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Modern people always pretend to be confused in terms of feelings, and many people suffer a lot in their relationships, and when they break up, they have to ask each other if they have loved each other.

Not to mention that the posture is ugly, it is clear that the answer in my heart has eight points before I ask it.

In my opinion, love is instinctive, even if you desperately pretend to be cold, you will still be seen by the other party and unconsciously wagging your tail behind you.

Love is the warmth that can be felt, and if you can't feel it, you probably have to accept the fact that he may not care about you that much.

The most secure thing in the world is to be favored. Love yourself starts with financial independence.

When there is no love, make a living first and make yourself financially independent.

When you have love, you should also pay attention to yourself, improve and enrich yourself.

Some time ago, a sister who had just graduated came to talk to me, and she said: She has always been in love with boys in the same class in college, and usually participates in club activities and libraries together.

I didn't socialize much during college, and I didn't improve myself, I always thought that love was bigger than the sky, and I was full of love.

After graduating, I realized that the reality was cruel. I can't do anything without money, I want to find a good job, I find that my ability is poor, I look for a job for a long time, and finally find it, but the money I earn is just enough for basic expenses. In the blink of an eye, it is the end of the year, looking back on 2020, health has become the topic that everyone is most concerned about this year. Illness and accidents are inevitable, and we can only prepare in advance to keep our good life from being disturbed.

Immediately afterwards, the silver kettle, known as the "health pot", gradually appeared in people's field of vision: the silver kettle has been a royal thing since ancient times. Nowadays, the silver kettle has gradually become a "rookie" in the tea set market, and the root of it is that more people are beginning to realize the health benefits of the silver kettle.

So, how does the silver kettle maintain its health? Our biggest emotion about life should be that things are not people.

There is no eternal reunion in life, and on the road of fate, we will meet many people, and at the same time, we will experience many separations.

In the world of impermanence, there is always a lot of separation and integration, and many times, we only want to get together and do not want to separate, but many people around us are inadvertently scattered in the crowd.

What you can't go back to is the past, and what you can't keep is the scenery.

Learn to maintain your happiness, to be grateful, to keep turning your face to a place of light.

Over time, you naturally learn the ropes of living with joy. I hope that as soon as you stand up, people can see the brilliance of life from you. One season and one scene, four times of reincarnation. In our long lives, we look at spring flowers, catch summer fireflies, blow autumn winds, and enjoy winter snow.

In the spare time of life, after work, make an appointment with three or five friends, sing about wine, and have fun in time, why care about the geometry of life.

In life, there may be many helplessness, hopes, disappointments, longings, and hesitations, but happiness is the simplest and easiest thing in the world, so why not smile more?

Don't let your heart carry too much weight. If the heart is open, where is not the wind and clouds. We used to yearn for the waves of fate so much, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness of the heart. ”

Don't love the past, know how to let go:

Let go of the baggage: have an attitude of being kind to yourself;

Let go of laziness: have an item to stick to what you like;

Let go of negativity: have a yearning for the beauty of life;

Let go of the turbidity: Have a pure and loving heart.

Live up to the passing years and learn to cherish:

Cherish the encounter: be grateful to everyone who appears in life;

Cherish your feelings: thank the people who have been with you and supported you;

Cherish time: do not waste every minute of life's gifts;

Cherish the experience: Smile and face the hardships and ups and downs in life.

Don't admire flashiness, don't fight, don't grab, don't get stuck, don't entangle.

There will always be a time to drink tea alone, a person with a cup of tea, the heart is full or full of sorrow, there are always joys and sorrows in life, deep and shallow, but not everyone is lucky to meet someone who understands.

"Because you understand, you are compassionate. ”

Zhang Ailing, who said this, was finally a lonely guest in a foreign country, she had a prominent background and outstanding talent, but what she experienced was the loneliness of her parents divorced, her husband's change of heart, and drifting in a foreign country.

Zhang is destined to be lonely, she is an observer of this prosperous world, even if it is her lover, she only catches up with him when he leaves, and then allows him to return to his childhood mother ran away, tossed between China and Japan, at the age of twenty he cut his hair in a dilapidated temple in Huizhou and became a monk, and at the age of thirty-five he slept alone forever under the lonely mountain of Hangzhou's West Lake.

This lonely talent, proficient in many Chinese, has achieved great results in the field of literature and art, but he cut his hair and became a monk at the best of his years.

It's just that this monk is too affectionate: "Huayan Waterfall is thousands of feet high, not as good as Qingqing's love for me", "The new tea is boiled with hands, and the little maid can't bear to be frightened." ”

A monk should see through the red dust, but Su Manshu seems to be in deep love.

of the earthly world. Lonely people will feel that people are cold. As long as people's mentality is sunny and their enthusiasm is undiminished, their hearts will always be full of happiness and hope!

If you want to open some, there will always be a loss of life, there will always be a beautiful watch, in reality, there is a pride in life, but also a hidden vicissitudes of life.

Look down, there will always be the replacement of spring, summer, autumn and winter, there will always be a change of guard day and night, nature, recorded the cloudy and sunny, in life, recorded sweetness and sorrow. Several huts, with a collection of 10,000 volumes, are invested in the old village family.

What's going on in the mountains? Songhua liquor, spring water sencha.

——Zhang Kejiu, "The Full Moon: Books in the Mountains"

In a few thatched huts, with thousands of books hidden, I returned to live in the old village. What's going on in the mountains? Brew wine with pine flowers, and make tea with spring river water.

Every day I am full of interest to participate in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, I am still full of curiosity about all things in the world, all kinds of life, grass and trees, do not lose joy because of age, feel the poetry of life in the fireworks of the world, find the joy of life in a vegetable and a meal, and strive to make my life more interesting. Ambiguous and distant village, smoke in the ruins.

The dog barks in the deep alley, and the rooster cries in the mulberry tree.

——Tao Yuanming, "Returning to the Garden"

The shade of the elm willow tree covers the back eaves of the house, and the peaches and plums of the spring are lined up in front of the courtyard. Neighboring cottages were faintly visible in the distance, and smoke wafted from the villages.

Fireworks in the world are the most heartwarming. Looking at the familiar countryside, getting up in the morning, eating the food cooked by my mother, watching the neighbor's dog bark, chatting and laughing with good friends in the group, how can there be any lofty ambitions, this ordinary fireworks in the world is the most heartwarming. , half of it is dull day by day, half of it is timeless.