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(Replace the chapter later, the weather has cooled down recently, the little angels pay attention to keeping warm and drink more hot water.) If you feel that your clothes are hot, don't take them off and pull them in, otherwise you will easily catch a cold. ）

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The ancients said: "There is calm in every major event, and I don't believe that there are no ancient sages today." ”

Whenever there is a big event, only by being calm can we be calm.

The ability to settle down in the world is cultivated from childhood, and the top concentration is obtained from stillness.

Everyone has heard the story of Sima Guang smashing the cylinder.

One summer, a group of children were playing on the edge of the tank, and accidentally, a little friend fell into the water tank.

Everyone was in a mess, and the young children were so frightened that they cried.

Only Sima Guang made a quick decision and smashed a boulder into the water tank.

If it weren't for Sima Guang's urgency, I'm afraid the child would have died in Huangquan.

It is precisely because he can calm down in the face of things and remain calm in the face of danger that he can become a generation of Confucianism.

The ancients said: "The image of the water is bright, and the heart is quiet, and the wisdom is born." ”

Many times, when we encounter things, we tend to mess with ourselves, and before it happens, panic has already reached our throats.

In fact, when the crisis comes, it is more important to calm down Of course, I am not questioning how much the boy loves her, I just think his love seems to be a little shallow. thought that a relationship could be maintained only by sweet words, but there was no action.

Manman shed tears when she drew blood, I thought she was pricked by a needle, and kept touching her head and saying it was okay.

When she got up, she suddenly came up and hugged me tightly, and she said, "Hey, I suddenly feel so sad."

I knowingly asked: What's wrong?

She said: Today is actually Saturday, he is off duty. He had plenty of time to come back from that city to accompany me, but he didn't even ask, 'How is your health?' He said he missed me, but he didn't want to come and see me.

I listened to what she said

Sensual love words can be said casually, but how many "miss you" are really just thinking, just talking, without any actual form of expression.

It is just a simple statement, meaningless, and completely disappoints the solemnity and sense of weight that the word "missing" should have.

And I always believe that how deep the love is, how true the action is, more real than empty words like "I miss you".

If you don't do it, don't always talk about "I miss you", empty promises will only get cheaper and cheaper.

If you can't do it, try to say as little as possible, sometimes it hurts more than not saying it at all. is like Wang Xinling sang in "I'll Be Okay":

There are troubles every day, and if you don't pick them up, you won't have them.

Have a good heart, do good deeds, and have a good life. Have a normal heart, do ordinary things, and be at peace day and night. Don't forget people's kindness, don't think about people's mistakes, don't think about people's grievances. The heart is wide and the clouds dissipate, making people clear the sky in one step. had a chance to meet and laugh together, and never again ignored the ancients. Meeting and smiling is the first medicine to nourish the heart, and worrying about the eyebrows is the first steel knife to commit suicide. When greed crosses the sea and has no feet, who laughs at the floating clouds in the eyes.

The heart is like a speck of dust, drifting all the time, looking for it all the time.

Wandering, because we have not yet reached the desired destination, and seeking, because we want to find the desired destination. However, if there is more than desire, and a mountain is still higher than a mountain, how can life be fulfilled? Looking down on the disputes of the world, and looking down on the reincarnation of gains and losses, peace of mind is the place to be.

Life is like tea, but a take and let go, it is a kind of courage to take it, and it is a kind of wisdom to let go, if you can't take it, you will achieve nothing, and if you can't let it go, you will ask for troubles, responsibility, be brave to take it, and choose to let go of your troubles.

Life is like tea, but it is full and empty. Too full is easy to leak, space is easy to lose, everything has a degree, don't talk full, don't do everything, leave a way out for others, leave a way back for yourself, you respect me a foot, I change you, what attitude do you have towards me, what kind of face do I give you, you must be neither humble nor arrogant, do not embarrass others, and do not make yourself uncomfortable.

One year, on a very hot summer, a group of people went out rafting. The girl's slippers fell off and sank when they were playing in the water.

When they got to the shore, it was full of hot pebbles, and they had to walk a long way.

So, the girl asked for help. But this time, no one helped her, and she suddenly felt that these people were not good, and they would not be saved.

Later, a boy gave her his slippers and told the girl that no one should help you.

Many times, get used to being nice to you. I take it for granted, and one day if it's not good for you, you feel resentful.

In fact, it's not that others are bad, but that we have more demands. Accustomed to getting, he forgets to be grateful. Autumn is a season of tea tasting, but with a little more sentimentality and feelings.

In the tea affair, there are always many mood encounters, past thoughts, and fate in the world, all disturbed, which can always be infiltrated and spread in the tea.

As the saying goes, "Spring tea is bitter, summer tea is astringent, it should be delicious, autumn white dew (autumn tea)".

The autumn climate is characterized by high autumn air and less rain, and the tea produced in this season has a rich and long aroma, a sweet and mellow taste, and a thick fragrance, but it is easier to produce a bitter and astringent taste.

It is said: When a mortal has nothing to do, he often takes precautions against something if something happens, and then nothing happens. If there is something to do, but if there is nothing to do, so as to determine the concern, then the matter will naturally disappear. The ancients said: "The heart is small but the courage is big." "That's how it should be.

Perception: When people have nothing to do, they should be as cautious as when they have something, so that they are naturally and peacefully, and when they have something, they should be as stable and courageous as when they have nothing. The smaller the heart, the more bold it is, and the small heart and the bold go hand in hand. If you are just careful, you will be afraid and it will be difficult to achieve great things. It's just bold and inevitably full of mistakes and in danger.

Su Zhe said, "If there is nothing to do, you are deeply worried, and if there is something, you are not afraid." "In normal times, think more, think more ways, improve yourself more, don't cram, that will definitely become flustered. As soon as the mentality collapses, things will naturally be chaotic. Always vigilant, careful and cautious, vigorous and resolute, this is a qualified principal.

He said: Who can be innocent of mortals? But if people have done it, they don't do it for themselves. Not so with me. Those who occasionally forget and blame others in gossip will let themselves go wrong, and say, "This is my mistake." Only in this way do people feel uneasy and so moved. Anyone who can take up his own responsibilities is mostly an adult.

Perception: In life, who can not make mistakes? But most people don't want to admit that they are wrong, I am not like this, I always take the initiative to admit mistakes. Others are always moved by my confession of mistakes.