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It is often said that marriage is like an investment, I am afraid of loving the wrong person, if I love the right person, I will be happy for a lifetime, and if I love wrong, I will suffer for a lifetime.

At any time, women should not lose themselves, because no one can rely on them for life except themselves.

If you think about it carefully, it really makes sense.

Take this friend of mine as an example, she never relies on her husband to support her, and all she thinks about is how to make money on her own.

Recently, when everyone was struggling to save more money, she actually bought a Tesla for 300,000 yuan, and she also basked in a "low-key" way late at night. I have always liked Zhang Ruoyun and Tang Yixin.

In the entertainment industry, the drama of division and integration is staged every day, and they are becoming more and more calm and firm in love.

Of course, the most touching thing is the Weibo post of "memo about her" posted by Zhang Ruoyun.

It's a list of everything about her.

She loves to eat cherries and has a sweet smile.

She likes to be alone, and she also needs a bird to be a person.

Be her earth, not her sky.

Understanding her is more important than being romantic with her.

It seems to be some trivial things, but it has the power to make a sound. "White, thin and young" has always been the mainstream oriental aesthetic under the dominance of men, women are particularly afraid of old age and fat, and in essence, they are afraid of being abandoned after their individual values are exploited.

Li Ruotong, who is wearing a 17-year-old school uniform of the same style, is just like the variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", which is a wonderful bowl of blood and chicken soup in line with mainstream values and aesthetics.

And Lin Qingxia is standing at the other end, by aging calmly, to fight against the prejudice of society against women's age.

She is my ideal sister who truly rides the wind and waves, and satisfies my imagination and understanding of the high-quality life state of "riding the wind and waves".

I envy and even admire Li Ruotong, but I want to live as Lin Qingxia even more. Tea drinkers know in their hearts that drinking tea is health care, and they are willing to spend part of their money in advance to maintain health and drink tea. Because they know that when they get sick, no matter how much money they spend on treatment and health products, it is better to drink tea early.

When drinking tea becomes a habit, health care is naturally done in one go, the body is better, the immunity is also improved, and it is difficult to get sick. If you want to make good tea, of course, there needs to be a process, which is a truth that tea drinkers understand, so tea drinkers are generally not too anxious.

Wait for the water temperature, pour water lightly, and make the soup carefully, and if you are too impatient, it is easy to ignore the importance of steps to the taste of tea.

The older the old tea becomes, the more fragrant it is, which also reflects the patience of the tea people. In order to show the best taste and quality of tea, waiting for the transformation of tea over the years, tea people have no complaints, and are even full of expectations.

Tea is like life, light and flavorful, humble and comfortable. Drink bitter and sweet, clear and astringent. Life is like a book, describing successes and failures, sadness and happiness.

The ups and downs of life have gone through hurdles and climbed mountains, just like tea brewing one after another, from green to mature, and finally to tasteless.

Lin Qingxuan once said: But all tea, one brew is bitter, two brews are sweet, three bubbles are heavy, four bubbles are clear, and five bubbles are light, and after that, no matter how good the tea is, it is tasteless. It is like five kinds of life, young and young, youthful and mellow, middle-aged heavy, fragrant in the prime of life, and tasteless in old age. A cup of hot tea, warms the hands, but also warms the heart, it is not an exaggeration to say that tea is the home of the soul, tea is accompanied by the world, and can steal half a day of leisure.

In some corners of the world, ancient tea still survives, elegant and simple, and it is a slow and warm time that is strange to modern people. Restraining the rod of death now! Obsessively repaying the Lord, foolishly treating the enemy; fighting for seven feet for a long time, no longer worrying. is not for Zhang Jian to flee, nor for Yang Zhen to take medicine, he wants to return to the court with his life, and he does not want to return to his wife and cry.

When questioning, the stolen goods are dealt with in vain, murder and flattery, five days are compared, and the limit is strict. The family is far away, the road is poor, the body is not iron, and there is only a life. Thunder and rain and dew, it is not the grace of heaven, a life of benevolence and righteousness, died in the edict, and it is unspeakable to die. Why regret the heavens?

But I, as a vice-minister, have been taken care of. Confucius said: "Entrust the lonely life, and you can't take it away when you are on the big festival!" With this thought, you can finally see the first emperor Yu Zaitian, the two ancestors and the ten sects and the emperor and the queen of heaven and the earth, and the world for eternity. Laughing, laughing, laughing! What does a knife cut the spring breeze do to me? There are four seasons in a year, and each season is like a child with a different personality.

Spring is elegant, summer is lively, autumn is calm, and winter is quiet.

Different teas also have different "personalities".

White tea is sweet, green tea is fresh, and black tea is delicate. Yellow tea is mellow, green tea is sweet, and black tea is rich.

Therefore, many people will get used to drinking different teas in different seasons.

Just like we choose different people to walk side by side at different stages of life. Family affection is the most precious emotion in the world, and it is also the most easily ignored emotion.

People are always accustomed to showing their good side to outsiders, but leaving the worst side to their loved ones.

Especially to their own father and mother.

They rarely show vulnerability, and we take it for granted that they are covered in armor.

Some words are always hidden in the heart, thinking that the other person will understand.

The Buddha said: Things change with the heart, the environment is created by the heart, and the troubles are born from the heart.

The biggest difference between people is not that they are smart and stupid, rich and poor, but that they have different mentalities. When you let go of your thoughts, everything is at ease.

What is the mentality, the heart is the mood, the state word is a little bigger, everything wants to open a little, do not get entangled and do not care, the mood will naturally become better, the mentality is good, and life is happy everywhere.

The sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance.

A good attitude can make you optimistic and open-minded; a good attitude can enable you to overcome the hardships you face; a good attitude can make you indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life.

The more you struggle, the more troubles you have, the more you blame, the more you restrict, the more you embarrass yourself, the more unhappy moments you have.

The ancients said: There are troubles every day, and if you don't pick them up, you won't have them.

In life, in fact, many troubles are self-inflicted.

An old lady gave birth to two daughters, the eldest daughter married an umbrella seller, and the second daughter married a straw hat seller.

When the weather was fine, the old lady sighed lamentingly: "With such a big sun, umbrellas are not easy to sell, and the eldest daughter's life must be difficult." ”

When it rained, she thought of her second daughter again: "With such a heavy rain, how can my second girl's straw hat be sold." ”

So whether it's sunny or rainy, the old lady is always worried.