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If he doesn't even bother to go through the motions for you, it means that he doesn't love you at all.

There is a Shanghai drifting girl in the Jianshu who shares her story.

When she first started working, she was often reprimanded by her boss due to her lack of experience. Every time I reprimanded, I would hide and cry secretly.

It was the girl's birthday. She first posted a circle of friends, bought a bowl of hot and sour noodles, and then, eating and crying with tears, her birthday was over.

The next day, she chatted with her best colleagues and talked about her birthday.

After listening to this, my colleague said, "Why didn't you say it earlier? At least cook you a bowl of longevity noodles and say happy birthday!"

Her colleague's words moved her to tears.

She thought to herself: It turns out that a happy birthday sentence can make people cry like rain. As the saying goes: "Those who have a heart are tired, and those who have no heart do not care." ”

The reason why people often feel exhausted is not how much stress life puts on you, but that you carry too much burden on yourself.

There is only one heart, and if you stuff it with too many possibilities that will not happen at all, no matter how good a heart is, it will not be able to withstand it.

When people live, they are just living with a state of mind.

If the heart is simple, happiness will naturally be simple.

There is such a story:

There was a rich man who was seriously ill and took a lot of medicine to no avail, so he felt restless and panicked, and he always felt that he was going to die soon, and his heart was very sad.

Later, he consulted a famous doctor who lived in seclusion.

After taking his pulse and diagnosing him, the famous doctor said:

"It's easy to cure, you just need to go to a quiet beach and lie down for 30 minutes every day for a month. ”

The rich man was skeptical, but he did so, and as a result, he lay down for 2 hours at a time.

The rich man was usually busy, he had never been so relaxed, he listened to the wind, listened to the rhythmic lapping of the waves against the reef, and listened to the chirping of seagulls...... The uneasy mood gradually stabilized.

Some time ago, Yang Tianzhen, known as "China's No. 1 broker", had gastric surgery.

Some people questioned her that this was to hurt her body and slap herself in the face in order to become thinner and more beautiful.

Yang Tianzhen could only post a response: "I am not dissatisfied with my appearance, the main purpose of the operation is to cure the disease." ”

It turned out that as early as the age of 29, she had been diagnosed with diabetes.

As her condition worsened, she began to need daily insulin injections to stabilize her condition.

Once, she even picked up the needle directly for injection on a variety show, which frightened Zhang Yuqi on the side.

For her, whose condition is already very serious, cutting the stomach is a helpless means.

And this year, she was actually only 35 years old.

In fact, the meeting in this world is a gift of fate. If someone shush you and understand your joys and sorrows, please hold on tightly, be kind to him, love him for a longer time, don't test a true heart with indifference, and don't test a relationship with willfulness.

No one will always be waiting for you in the same place, but the person waiting for you must love you very much, don't live up to it, don't regret it.

Cold is yin and evil, and it is easy to hurt yang. The human body needs to be warmed to resist the cold, and this solar term is the process of switching from the dry season to the cold season, and the feeling of dryness is more obvious.

At this time, people's skin and tendons are tighter, sweating is less, and the nutrients ingested are easy to store, and in the winter season, people's appetite is also relatively strong, so winter tonic is the best season.

Winter tonic also contains the meaning of "prevention", that is, through tonic, to prevent the occurrence of diseases, in order to achieve the purpose of health preservation. Just as the ancient book of Chinese medicine "Neijing" said: "Therefore, those who hide in the essence will not get sick and warm in spring", that is to say, through tonic in winter, the "essence" can be stored in the body, and there will be no disease in spring.

Drinking tea is also a kind of health habit that has been handed down from ancient times to the present, which is helpful to keep out the cold and nourish the stomach, and can also speed up blood circulation, improve metabolism, and relax the body and mind.

Some people appreciate the heroism of summer, with lush foliage and colorful colors.

Some people love the quiet beauty of autumn, the sky is clear, and the wind is light.

There are also people who love the bleakness of winter, although the north wind is cold, but it can't stop the vitality of the coming year.

In winter, there is no grass and warbler in spring, no vitality in summer, no fruitful fruits in autumn, but there is cold and dust-free when the snow is white, and there is the intoxicating fragrance of the proud snow branches......

The light snow has arrived, let us see the wonderful and picturesque broken jade Feiqiong in the ice and snow of poetry. In 1082 A.D., Su Shi lived in Huangzhou, sorrow nowhere to say, he came to Chibi Rock, watched the river rushing, the waves crashed on the shore, for a time the mind was opened, and the heart was gradually relieved.

The river is long, coming and going are empty, and life is like a dream. And the people who live in the world are not in a dream, and everything is empty after all.

The merit and fame, power and profit we pursue are just phantom lights in life. Since life is just illusory, political frustration and frustration, life's ups and downs and tribulations, what is it?

Why bother with life, if you want to open it, it will be a sunny day. Su Shi saw it, what about you?

In the twilight of autumn, the withering of the flowers is helpless, and the return of the swallows is gratifying. Life is very short, so short that before you can taste the prosperous era, you are already in the twilight.

In the laughter, welcome the new life, and in the crying, send the old people back. The tide rises and falls, the flowers bloom and bloom, day by day, year by year, the passing years are in the snap of a finger.

If the flower blooms, like it, if it falls, give it up. The joy that accompanies you on the road is because of the scenery, not because of you.

Let go of the hustle and bustle of the world, let go of helplessness, be a sunny and happy person, and be the master of your own happiness! Schiller said that there are three kinds of pace of time: the future is long overdue, the present flies by like an arrow, and the past is forever still.

Life is a process of constant gains and losses. Lost in the east, harvested mulberry, gains and losses are interdependent, and there is a loss.

The world is noisy and chaotic, let go of helplessness, be a sunny and happy person, and be your own happy master!

Autumn goes to winter and can't stay, and I hope to live up to the years.

Whether you are happy or regretful, let us say goodbye to the past freely and happily embrace the new future. Remember to give your life a sense of ritual. Tea is indescribable, it is impossible to tell whether it is cool or warm, whether it is lonely or lively, whether it is rich or simple.

People have to understand tea, and they don't know how many times they have to go through a thousand turns of practice before they can say, like the tea man Sen no Rikyu, "There is nothing else in tea." ”

But tea understands people, otherwise why would all living beings want to go