Chapter 256: If you don't put a cold arrow behind your back, you don't deserve to be the protagonist (2)
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Some time ago, there was a passage on the Internet that was very popular: "You make something out of nothing, secretly show your position, imagine out of thin air, and fabricate ...... out of thin air"
In life, people who love to talk nonsense are probably like this.
Gossiping is an indispensable part of their lives.
Because the days are too empty and pale, they need to use other people's tea and dinner to add their own color.
They often speak freely, using their own opinions to speculate on the minds of others, and they always can't see the good of the people around them.
It is their ability to add oil and vinegar, and "straightforward and fast" is their rhetoric.
Keen to treat his mouth as uprightness and meanness as humor. Such touching feelings have warmed up the hearts of people who have seen too much about money, power, abandonment, love, derailment, divorce, and divorce.
So, I will sigh, I will envy, and I will feel that in the context of "fast love", having such a person by my side, being good to me and spoiling myself is really a blessing from my previous life.
remembered that my colleague Xiao Zhang didn't come to work two days ago, and came to inquire, only to know that he specially asked for leave that day to accompany his daughter-in-law to take a pregnancy test.
We have all met Xiao Zhang's wife, and when the department had dinner, Xiao Zhang was reluctant to let her eat alone at home, so after asking our opinions, he asked her to come over and join us.
Xiao Zhang is famous for loving his wife, cooking for his daughter-in-law, delivering meals to his daughter-in-law, mending clothes for his daughter-in-law, blowing her hair for her daughter-in-law, these small details, sometimes taken out by him to show affection in the circle of friends, will always provoke us to be jealous of the "curse". Since when has we all been accustomed to taking things to heart, no matter how tired we are, we will force ourselves to resist.
Some people say that it's not that they don't want to say it, it's just that there are some things that can only be carried by themselves;
Some hardships can only be borne by oneself, and some tiredness can only be supported by oneself.
Many times, choosing to stick with it is not that we are really strong enough, but that we have no choice.
We are like a spinning top, we dare not stop, we dare not malfunction, busy and tired have long become the norm of life.
But remember that when you're tired, try to put your busy life on hold and give yourself a vacation.
Not long ago, the team of my best friend Ye Zi took on a new variety show, and the producer had high expectations for the new show, and assigned an important job to my girlfriend.
Yezi, who is usually active, took an annual leave and drove to the northwest for a walk.
There was no fuss, no bitter runny nose, just calmly packed his luggage, without even a superfluous goodbye, under the white sky, sinking into the crowded crowd, like a pebble falling into the sea, disappearing without a trace in an instant.
In the relationship, there are always some people who will let you know by leaving that even if you love again, patience will run out one day, and even if you are patient, love will eventually wear off. There are fewer than a thousand cups of wine for a confidant, and a cup of drunk for a confidant in tea.
Friends are not in quantity, but in quality. Some friends, without the strength of the wine, only the elegance of the tea, when you are proud, go against the ear, and when you are disappointed, solve problems. In life, you will be happy when you encounter a few cups of good tea, and it is enough to have one or two confidants in life.
in life
There are two kinds of tea, one is the tea of "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea", and the other is the tea of "qin, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, wine tea".
Tea can be a timely water when you are dry and thirsty, take a big sip, the important thing is to moisten the throat and refresh the heart, and the aroma and taste of tea are not so important. Tea can also be your savoring slow life, a sip, a leisurely flower, a light breeze.
Every time you taste tea, it is the first and last time, no matter how many people drink it, how many pots it is, everything will eventually drift away with the fragrance of tea, leaving only their hearts.
The end of greed
The mood of good tea and drinking tea is like desire and ideal, the end of desire is material possession, and the ultimate ideal is spiritual fullness. No matter how good the tea is, there will eventually be a time when it will be drunk, and the mood of drinking tea is inexhaustible.
In the endless pursuit of better tea, it is better to be ready to drink tea at any time.
Zhuangzi once said: "The husband does not want to be mixed, miscellaneous is more, more is disturbed, disturbed is worried, and worry is not saved." The ancients are the people, first save themselves and then all people. ”
Many things, once there are too many, they will become complicated, once they are complicated, they will become chaotic, and once they are too chaotic, they will cause trouble.
Therefore, our ancestors will stand up very seriously, and only when they stand firm can they pull others up.
A person must first become stronger before he can help others. If he is too busy to take care of himself, how can he help the world at the same time?
The ancients said that people must first cultivate themselves, and then work together as a family, and then they can govern the country and level the world.
If you can't pass your own cultivation, how can you get enough ability to help the people in the world?
Great oaks from little acorns grow.. If you want to learn to love others, you should start by loving yourself. More than half of the year has passed, and it seems that the whole world is reminding us to learn to cherish.
That's right, time, family, friendship, love, opportunity...... We should all cherish and care more, and the premise of these is to cherish our health.
Tea is a good helper for health. Among the many teas, the one that is suitable for nourishing the body and drinking in all seasons is the big red orange.
When Yunnan Pu'er tea meets Xinhui mandarin, the mellow and sweet flavor blends into the mellow fruit aroma, and the citrus peel (i.e., tangerine peel) and tea absorb the essence of each other, forming a citrus Pu tea with a unique flavor and a unique taste.
How high is the health value of big red mandarins? Perhaps, we can embellish our lives with a cup of tea.
Tea can quench thirst and cultivate the mind, tea can be a mundane thing or an elegant play, tea can be drunk casually, or it can be tasted exquisitely.
Tea lovers often not only love tea, but also take care of all aspects of their lives, and are full of beauty and fun.
Tea enhances our aesthetic taste, and often reminds us to maintain a heart that loves life. Low-key is a wonderful fusion of ideological realm, personality charm and ability and level. Those truly learned scholars and scholars are simple in life, low-key, simple, unassuming, tolerant, and respected from the bottom of their hearts. Being a low-key person seems to lower yourself, but in fact, your personality has been sublimated. In his opinion, there is nothing to show off in life, and there is nothing to fight for a lifetime, only peace, plainness, and calmness can reach the most beautiful state of life. The person who lowers himself and tunes with his heart is not isolated from the world, but the person who tunes is not isolated from the world, but the person who tunes is not isolated from the world, but