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From an early age, we are taught to be kind.

When you encounter someone in trouble, come forward to help;

When you come across someone who has fallen, reach out and help them.

But the cruelest part of life is often that kindness is generally not rewarded!

How many people try their best to fulfill others, and in the end they will only end up being blamed and hurt.

Too much kindness can sometimes be a disaster. She was also taken to court along with another witness.

At the moment of receiving the summons, Zhou Cuilan said aggrievedly: "It is said that good people have good rewards, why do I have to suffer all this?"

Why?

I think it's just human nature, sometimes the more nice you are to a person, the less that person takes you seriously.

The heart is too soft, and it is pinched as a soft persimmon,

The heart is good, and it is regarded as a lack of heart,

is easy to talk to, and is treated as a temperless ...... "I am in the palace of the Ming Dynasty, and Emperor Chongzhen is fortunate at dusk and admires my beauty." The next day, the emperor did not go to court, but kept accompanying me in the dormitory, asking me to sing songs to him, grease and powder for me, and pick up an eyebrow pencil to paint my eyebrows. He promised to make me a concubine, and he would make me a queen in the future. For three days, not a single step left me. ”

Knowing is a simple touch, knowing your tears, giving you the warmest comfort, knowing your haggardness, blaming you for being tireless.

Understand, is a kind of indescribable tenderness, into the heart and lungs, into the bones and marrow; understand, even if you don't say anything, even if the mountains and rivers are far away, each other's hearts are still close, and the sympathy is not far away. Understand you, why do you need a thousand words, because we understand each other, so we are grateful, because we love each other, so we cherish it. The companionship of true feelings in each other's hearts is a kind of intersection of life and a kind of interdependence of souls.

The world is so big that not everyone can meet each other, and not every heart can communicate in the vast sea of people. There is someone who has passed through your life, and it may be comparable to family affection, which is the most precious in your eyes and can accompany your life.

I understand you, and I don't need a thousand words. There is a proverb that says: "The sky is self-exalted, the earth is self-exalted, and with all things as a reference, you can see your own shortcomings." It means that although heaven and earth do not say how high and thick they are, people can see that heaven and earth are high and vast, and it is he who nurtures all living beings - people who are truly knowledgeable and cultivated will not get carried away and show off themselves everywhere. Low-key people are not isolated from the world, but maintain a true self in social interactions, not pretentious, not pretentious, which allows them not to lose themselves in this world full of temptations. Learn to be a low-key person, learn not to be noisy, not pretentious, not pretentious, not pretending to moan, not pretending, not jealous, even if you are full of talent, you are also honest and generous.

In the current society, there is a high-profile atmosphere breeding, eager to get ahead, hoping to get rich overnight, and hollowing out their minds to take the southeast shortcut; they are very unwilling to live a lonely, plain, and simple life, and are keen on status, money, and fame; instead of relying on their own strength and hard work, they are full of crooked ways, pulling connections, going through the back door, bragging, and flattering. In Buddhism, there is such a realm of cultivation: "Look at the mountain is the mountain; Look at the mountain is not the mountain; Look at the mountain or the mountain".

At first, you see a pot of good tea that fills the room, and the fragrance is fragrant, and you can't help but want to drink it.

Later, when you have drunk a lot of tea, when you see a pot of tea, you will subconsciously consider: is this a single cong or black tea? Is this aroma honey orchid or osmanthus? How about this tea back to Ganshengjin?

Finally, when you see a pot of tea, you see tea, fragrant, and you can't help but want to drink it.

But why don't you think about it anymore?

Because you know that you can judge the quality of a pot of tea at any time, and you have indeed drunk too much tea.

I don't mind the many unsatisfactory parts of tea, but concentrate on feeling the wonderful parts that have commonality.

Clean heart, drink good tea, clean body, light life.

It is not difficult to drink tea, but the difficult thing is that the person who drinks tea has to be very focused and emotional.

When you encounter a taste that you don't understand, feel it carefully, search for a close word in your mind, and pull it from the vast sea of tea to your side;

When encountering incomprehensible doubts, humbly consult old tea customers, delve into knowledge, and feel the mysterious beauty of tea.

A few small questions on how to improve yourself when drinking tea, I hope to help tea lovers easily feel the tea culture and restore the simplicity and purity of a cup of tea.

To put it simply, it is the feeling that tea soup brings to the throat after drinking tea. Throat rhyme has always been the most favored by tea lovers, and for senior tea customers, throat rhyme is an important condition for them to evaluate the quality of tea.

The throat rhyme of Pu'er tea can be divided into three aspects: sweet, moist and dry. Most of the teas with strong throat rhyme belong to the tea that is full of sweetness.

If the tea does not have a throat rhyme, after swallowing the tea soup, all the sensations are completely in the mouth.

So sometimes we can hear some old tea customers after drinking good tea, pointing to the throat part and saying, "It feels like the tea soup has come down here". Since ancient times, the sad spring and autumn have been a hurdle that literati and artists could not get around, and the dew and the spring rain falling on the grass are often aesthetic images that borrow scenery and lyricism. Regardless of summer, spring, autumn and winter, where the cold dew and dew are everywhere, it will arouse the infinite poetry of the poets.

He said: I believe in my conscience. Right and wrong have their own conclusions, and even if everyone in the world comes to slander me, it won't change anything.

Cultivate a more open mind, and if you can't hear it, you can't hear it. He is strong by him, the breeze blows the hills, he is horizontal by him, and the bright moon shines on the river.

If you are quick to talk for a while, you can only win a temporary victory. Cultivate a tolerant heart, and if you don't fight, the world can't compete with it. Someone asked: What is a cultivated person like?

The most praised answer is: the word "respect" is engraved on the face and heart.

From the elders, relatives and friends, to the younger children, he gets along with them with respect, never exalts himself, never belittles others.

People will always know and meet too many people in their lives, and there is no need to divide the existence between each other.

On the other hand, a person who gets along with others and has a sense of superiority can be called ignorant.

Being a human being is such a principle. Ji Xiaolan, a university scholar, once went to Wutai Mountain to play.

Walking into the temple, the abbot looked at him, and when he saw that he was in an ordinary manner, he said: "Sit", and called "tea", which means to entertain him with casual tea.

Knowing that it was a guest from the capital, the abbot stood up respectfully, and immediately led Ji Xiaolan into the inner hall, and changed his words to: "Please sit, make tea couplet:

There is a saying: others respect you, not because you are good, but because others are very good.