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Why do you have to covet comfort in the male protagonist's plane?

Especially when it's all around-

"Hey, is that one lying there the apprentice of Bi Xing Sword Venerable, is she practicing some new toad sword technique?"

"What, has Senior Sister Lu come back from the secret realm?"

"Wow, Senior Sister Lu, you died so miserably! Look at this blood. ”

In November, the weather is getting colder and the leaves are lonely.

At night, the wind in the city is getting stronger and stronger, and there are fewer and fewer people around to warm your heart. This year, you have changed a lot, you used to love to fight for everything, you have become less careful, you used to take feelings as everything, and now it is natural.

It's been an extraordinarily tough year for most people, and just thinking about how to survive is exhausting. Mortgages, car loans, jobs, relationships, family, these things are like a hill, pressing on your shoulders, occasionally you want to take a breath, but you dare not stop.

A friend told me: "I've been so tired lately, I can't say anything, my heart hurts, but there are no tears, I want to sleep, but I always have insomnia, my troubles are like a snowball, and I don't know if I will get better tomorrow." ”

Have you ever wondered why people get tired?

Maybe you are too demanding of yourself, you constantly want to give a better life to the people around you, fly too high, and get tired easily; Maybe you are full of confusion about the future, you don't know whether your current decision is right or wrong, and you don't know where you are; Maybe you don't know how to reconcile with yourself, and you like to drill the horns of the bull in everything, but do you know? People who take gains and losses too seriously will never be too happy.

Feng Zikai has a passage: "Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice; since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since there is no wish, it is better to let go." ”

Everyone walks through a muddy and dark one. Sometimes you feel that life is not going to get better, but as soon as you grit your teeth, all the suffering will be overcome.

If you're feeling tired, you can stop and rest for a while to give yourself a break. Maybe you'll see a different scenery and encounter unexpected surprises.

In life, you don't have to think too far away, let today's unhappiness end here, and tomorrow will still be shining. I had nothing to do last night, and I revisited the movie "Waiting for the Wind" again.

Near the end of the movie, this song is heard.

A group of aunts sang the song together at a dinner party after experiencing a foreign adventure.

The impetuousness, busyness, struggle, and exhaustion at the beginning of the movie are all healed.

It seems that all the troubles become worthless when I hear this song, because I am still young, so the good and bad things I meet are the scenery.

The heroine of the movie is a food columnist for a magazine, and her daily job is to write articles about high-end quality life.

With a salary of 2,000 yuan, she has to write a life with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, which makes her life full of a sense of gap.

When she first came out of society, majoring in journalism in college, she thought she would become a journalist after graduation.

Shouldering morality with iron shoulders, writing articles with spicy hands, and using the pen as a sword to sweep away the injustices in the world.

But after graduation, in order to make a living, I had to work as a food writer in a magazine.

She is glamorous on the surface, but she is just an ordinary white-collar worker in this big city. The car is rented, the dinner is 8 yuan oden, the work is not smooth, and the editor-in-chief must always be wary of choosing a new favorite.

Behind the glamorous, there is a lot of bitterness and exhaustion.

In the collision of dreams and reality, she has become an extremely proud and extremely inferior person.

Maybe we all dreamed of going to the end of the world with a sword, but then we only lived in a corner for a few taels of broken silver. Have you noticed that at some point we have become very anxious?

Eager to achieve fame and fame, eager to start a family.

Not long after a job has been done, I want to be promoted and raised;

After a few days of loving someone, I want to grow old together.

Once things backfire, they begin to doubt life and accuse God of being blind.

But you know what? There's a lot of things that can't be rushed.

If you want to be at the top of your line, you need to keep honing;

If you want to achieve positive results with someone, you need time to run in.

Bai Yansong once said:

At any stage of life, you should like that time, complete the responsibilities that should be completed at that stage, and go along with life.

Don't be obsessed with the past, don't fanatically look forward to the future, life is just like this.

No matter what struggles and challenges we are experiencing, perhaps each of us has only one choice: to be happy despite the pain and believe in the future.

Maybe you are also waiting for a better development opportunity, waiting for a person who has been looking forward to it for a long time, waiting for one day to live the life you like, and waiting for one day to stop being anxious and confused.

It should be yours, and time will come to you.

Until then, you just need to work hard and keep improving yourself.

Walk slowly for the rest of your life, and wait for future generations. There is no perfect match, and there is no marriage that is always sweet

Now many young people say that they dare not get married easily, because they have not waited for the right person to appear.

The right person, in their imagination, is the perfect lover with 100 points.

However, Chai Mi and his wife eat fireworks in the world, who can be perfect.

In "Heartwarming Offer", He Jiong said:

"There is no one in the world who is a perfect match for you, and if there is, it is PUA.

If you suddenly meet someone who is a perfect match for you, you must be careful, there is no such person. He must approach you with purpose, don't believe in fairy tales so much. ”

What is a fairy tale? The beautiful woman is moved by the hideous beast and is determined to stay together, and the troubled lady is abused by her stepmother's sister, and the prince can fall in love at first sight......

When we describe a story as particularly pure and romantic, we always say that it is "the last fairy tale left for adults", which means that these stories are difficult to take place in the adult world.

The most beautiful feelings are often not the result of going with the flow, but are often the crystallization of both parties carefully cherished.

It is necessary for both people to constantly adjust themselves and adapt to each other, to remember what the other person likes, to avoid what the other person does not like, and to sacrifice a small part of themselves to forge a better "community". Lu Duhuan was afraid that he would come to a talent show of "Husky Streeting, Long Sword Stabbing the House" in public.

It doesn't matter if you lose face, the important thing is that you have to lose money!

She hurriedly stepped forward and asked in a low voice, "What's wrong?" She is also a traverser, and when she was still herding cattle in the village and waiting for the master to come to collect apprentices, she was already a second-generation cultivator who had won at the starting line.