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Zhuge Liang once said: "The trip of a husband and a gentleman is quiet to cultivate oneself." ”

Impetuous people are prone to make mistakes in doing things,

And people who are quiet in their hearts often have a silent and powerful power in them.

There is such a story:

As he was working, the carpenter dropped his watch on the ground covered in shavings and sawdust.

He was anxious and looking for his watch.

But the more anxious he was, the more he couldn't find it.

The sky gradually darkened, and several apprentices also came to look for it, but they still found nothing.

The carpenter told them to go home and look for them again tomorrow.

But after a while, his youngest son found the watch.

The carpenter was surprised and asked, "How did you find so many of us who didn't find it?" In the morning, I received a text message from Manman, asking me to accompany her to the hospital.

I knew that she was unaccompanied, helpless in this city, so I agreed without any hesitation. Agreed to meet at a certain place, and then went to the hospital together.

When the two of them were chatting on the road, she told me that they had recently been in love, and my first reaction after hearing this sentence was to ask her: Why didn't your boyfriend come with you?

She said that the boy was out of town on a business trip, and she felt that she was not seriously ill and could be alone.

I didn't make a sound after listening, I accompanied her to register for the doctor, watching her little back shuttling through all kinds of people, and suddenly felt a little distressed.

When she went to line up for a blood draw, her boyfriend called and asked her why she didn't reply to the text message in time. She said I'm in the hospital, I'm going to have my blood drawn, and we'll talk later. I remembered that I met a boy at a friend's party before, and left each other's contact information, and the two of them often talked nonsense on WeChat, as if there were a lot of endless words.

He also used to express his affection for me and wanted to be with me.

At that time, I also felt that he was a very good person from the bottom of my heart, and even thought that I had finally found a soul mate and could have a good relationship.

But slowly, I found out that he had said that he wanted to take me to dinner, but it didn't come true once, he said that he liked me, he just liked the selfies of my circle of friends, and he promised to take me to the place, but he just let me see the photos, and there was no follow-up.

I can't help but wonder if he might be talking about love for three points. The troubles in life can be boiled down to one word: contention.

The noise, noise, friction, resentment, intrigue, and deceit of this world all originate from disputes. In daily life, if you are open-minded, you can't fight, you can't fight for gains and losses, you can't fight for your gains and losses, you can't fight for your goals if you lower your goals, you can't fight for a little less utilitarianism, and you can't fight for thinking a little more about others...... Indisputable is the ultimate state of life.

Life is boiling water, whether hot or cold, as long as the temperature is suitable, it is the best.

Life is a taste, no matter what is sweet or sour, as long as it is suitable for the taste, it is the best. Life is a melody, no matter how fast or slow, as long as it has the right sense of hearing, it is the best. Life is the season, whether it is spring, summer, autumn or winter, as long as it suits the mood, it is the best. Life, whether you are willing to be lonely or lonely, as long as it suits you, you are happy. The Buddha said that we should have eight hearts.

Love, tolerate all things, be modest, be modest, be low-key, be pure-hearted, find peace of mind, be sincere, compare your heart with your heart, and make good connections, confidence, the power of positive attitude, concentrate to make life more efficient, patient, opportunities always appear in waiting, be relieved, learn to choose, know how to give up.

Tranquility is a kind of temperament, a kind of cultivation, and a beautiful realm.

Tranquil and tranquil, like a flood of autumn water, reflecting the bright moon. Tranquility is not bland, not mediocre, but a kind of remoteness full of connotation, touching the scene in the quiet, and "listening to the thunder in the silent place". Stillness can maintain health, stillness can be enlightened, stillness can produce wisdom, and stillness can enlighten the way...... If you want to be wise and enlightened, you must start from quiet.

A doesn't like to eat eggs, so he gives them to B every time he gives them an egg.

At first, B was very grateful, but over time he got used to it.

Once you get used to it, you take it for granted.

So, until one day, A gave the egg to C, and B was not happy.

She forgot that the egg was originally A's, and A's could give it to whoever she wanted.

For this reason, they quarreled and broke off their friendship ever since... In the evening, a sheep was playing alone on a hillside, when suddenly a wolf sprang out of the trees and wanted to eat the sheep. The sheep jumped up, desperately resisted with their horns, and shouted for help from their friends.

The ox glanced at the place in the bushes, and found that it was a wolf, and ran away, and the horse looked down and saw that it was a wolf, and ran away in a smoke, and the donkey stopped, and found that it was a wolf, and slipped down the hillside, and the pig passed by here, and found that it was a wolf, and rushed down the hillside, and when the rabbit heard it, he left like an arrow.

The dog at the bottom of the hill heard the cry of the sheep, and hurried uphill, and out of the grass he burst out of the grass and bit the wolf's neck, and the wolf cried out in pain, and the wolf fled in panic while the dog was ventilating.

When the sheep came home, their friends came

The cow said, "Why don't you tell me?" My horns can gouge out the intestines of wolves

The horse said, "Why don't you tell me?" My hooves can kick a wolf in the head

The donkey said, "Why don't you tell me?" I roared and scared the wolf

The pig said, "Why don't you tell me?" I arched my mouth and let it fall down the hill

The rabbit said, "Why don't you tell me?" I can run fast and send a message

In this noisy group, there is only no dog who says: I never dare to take people lightly, calling them ignorant. Every man has his own knowledge. I often speak to the ministers, but if I know and see, I will hear it and say it reasonably, and I will be Jiana. All of them are good and extremely honest.

Insight: I never despise people, saying that people are ignorant. Everyone has his own opinions, and I often say to the ministers, as long as you know, you may as well tell me, and as long as it is reasonable, I will definitely reward it.

Kangxi, as an emperor, can have such an awareness, and for ordinary people, we should not look down on others. Everyone has their own experience, their own perspective, and different perspectives come together to see the whole picture of the world. The mountain does not give up the stone to become its height, and the water does not give up the sea to become its big. Only by being eclectic and accommodating hundreds of schools will you not be in charge of the leopard and arrogant. A person's pattern and insight all come from this. Listening to other people's suggestions and ideas is the only way to improve oneself and advance one's career. In fact, most of the people who can take the initiative to admit their mistakes are people with high moral character. If a person can see his mistakes clearly, admit them honestly, and actively correct them, this person will definitely achieve something in terms of moral cultivation and career.