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Everyone has a different way of expressing love, but what is the same is that when it comes to truly loving someone, many things can't help it.

If a person really loves you, they will naturally can't help but care about you, and they don't need you to reach out and ask for it, because the other party knows that love is active and giving.

On the contrary, when a love needs you to open your mouth and needs to work hard to get, this kind of love can only be said to be hypocritical love. Anyone who has experienced it knows that in a relationship, they are not afraid that the other party will not have it, but they are afraid that the other party will have it, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to give. I'm not afraid that the other party won't love each other, I'm afraid of being together, and this love still needs to be reached out.

It is said that "a twisted melon is not sweet".

Love is the same, it is not true to reach out to come, and it is heart-warming to take the initiative to give.

Therefore, we must understand that in the relationship, what is given is love, and what is reached out is charity.

When two people are together, if everything you want to say and reach out to ask, this kind of love has changed its taste.

There is nothing in this world that can be blessed with mercy and charity, and even more so love. True love comes from the heart and is not based on reaching out for it.

If love has to come by reaching out and becoming a charity, this kind of love has lost its sincerity and true feelings, and it has also lost the meaning of love.

Therefore, in the relationship, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, do not reach out to love. The person who wants to give it to you will naturally take the initiative to give it to you, you don't need to ask for it deliberately, and what you don't want to give it to you, what you reach out to come is also humble and scarred. Don't marry someone who is poor in mind.

Because they can't afford to take responsibility for their families.

Cao Yunjin and Tang Yun, who used to be on variety shows, when the host asked about their family's financial situation, Tang Yun said AA system, and Cao Yunjin said puzzled: "Why do I want to make a lot of money?"

Then Tang Yun retorted to him: "Because you are a father." ”

When Tang Yun was breastfeeding, Cao Yunjin was exposed to dating beauties more than once.

When the child was more than a year old, Cao Yunjin issued a divorce statement. The agent said that the reason for the divorce between the two parties was: "the man is the breadwinner, and the woman has no income".

His wife gave up her fledgling career and stayed at home to give birth to children, with no financial resources, but he used it as an excuse for divorce. The world is big and complex.

We are accustomed to walking through thorns, stepping over mountains and rivers, and crossing ravines.

Therefore, we often forget that there are always a few people in this world who will bring us unexpected warmth and help us maintain the temperature of a hot heart.

They are like angels who have fallen into the mortal world, silently guarding us behind them.

But along the way, if we never look back, there is no guarantee that they will be lost one day.

So remember, be sure to hold their hands on the way forward, and don't accidentally lose them. Being a man should be like water, nourishing and embracing all things, but everywhere is indisputable.

It is precisely because of this humble mind that the energy around us can be gathered into an ocean.

Water, which seems to be colorless and tasteless, actually has a larger pattern.

The bigger the pattern, the broader the heart.

True tolerance is to be informal, to be able to see higher interests, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and there is no need to compete with each other.

A person who is truly capable will definitely tolerate a person who has no ability, just like water, which can accommodate all things, wash away dirt, and be good at edification. Those who owe you will teach you to be relieved.

As the so-called:

"Those who have a heart are tired, and those who have no heart don't care. "If you don't owe each other, how can you meet?" ”

The long road of life, as long as you live up to the present, is the best future.

For the rest of your life, you don't have to blame anyone in your life;

Don't dwell on the things that can be relieved, and don't blame those who should be put down.

If you think about it and see it through, you will have the leisure to taste happiness.

2. Do things hard, to have real skills

There is a saying that "the only constant in the world is 'change' itself".

The current stable work may have disappeared in the near future, only the ability to be stable is the real stability, to do things hard, only to continuously improve their ability, in order to have confidence, to do things hard. Nowadays, people often stay up until the early hours of the morning before going to bed, and only take a bath before going to bed; when the human body sleeps, the pores are closed, resulting in the inability to discharge moisture, and long-term accumulation of internal dampness causes disease.

External dampness causes disease, mostly due to patients being injured in fog and dew, or sweating and staining clothes, or working in water, or wading in the rain, or living in damp places.

In addition, summer is the most vigorous time of the year, and the pores of the human body are open, and sweating at this time is the easiest time to expel cold and moisture.

However, many friends turned on the air conditioner and drank cold drinks, which forcibly prevented the discharge of cold and moisture. 2. Soak your feet or take a bath with mugwort leaves: You can usually use traditional Chinese medicine to sweat and dispel dampness.

3. Sweat with ginger juice: Sometimes when it rains or is infected with wind chill, you can use hot and spicy ginger juice to dispel body moisture and prevent colds. Ginger juice effectively dissipates water vapor from the body.

Ginger is warm, can warm the cold, strengthen the spleen and protect the stomach.

4. Traditional Chinese medicine to dispel dampness: Chinese medicine to dispel dampness includes: red adzuki bean, white lentil, coix seed, kapok, gourd, Sichuan root Z, Poria cocos, lily, lotus seed, sand kernel, Faxia and so on.

Some people who love winter swimming will use the seeds, coix seeds, poria cocos, lilies, and red adzuki beans every day to cook porridge and drink, these traditional Chinese medicines are very effective in removing more stagnation and moisture in the body, and at the same time strengthen the spleen and stomach. "Tea is drinking, from Shennong's, smelled in Lu Zhougong", elegant and vulgar appreciation, suitable for all ages, drinking tea can make people get rid of annoyance and dust, get the peace and tranquility of the soul, but also clear the heart and mind, known as the 21st century "the healthiest drink". Tea is rich in connotative substances, nourishing life, and drinking tea to nourish the body, has also become the consensus of drinkers.

With the company of tea, life always comes more flavorful. It is only a matter of minutes or even seconds to meditate on a cup of tea, empty yourself, and let your mind let go of your worries. In the world of tea, tea tasting slows down time, and that's because you enjoy the time of drinking tea. At the moment of drinking tea, the color, taste and aroma of the tea constitute a feeling. Tea is both a mundane thing and an elegant thing, and tea is born with the environment and people, and this feeling will be unforgettable.

It tastes so good that the senses remember it, and then it forms a feeling that changes over time, but you still remember it.

Drinking tea is a pleasure

Lu Yu's "Book of Tea" in the Tang Dynasty said that "tea can be pleasant", drinking tea, tasting tea, eating tea for a long time, especially when drinking tea with excellent quality or after tasting tea, it will give birth to a sense of happiness, pleasure, happiness, and heartiness.

Most people who like to drink tea can keep a good mood.