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He once wrote the promise to Ying Caier when he got married, and he did it one by one:

"I want to be very happy in the future, every month my income will be handed over to you, and my pocket money will be distributed by you. ”

"I take care of the housework in the house, and you can give birth to boys and girls if you want. ”

"Be considerate to your family, welcome your mother-in-law to come to my house for a long time, and check every day if I have bullied you. “......

With such a sensible husband, a woman will have the courage to entrust her life.

A sensible man must be reluctant to let you be too sensible.

He can always see through your pretending to be strong, give you the most considerate care, and protect your girlish heart. As the old saying goes: "Don't condemn right and wrong, but deal with the world." ”

You have to look at the rights and wrongs in life, and don't be too attached to everything.

When Zeng Guofan was young, he lived in a room with a candidate when he took the exam.

One day, Zeng Guofan wanted to move his desk to the window so that he could read and study. Unexpectedly, my roommate said unhappily: "You blocked the light from the window, how can I still study!"

Zeng Guofan was not angry, and said, "Then where do you think my desk should be placed?" The roommate pointed to the dark side of the room.

Zeng Guofan was helpless and moved the desk over.

As the exam approached, Zeng Guofan memorized the book until late every day, but was angrily reprimanded by his roommate: "I don't have to work on weekdays, but I sharpen my gun at night, how can people rest!"

Zeng Guofan was still not angry, nor did he argue, and continued to recite in a low voice.

It wasn't until later, when the exam list was released, Zeng Guofan was among the best, and his roommate in the same room finally fell off the list, Xu was jealous, and the roommate yelled at Zeng Guofan: "The good feng shui in the house should have been owned by me, but I don't want you to take it away!"

Today is Western Thanksgiving, in this year, are you used to coming and going in a hurry, and forget to use a sincere "thank you" to express your deep feelings!

On Thanksgiving, don't be stingy with your thanks, few words of thanks, so that people can feel the warmth of their hearts in this cold winter day......

The most well-known research on tea and health is antioxidants.

In addition to tea, you can hear about antioxidants when you eat them, put them on your face, and wear them on your body, but few people really think about what they mean.

What is antioxidant fighting against? Can antioxidant resist cancer? Can antioxidant prevent radiation? Can antioxidant whiten? Will antioxidant not age?

As the saying goes: after summer, there is no disease. Yang in spring and summer, and yin in autumn and winter. For health, autumn is a season of adoption, and it is also the best time to restore and regulate the functions of various organs of the human body with proper tonics!

As the temperature drops, people's appetite gradually increases, and the consumption of greasy food increases. The warm red is bright and showy, and a small cup of hot sliding down the throat warms the body and mind...... After the white dew, we clearly feel the footsteps of autumn, from the hot summer to the cold winter, the crisp autumn days seem precious.

Autumn breezy days are usually dry, with a large temperature difference between day and night. "One summer without disease and three points of deficiency", traditional Chinese medicine pays attention to timely health preservation, spring and summer to nourish yang, autumn and winter to nourish yin. In this transitional season, in response to the change of weather, you can use tea to help the body accept the dryness and cold more peacefully, so that the body can stay energetic into autumn. There was a famous painter who, after working hard, created a painting that he thought represented his highest level, and he thought that there should be no one who would not like this work.

So he took the finished sketch out into the street, placed it in the most conspicuous place on the street, and added a postscript next to it: "Please mark what you think is not good in the painting." ”

The result was unexpected, and the painting was full of marks.

The painter was amazed and disappointed. At the same time, I am also very puzzled, my own level, should not be like this.

A few days later, the painter brought an identical picture, which was also placed in the most conspicuous place on the street, but the note on the side was changed to read: "Please mark the place where you think it is the most beautiful." "In this world, there is a kind of person who lives the most tired.

Xiao Wang, who has just graduated, said that she was arranged to work with relatives, and her life there was very painful.

With huge pressure, unprecedented exhaustion and groundless accusations, she collapsed several times, but she could only hold on and try to meet various requirements.

A friend asked her if she had considered leaving or communicating with her parents. "No, I can't let them down, I can't trouble them," she said. ”

Another friend also mentioned that he was always unable to refuse other people's requests.

Once a colleague asked him to work together, he obviously had his own arrangements, but because he didn't want to hurt his feelings, he agreed.

After that, he always regretted it very much, and felt that he should have refused, but even if he thought it clearly at the time, the next time he was asked, he would still subconsciously say: "It's okay, I'm okay anyway." ”

"Sensible" people are used to hiding their true emotions. Because he is sensible, he always thinks about others, because he is sensible, he always forgives with a smile, and because he is sensible, he is always tolerant and humble. When Jiang Fangzhou, a talented woman from Tsinghua University, appeared on the show "Wonderful Conference", she also revealed that she "lived as a flattering person because she wanted others to like her too much." ”

Because of the fear of conflict, the fear of making others unhappy, and when others infringe on their principles and bottom line, they are already very unhappy, but they still can't express it, and they live a desperate and hard life.

This sharing has resonated with many friends on the Internet, and living a real life seems to have become a luxury.

Carl Jung once said, "I'd rather be a whole person than be a good person." ”

To be a good person, you need to take care of everything around you. But to be a complete person, you can live your truest self.

The most comfortable relationship between people is that they don't have to please.

You do yourself, I do myself, and I don't need anyone to deliberately cater to anyone.

Sit alone at night, brew a pot of hot tea, watch the heat rise, and your heart gradually becomes thick with the heat.

The complicated thoughts, tangled feelings, soaked in the tea, slowly moistened, slowly stretched, fluttering in the warmth, the hesitant heart finally again in the tea fragrance gradually relieved.

Drinking tea is a simple thing, and drinking tea is also a complicated thing, from simple to complex, from the taste of the tea bowl, there is no need to take a time shuttle.