Cultivating a positive heart is the most important part of our lives. Positivity includes all positive traits such as self-confidence, hope, optimism, courage, kindness, and generosity...... People who have a positive attitude towards life must have lofty goals and work tirelessly to achieve them.

In fact, being positive is a kind of initiative, a rare virtue that drives us to do what we should do without being told to do it.

Although some people have an enterprising spirit and have grown from an ordinary person to a Fa Saint or even a Fa Saint, if they encounter too many setbacks, they will lose confidence, you think about it, how many cultivators are smarter than us? How many cultivators have cultivated for thousands of years or tens of thousands of years more than me? In everyone's life, everyone is the protagonist in their own life.

They stood out from the sea of people before, did they rely on the aura of the protagonist? Adventures? No, no, these are some gifts, and they can't be a long-term solution, what really works is consistent persistence, adhere to an optimistic attitude, so that they can face unknown dangers and reach the peak of cultivation!

There is a saying that character determines fate, and character is not innate, it is all created by ourselves, so let's learn "The Capital of Life"

Generally speaking: morality reflects a person's ideological quality and moral outlook, and determines the direction of personal development. Cognition reflects the accuracy and profundity of an individual's judgment and analysis of things, and reflects the individual's strength and weakness in terms of ability. Learning reflects the breadth and depth of a person's knowledge. And character. It reflects the individual's mind, measure, will, temperament and temperament. Together, they form the inner su zhì of a person.

The guidance and domination of any person's own behavior is determined by the whole inner element of the person. A defect in any one of these aspects weakens the whole inner element.

In order for a person to fully explore his or her talents, he must have a certain good character. Generally speaking, the list of good character traits is the following six points:

1. They can work hard for a long time, even when there is little hope, they can persevere to the end.

2. Have a tenacious desire for knowledge.

3. Be assertive in everything, and do not take the methods instructed by others as your own principles.

4。 Ambitious, unwilling to waste his life.

5. Be confident and dare to insist on your own opinions.

6. Energetic, energetic, and always passionate.

As long as we overcome the unhealthy dispositions of dependence and obedience, strict self-esteem, weak will, lack of perseverance, and greed for happiness, we can fully discover our talents and become excellent gods.

Seeding behavior. Harvest habits, sow habits, harvest character, sow character. Harvest destiny. Our destiny, while not chosen, is not predetermined, and we cannot choose our birth and circumstances. But we can change our minds. When you encounter setbacks, it's about giving up on your efforts. Willing to be mediocre, or can you go on with perseverance? Only by grasping your own character. In order to truly grasp their own destiny and grasp their own life.

So how is our character formed?

The formation of the rudiments of personality begins with how parents educate and what the family environment is, whether there is love, trust, respect, and how to contact relatives and others, whether a person is constantly liked by people when he is a child, or does he live in an environment that is neglected and disliked by others? Personality is not good or bad, and most of this depends on the living environment when he was a child, and if he receives more love from an early age, he has a greater chance of having a good character in the future, and vice versa.

Assuming that we have a bad personality, we can also change it through guò, and now we will decipher the style index of charm.

When it comes to charm, people often associate such physical impressions as beauty and youth, but the concept of charm is no longer so simple and intuitive. Charm is no longer only for appearance, but also for life attitude, life, personality and taste. Here are some tips we can take to increase our charisma:

1. No matter what we look like, when communicating with others, expressions are the most efficient communication, and natural and rich expressions can make us appear frank, cute, and attractive.

2. Dress lightly, generously and decently.

3. Fresh breath, sitting and standing in style.

4. Blindly following the general trend will make us disgusted and ignored, and only those who maintain themselves moderately and dare to insist on their own opinions can be unique and gregarious.

5. The magic weapon of men and the charm of women are humorous conversations.

Charm is an intangible asset for us, it is not innate, when cultivating, we can also increase the charm index from the following aspects.

1. Don't be impetuous, let yourself feel music, sculpture, art, poetry and other artistic atmospheres when you have time.

2. Master popular tastes, and there are popular elements in all aspects of life, such as ritual tools, exercises, food, hairstyles, clothes, etc., and do not blindly follow.

3. Energetic mental state.

4. Have at least one proud specialty.

5. Enjoy solitude.

6. Healthy body.

In addition to being in contact with relatives such as parents since childhood, we will also encounter a problem - marriage. How to manage our marriage well is also the focus.

There is an amazing, but true, fact that husbands should treat their wives with respect and wives to their husbands, that the only people who speak ugly, insulting, and hurtful words to us are our lovers and relatives. For example, if we accidentally step on a stranger's foot, we will sincerely apologize, but if it is a family member, this situation may happen - you are blind, do you want to trample me to death?

Before we get married, we need to keep our eyes open, after we get married. We should close our eyes. And with patience and forbearance in your heart.

By cultivating in love, we can trust each other, communicate openly, have common goals, and not hurt each other. Able to cope with the outside world with all their might. From here, we can see how important it is to choose a partner and manage your future married life.

From my two lives. After experiencing different cultural backgrounds, I still think that if a person wants to achieve a career, he must have influence, and the expression of influence is good interpersonal relationships. Be a person first, do things second, learn second, and talent last. It is no exaggeration to say that without you and the support of the thousands of brothers in the demon moon, I would be a scumbag, even if I became a demon genius through Guò Elandi. The results will not change.

We don't know how many times more lifespan than ordinary people, and there are even more creatures that need to be contacted.

And we are now going to look at Guò's magnum opus, The Greatest Power, to understand a great power that we are born with.

From the moment we have life, we have the right to choose, and everything we do is a choice. Without it, we can't think and act autonomously.

People always have a strong sense of control. If we want to control not only ourselves, but also others, we need to understand it if we want not to be at the mercy of others. We are constantly struggling with life. Because we make choices, right or wrong, our lives are up to us. Here's a little story to illustrate this point:

There is a wise man. He was known for his prophetic abilities, and one day. Two young men went to him, and they wanted to fool the wise man. So they came up with this idea: one of them had a chick in his right hand and asked the wise man, "O wise man, I have a little bird in my right hand, please tell me if this bird is dead or alive?"

If the wise man answers that it is dead, then the young man holding the bird only needs to pinch it to death, and if the wise man answers that it is alive, then the young man can also spread his hand and let the bird fly. Convinced that their plan was perfect, the two young men set off for the Wise Man's house. In their minds, there are only two answers.

Soon, they met the wise man as they wished, and played this little trick, and then the wise man smiled and said, "I tell you, my friend, that the life or death of the little bird depends entirely on your hand!"

Many people know that the choice is in place, but they don't dare to make a decision for their future because they don't know the way. Because of this, many people lose the opportunity to dream and spend their lives in mediocrity, because they don't know that no matter whether we have a way or not, we have to make a choice, and the worst thing is that someone else makes a choice for us.

Do you remember those familiar people? Some people come from very good backgrounds, they are either rich or expensive, but they all face the same problem, that is, their parents who have achieved something, or their elders will have unique opinions, and many of them will be affected, such as which academy they studied in since childhood, whether to be a mage or a warrior, whether to cultivate or become an official.

Those elders have a set of systematic plans, invisibly made choices for the younger generations, if these plans are really in line with their own situation, it is fine, but a large number of facts have proved that this is wrong, whether it is our relatives or not, our lives must be decided by ourselves. Otherwise, they will only be reduced to a beautiful puppet, which is the origin of most of the gentlemen and tsundere daughters, who have lost themselves because they do not have to go through the painful process of choice, and of course, their achievements are very limited.

There is also a category of people, they don't obey anyone's orders for anything, they forget that the wisdom of their elders is summed up from life, which can make people take many detours, and the result of these two people is standing still. People who can really make a difference will learn to judge the pros and cons of the two, so as to make the right choice. (To be continued......)