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Do you know what apprentice investment is!?

If you pay zero cost to a disciple like this, you will not be able to get rich!

The next time she returns to the sect, she will be Niu Co Lu Huan, the most arrogant and cool disciple in the whole cultivation world who has no way to climb the sky!

Mrs. Lin told the story of her husband Mr. Lin:

Mr. Lin is a scholar, except for painting, she worries about everything at home.

Once, when she went back to her parents' house for two days, she saw that the kitchen sink was full of dirty dishes, and the ants were climbing as high as a mountain, but her husband didn't see it, and she could see that her scalp was numb.

At that moment, she couldn't understand why she fell in love with and married such a man in the first place.

She also thought about leaving, but then she figured out that these were things she could endure, but if she had to change to a man and let her endure those things she couldn't bear, it would only be worse for her.

In marriage, there is no partner who never makes mistakes, and everyone has shortcomings.

All the ideal companions who are so perfect that you can't fault them are just a dream.

We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.

The length of the marriage is directly proportional to the tolerance given to the other person's shortcomings. For marriage: love is eternal endurance

It is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, and a good marriage is a protracted compromise and patience.

It's like dancing tango, you go in and I retreat before we can finish the dance, if you enter and I go in, we will force each other to be unable to move, and if you retreat, I will retreat, and the relationship will be completely indifferent.

Bi Shumin said:

Marriage requires patience, long-lasting patience and perseverance.

Patience for a wayward girl to grow into a capable wife, patience for a young man who is not good at handling things to become a rock-solid man, patience for children to grow up in crying and constant wrestling.

Endure each other's gray hair and burnout, endure the friction and fission of character, endure loneliness and wind cold.

In the last issue of "Women Have Something to Say", Xi Mengyao asked Carina Lau for the secret of successful marriage, and Carina Lau said:

"A long marriage must be patient with each other. ”

She admitted that she and Tony Leung have completely different personalities, and they do things by themselves, but Tony Leung is a very introverted person, low-key and quiet.

But it is such two people with very different personalities, but they have been together for more than 30 years****** the secret of marriage is to endure, but you must not endure alone.

Just like Carina Lau said, you think you are putting up with others, but in fact, others are also putting up with you, you think you can handle it very well.

If you are human, you have your own temper, and your own understanding and needs for life.

How to make the lives of two people harmonious?

Patience is not one person enduring the other without limit, but mutual tolerance.

Give in to each other and fulfill each other.

You must know that the duty of marriage is not to love each other for a long time, but to overcome each other's boredom.

In mutual patience, find a suitable way to get along, and finally complete the marriage and accompany each other to old age.

The truth of marriage is: endure or roll

Love is beautiful with a filter, while marriage is a life of honesty and honesty.

When both of you reveal your true form, the test is your acceptance.

Everyone's bottom line of patience is different, I can't give the best answer, I can only tell you that feelings are really like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing.

I heard that Youyunyun and her husband have been married for more than a year, and in the eyes of outsiders, they are a very good couple.

From the time the two fell in love to get married to her pregnancy, everything went naturally.

However, some time ago, she accidentally saw her husband's mobile phone and found that he was actually contacting his ex-girlfriend, and the content of the chat made her unbelievable.

Yes, her husband cheated while she was pregnant.

She was bitter, angry, sad, resentful.

However, after struggling with her heart, she finally chose to forgive, because she didn't want her child to lose a complete home as soon as she was born.

This is the principle of Yunyun.

Some people, children are the final bottom line, even if it is painful, they choose to endure.

Although this process is destined to be very hard, you have to learn to bear your own choices.

I have a friend who is a lawyer, and I often receive divorce cases, and he said that divorced couples, when talking about the reasons, there is no one who does not mention the trivial matters of life.

In one case, the woman filed for divorce.

The reason stunned everyone, not cheating, domestic violence, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, but because of a pair of stinky socks.

The woman loves cleanliness very much, and she can't tolerate a little mess in the house, but she can often pick up her husband's stinky socks in the corner.

Once, during a weekend cleaning, she picked up another smelly sock under the sofa.

Seeing this stinky sock, she collapsed, she cleaned up the house so seriously, but her husband never took it seriously.

She felt extremely aggrieved and cried on the sofa for a long time.

That night, the woman filed for divorce.

Many people say that she is hypocritical, and thinks that this trivial thing can be endured for a while, as for it!

But she was resolute, in her words, "I've endured it for 20 years and don't want to endure it anymore." ”

Some people just can't stand each other's bad habits no matter what, and the face next to the pillow gets tired of looking at it, and it scatters as they walk.

No matter what kind of love, what awaits the two after the union must be boring daily life, and even pain and betrayal, but love stories never describe this part.

Because love produces happiness, and marriage produces life.

The end of marriage is to either endure or get out.

The decision-making power lies with you, and you have to bear the process and the consequences. Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished

In fact, every vigorous love will slowly become a trivial piece of chicken feathers in the end.

In the long time we have been together, we have all seen each other's good and bad.

But as Zhu Shenghao, a genius of the Republic of China, said to his wife Song Qingru:

I understand your ordinariness day by day, and at the same time, I love you more and more deeply day by day.

The burning fire of love will eventually turn into the warmth of holding the right hand in the left hand.

Smart people will use that fire to light a heart lamp to illuminate our slow and long life, and will ambush the honey of love into a little sweetness and surprise in our gray life.

As long as you are still greedy for this sweetness, you have to take Jin Qian and don't understand the power of physics, just like the darkness of the day and night, he only knows that this matter makes his mouth grassy, and even wants to recite the noble eighteenth generation genealogy to the other party.

I didn't expect that she would have such a day to reduce the dimensionality of others! Be sincere, endure each other, and understand each other.