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(I got off work at 11:20 today, and I won't be able to finish the work until the end of the month, so I've been slow to replace chapters recently, I hope the little angels can forgive me, woo woo.) Don't scold me, I recommend an online movie to you, it's pretty good, "Yin Yang Beauty Coffin" can go and watch it if you like supernatural weirdness. ）

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There is a cloud in "Fa Yan": "Words, the voice of the heart." ”

Words are the voice of thoughts, and from a person's words, the inner voice can often be heard.

So as to preliminarily judge what a person's character is and whether it is worth associating.

Those people with poor character are inseparable from the following three words, if there are such people around, please pay attention to beware, and you must not have deep friendships. After dinner, I watched "Reader" for a while while while resting, the theme of that issue was companionship, and I saw the story of the voice actor Qiao Zhen and his wife, and listened to them together, and read Pei Duofei's "I Wish It Was a Torrent" affectionately, and I was moved to tears.

I can't help but sigh, I'm a person, I probably can't see other people's hearts, otherwise I can be moved by accident.

When I remembered the words of the host who said "Companionship is warm, it means that there are people in this world who are willing to give you the most beautiful thing, that is time", my nose was sour. I always want to leave the best side to my family, and those "bad" ones suffer silently.

When you reach a certain age, you no longer have an eaves to hide from the rain, so you simply let yourself become that eaves.

As Eileen Chang writes in the book:

People after middle age often feel lonely, and when they open their eyes, they are all people who rely on him, and no one can rely on them.

In the past, I felt that middle-aged people were particularly difficult, but later I slowly discovered that the truth of life is that every stage of life has its difficulties.

My friend Mengmeng is a short video director, because of the adjustment of the company's department, she was assigned to be an anchor and promote products.

A quiet girl suddenly has to go to a position completely different from her personality and major, this huge sense of gap is terrifying. As soon as the show was recorded, she could only sleep for three or four hours a day, and sometimes she had heart palpitations in the middle of the night, and she could only carry it silently.

During the time when Ye Zi "escaped" from the crew, the program team was not unable to operate because of one less person.

But the girl, who was so tired that she was about to collapse, came back full of vitality after half a month's rest.

In fact, in the face of those very bad moments, we don't have to immediately turn ourselves into superman. Sometimes it's okay to slow down, get some sleep, and then pick up the shield and rush out when you wake up.

Rest when you're tired, and cry when you're sad.

Life is really hard, sometimes it's a little cowardly, it's okay.

The best way for two people to get along is not to dislike each other, but to promote each other. What she said, you take it to heart, slowly correct it, and get better step by step. In the love test, there was no perfect score at the beginning, but in the day after day of getting along, we gradually know each other's answers, so you will do more and more questions and make fewer and fewer mistakes.

Talk to people who understand you, and talk about feelings with people who care about you. Women will be more and more gentle, and men will be more and more mature. True love is not about giving up when you encounter a small setback, but about holding each other's hands tightly even if there are thousands of reasons to leave. Because you know that in the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet, and it is a pity to lose. To understand tea, you need to respect every tea with your heart, just like a person who is destined, no matter how high or low, you can find something to appreciate from him.

To understand tea, you need to have a conversation with tea without perfunctory, like to a friend, you know all his experiences and understand his uniqueness better, and you know how to get along with him.

The Treasure of Time

Some people say: drinking tea is not water, but taste, after a long time, even drinking is not the taste of tea, but the taste of heart and life. Different seasons or different times of the day correspond to different teas, like cool or warm times in life.

The difference is that the dull time in life accounts for the majority, but when the mind is calm, there is always a taste in the tea.

Zhuangzi once said: "You don't know that your husband is a praying mantis, you are angry with your arms to be ruts, you don't know that you are incompetent, and you are the beauty of your talent." ”

The praying mantis blocks the carriage with its tiny arms and is bound to fail. This is precisely because it overestimates itself too much and lacks self-knowledge of its own power.

A person can lack ability or financial resources, but he cannot lack self-knowledge.

If you don't have diamonds, don't do porcelain work. You must have a good idea of how much you have to do.

Are our current achievements given to us by the team, touted by others, or achieved by our own down-to-earth?

Lao Tzu said: "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear."

Only by recognizing the situation and understanding oneself can one not fall into the misunderstanding of conceit or inferiority and encounter the Waterloo of life.

Everyone has their own talents and flaws, and we must not be arrogant or arrogant.

Overestimating oneself and underestimating oneself is not a posture that understands what a person should be. Different people will taste different tastes of tea.

People who understand tea can taste the various states of life from tea, taste the spring, summer, autumn and winter that this tea has experienced, and taste the things contained in this cup of tea that others can't taste.

People who love tea will only taste tea more and more deeply.

This is the ability that tea gives us the ability to appreciate, and those who taste tea with their hearts will definitely be able to live their lives with their hearts.

No matter what life throws at us, we all need a strength that gives us peace of mind. In this hustle and bustle of the world, it is indeed a blessing for you to have a cup of tea with you.

Know how to drink tea, know how to make yourself healthy, drink a good mood, choose a tea that suits you, day after day, wash away all your troubles.

The future I want is to see the whole 。。。。。

Between making tea and drinking tea, give yourself a piece of peace of mind.

As mentioned at the beginning of the article, people who know how to taste life, whether they are rich or frugal, always have a small world of their own peace.

Tea drinkers are like this, no matter how much the teacup or tea is worth, as long as you have a relationship with this tea, it can give you the most comfortable little world. Low-key people are often extraordinary people in the crowd, and they are also the last strong ones. Only low-key people can adhere to the calm and calm aspirations in today's chaotic world, and face the unpredictable life with a peaceful and optimistic attitude.

Low-key people can always put themselves in the right position to measure the ideal footsteps, feel the true meaning of life, taste the bits and pieces of life, and listen to the breath of nature.