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This kind of woman is always used to putting herself too low and looking too well at each other in marriage.

In their eyes, the important thing after marriage is to take care of the family, serve the husband well, and take care of the children.

Even if you are hurt, you will choose to bear it silently, but you are often thinking about others, but it is easier to be let down by the people around you.

A few days ago, a 50-year-old male netizen talked about his cheating experience:

Thinking of the question I saw on Zhihu before, what do you think the most beautiful love looks like?

There is an answer in it that has received a lot of likes:

The best love is never to give the other party something, or to make a big scene.

It's a kind of subconscious concern.

When I woke up at night, I tucked the quilt in a daze;

On the way home, I remembered what I casually mentioned, so I bought it and brought it back;

When you eat something delicious, you must stuff it in my mouth.

I love you and anyone would say.

But leaning down and doing things doesn't necessarily mean everyone can do it.

Treat you to a big meal, give you roses, and behave romantically and gentlemanly.

But not necessarily sincerely.

The middle-aged, and even the elderly idols, who live with the spirit of life, are the resounding slap in the face of this memory, encouraging ordinary people to stand up, not to read it, and not to be afraid.

Yesterday I commented that a lady was a 70-year-old man, and she was dissed by a photographer. She said that the latest regulations stipulate that only those over 80 years old are considered elderly, and 70 years old is still middle-aged.

I don't know where this new rule is, but this new rule is quite popular.

In line with this trend, the old goddesses have come out for business. Drinking tea is actually the process of enjoying tea. In the hearts of tea drinkers, they want that taste, and they will not choose to add other flavors, because in the hearts of tea drinkers, what they want is the taste in their hearts.

Because I don't have such troubles, the simplest taste of tea has entered my heart, which is a kind of fate that is difficult to find for no amount of money, and the sense of youth brought by drinking tea is from the inside out.

Tea people always feel that they are not old, because the mentality is young, because tea melts the taste of the years into the heart, precipitates it, and makes the vitality forever;

Tea drinkers will only get younger and younger. One bowl of throat kiss moist, two bowls of broken loneliness.

Three bowls of dry intestines, only 5,000 volumes of words.

Four bowls of light sweat, life injustice, all to the pores.

Five bowls of muscles and bones, six bowls of fairies.

Seven bowls can't be eaten, but the two armpits are used to the breeze.

Walking in the world, we have a cup of tea in our left hand, in the mist, we see all kinds of life, and in our right hand, we have a bottle of wine, raise our heads and drink, drunk in the present day.

Sit alone at night, brew a pot of hot tea, watch the heat rise, and your heart gradually becomes thick with the heat.

The complicated thoughts, tangled feelings, soaked in the tea, slowly moistened, slowly stretched, fluttering in the warmth, the hesitant heart finally again in the tea fragrance gradually relieved.

Drinking tea is a simple thing, and drinking tea is also a complex thing, from simple to complex, from complex to simple. If you want to taste the taste of the tea bowl of the ancients, you don't need to take a time shuttle. In life, we not only need this cup of tea, five brews and five products, to look far away, to see the long river of history and life, but also need this scoop of wine that can comfort the wind and dust, taste and drink wildly, live in the present, and live a bright life.

Tea has many dimensions. Some people encounter a tea garden through a piece of porcelain and a cup, and approach tea. Some people, moved by a cup of tea, know a tea person, participate in a tea party, put on a plain clothes, and like tea. "Ripples are boneless, and the corpse is for maggots, and they are willing. May the country be strong, saint-de-ming, and enjoy the blessings of peace in the sea for a long time. This foolish thought will not change until death. ”

At that time, Mingyue said: "There was a person who did not seek money, did not seek wealth, did not seek to leave a name in history, had a strong spirit, and had the ambition of not changing his body." ”

History tells us that Yang Jisheng is unwise, Yang Lian is irrational, only Xu Jie, is the final winner, he is forbearant enough, rational enough. But we need to say that in the 5,000-year history of China, it is precisely these predecessors and successors who have achieved today's prosperity. Some people appear in our lives for a mission that seems to accompany us on a certain journey.

Then, they went their separate ways. But the traces they leave behind will never be erased.

Of course, there are some people in life who will not be just passers-by.

They accompany you, suffer together, suffer together, work together, work hard together, and watch life get better and better together.

You gradually became each other's pillars, and in your spare time, you would get together and order a cup of tea with a few plates of refreshments. They shared recent anecdotes and talked about their feelings.

There is also one of the most special places in life, reserved for the people who will accompany you for the rest of your life.

From meeting and acquaintance to knowing and loving each other, everything is natural but different, and you have become each other's only.

After a long time, the relationship between you has changed from the initial love and sweetness to the current trickle, and there is no less love.

Between you, it is love and family affection. I once read a story about a young man who had a sad face all day long, and one day a wise man passed by, trying to dispel the troubles in his heart, and the wise man grabbed a handful of salt and put it in a bowl of water, stirred it, and handed it to the young man, and when he had finished drinking, the wise man asked, "How does it taste?"

The young man's face crumpled and he replied, "It's bitter and salty." ”

Then the wise man took him to the lake, and then he grabbed an equal amount of salt and sprinkled it into the lake, so that the young man could taste the water again.

The young man took the water and tasted it, and said, "Sweet and sweet." ”

The wise man asked, "Is there still saltiness?"

The young man replied, "No." ”

The wise man said: Many times, we always like to drill into the horns of the bull and go around ourselves into a dead end, in fact, change the state of mind, all the problems can always be solved.

You can't change the weather, but you can control your mood, you can't control the environment, but you can adjust your mentality, you can't extend the length of life, but you can expand its width, troubles are born from the heart, everything is open, see through, look down, dare to let go, will be comfortable and comfortable.

If the heart is as wide as the sea, only then can the wind and waves be calm, and if the heart is sunny, it can be warm everywhere.

With a good attitude, happiness is actually very simple. was martyred, and he originally thought of himself as an eye, and even if he didn't die, he would be seriously injured