record of complete victories, and at the celebration banquet one day, the students thanked him, but the pain in his eyes made him unable to eat. And he smiled and said to everyone, "Don't you know I'm on a diet? ”

Seven days later, on the day the team competed in the Grand Finals, Jim came to the scene and said goodbye to everyone with tears in his eyes. When he walked out of the gate of the competition venue, he turned his head and looked at the dozen students and coaches with a calm and determined gaze. "Goodbye, guys!"

"You mean we'll see you tomorrow, don't you?" the crowd asked.

Jim's eyes lit up, and his determined gaze turned into a smile: "Don't worry about me, I'm fine!" With that, he left the arena.

Two days later, Jim died.

Isn't he still dead, one might ask, and what does a positive attitude help him? This statement is not entirely true, he creates an uplifting and warm feeling in the worst of circumstances, and he doesn't want an ostrich to bury his head in the desert and escape from the facts. He decided not to be knocked down by the disease, and he was never knocked down, although his life was so short, but he cherished it very much, and left courage, faith, laughter, and happiness in the hearts of those he knew forever, a person who can do this, who can say that his life is a failure?

Everyone's fate is different, but the person who really controls the fate should be ourselves, our own mentality, only by maintaining a positive attitude, then no matter what kind of difficulties we encounter, we can burst out more powerful in the later stage.

We've all had a lot of experience building weapons, so I'm going to ask, have we ever encountered a situation before, that is, when we start building a red-hot iron bar, we will think about making a peerless magic weapon, but we will not be satisfied, and then we will rebuild it, until finally the material is scrapped, and maybe we can only put it in a cold water tank. Have you ever thought about it: "Hey, it's not bad, I can also make a hissing sound on this 10,000-year-old cold iron." ”

How many times have we failed in cultivating for tens of hundreds, or even tens of thousands of years? Can we give up our dreams after repeated failures, or stop dreaming? When we have a positive attitude, how can the world not bow down to us? Our principles remain the same, and we are the masters of our own destiny! (Do you want to know more exciting news about "The Wrath of the Fashen"?) Open WeChat now, click on the "+" sign in the upper right corner, select Add Friends to add the official account, and search for "Qidianzhongwenwang" ,Pay attention to the public account,Never miss every update!read2002)(To be continued......)