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Indeed, in a relationship, the same thing, the same thing, the meaning behind reaching out and taking the initiative to give is completely different.

If a person really loves you, without you opening his mouth, the other party will take the initiative to give you the best, on the contrary, what you reach out to ask for will only be charity and humility.

Therefore, in a relationship, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, no matter how good the relationship is, don't reach out to ask for it, especially these two things.

Yesterday, a friend in the group asked me a question in a private message: It's my birthday in a few days, should I ask the other party for a birthday gift?

I replied to her: Gifts, the initiative to give is the heart, what is to come.

For friends to ask about this, I think it is human nature, but the gift must be given by others, not reached out to ask, if the gift is coming, it can only say that you are coming with the same thing, not love and care.

Indeed, as lovers and husband and wife, on holidays, especially birthdays, they want to receive gifts carefully prepared by their partners for themselves, because they can feel the true feelings and love of each other.

As a person who is full of love for you and has affection in his heart, he will also take the initiative to carefully prepare gifts for you and carefully select gifts for you In their concepts, the family is not as good as their actual interests, let alone stick to their commitments.

In the book "The Road Less Traveled", it is said that mental maturity requires knowing how to be self-disciplined and taking responsibility for one's own life.

A mature man is bound to learn to take responsibility for his family.

Put away your childishness and live a good life.

I know a boy who is very smart and has a lot of ideas, but he has a fatal flaw, that is, he is immature, he is not down-to-earth, and he does not have much sense of responsibility.

He and his wife have been together since he was 18 years old, and his family is not well-off, the family can only make ends meet, and he has a younger sister who is in elementary school.

But the woman was willing to marry him precisely because she liked his talent and intelligence, and was determined that he would have a future. I have heard the saying that a fish swims in the water but forgets that there is water, and a bird flies on the wind but does not know that there is a wind.

This bird, this fish, is it like us who are favored, there is no fear.

Some people, the more we get used to their goodness, the easier it is to forget their goodness.

When enjoying being loved becomes a habit, you will subconsciously feel that this love is what you should have.

But in reality, when people give you all their enthusiasm, they think you are worth it, and you should let them know that their efforts are worth it.

A heart is like boiling water on a stove, it needs to be constantly added to the fire to maintain the hot heat, and if the flame is left to go out, the water will eventually become cold.

When the water is cold, it can be boiled again, but when the heart is cold, it is irretrievable.

reminds me of the movie "Charlotte's Troubles", Charlotte is exactly like this to his wife Ma Dongmei. Being a man is like water, colorless is pure, and desireless is rigid.

The Tao Te Ching has clouds:

"The thickness of virtue is better than that of a child. ”

A person with profound virtue is like a newborn baby, honest and pure, clear and clean.

Zhuangzi once said:

Wrens nest in the deep forest, but only one branch, and the wrens drink from the river, but they are full.

In today's great abundance of desires, few people can achieve spiritual satisfaction.

The so-called: there is no greater misfortune than discontentment, and there is no greater blame than desire.

The reason why water purifies all things is because it is simple and honest.

You can look at the end at a glance, there are swimming fish and floating algae, and static energy can reflect all things.

To be a man is to be like water, to be quiet, to be clear-minded, not to be lost in desires, to be black and white.

Happiness is a glass of white water, although there is no colorful noise, but it is clean and enough to quench thirst, the days are simple, there will be no disputes in life, life is like water, it is happy enough. People can't give up learning at any time, because if they don't study, they will be eliminated.

It's like water without roots and wood without roots, it can't last long.

The bottom line of principles, keep in mind the heart, do things hard, have a bottom line and principles, and don't be a good person.

A person always listens to the opinions of others, and never has his own opinions and opinions.

Usually, it seems that he has a good relationship with everyone, but no one is willing to listen to his opinion when it comes to critical times.

Do things hard, keep the bottom line, if the bottom line is broken, it will be difficult for people to turn back.

It is easy to break through, but it is difficult to hold on, and many people can't stick to it, give up their principles, it is difficult to get it back, and they have gone astray. The so-called desperate situation in life is only a temporary precipitation.

Like a seed, buried deep in the soil, only thick accumulation can thin hair.

Wait patiently, and you can find a glimmer of life.

In this world, there is no desperate situation that cannot be walked out, only people who do not want to come out.

As Mr. Mu Xin said:

"The so-called bottomless abyss, if you go down, it is also a long way ahead. ”

If you can have a heart as wide as the sea, you can be calm. Green tea itself is not fermented, the tea leaves are not oxidized, and various substances of fresh leaves can be retained to the greatest extent, and green tea contains a large amount of caffeine, tea polyphenols and other components that can be retained more comprehensively.

Therefore, if you drink green tea, it is more conducive to diuresis, such as: Dongting Biluochun, West Lake Longjing, Huangshan Maofeng, Xinyang Maojian, Anji White Tea, etc. are all famous Chinese teas.

Green tea is cold, for friends whose physique itself is cold, you must pay attention to observe or drink less, and stop drinking if there is a reaction. Tea lovers with a bad stomach should also pay attention to their stomachs, and if they find discomfort, they should drink less or not at all.

For normal groups, once their physical fitness improves, they can consider drinking it with other teas, drinking green tea in the morning and other teas in the afternoon. Sometimes, the environment is limited, the tea set and tea table layout do not have to be too particular, what tea to drink, what taste, at this time it becomes less important, the important thing is the mood of drinking tea, the mood is good, the tea is naturally sweeter. The happiness in a cup of tea is the peace of mind and indifference that have not been left for a long time in the palm of your hand.

Tea is a silent companion

The way tea moves you is not softly, but silently accompanied.

When we start drinking tea, we think about its taste, think about its aroma, we use all kinds of adjectives and nouns we can think of to describe its shape, its color, its taste, so that it becomes a habit that can be said casually. From a scientific point of view, the trace elements contained in tea itself can prompt the body to secrete happy hormones and make you feel refreshed.