I don't know if you have noticed that since we went to college, there are quite a few people who have encouraged us to fall in love. When we left home, our parents encouraged us to fall in love, our dean encouraged us to fall in love at the orientation party, and our subject teacher encouraged us to fall in love in our first class. When we were in high school, everyone was against us falling in love, and now everyone is encouraging us to be in love. I really want to know if I'm crazy or the world is crazy. Love this thing can control the timing of its time. So today I want to talk about love.

First of all, we must ask, what is love? Some people say that love is a siege. The people outside the siege fantasized about how beautiful it was and wanted to get in. Some people say that love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning between people, and the emotion of selflessness and dedication. And scientists say that love is a physiological reaction that has a chemical effect. When you get along with someone of the opposite sex, your brain analyzes your DNA and determines your liking for them. It is said that the principle is that the less similar you are genetically, the better, but if you get along for a long time, this affection will be selectively ignored by your brain. After knowing each other for a long time, there is no love? No, if you are nice to someone and they are happy. At this time, the body secretes endorphins. This substance produces pleasure and inhibits pain. As the relationship continues, dopamine and serum amine are secreted in the body. Dopamine increases a person's arousal level, producing feelings of pleasure. It is the premise of norepinephrine, and to put it bluntly, the more adrenaline there is, the more excited you are. So when Duan Yu saw Wang Yuyan, he got carried away and talked nonsense. Serum amine is an intermediate substance, which also ends up making the body excited and happy. But it is more long-lasting because there is a series of biochemical reactions before it works. The series of sensations they produce with endorphins is love.

I believe most people prefer the second option, because people prefer to like beautiful things. And they all prefer to believe in the good. Even if it's just a beautiful dream, people don't want to wake up. Actually, I don't understand love. I can't arbitrarily say what kind of love can be called love. I will only use the simplest way to discern love, and that is feeling.

More than 1,000 years ago, Socrates' disciple asked Socrates, "What is love?" and Socrates took him to a field of wheat and said, "You walk through this field of wheat without going back, and pluck the largest ear of wheat in it." When the apprentice had finished doing this, he did not pick an ear of wheat, and Socrates told him that it was love. It doesn't matter if you're in love, it's the best, only the most suitable. Don't always chase the best and miss the one that suits you best.

Also, love should require distance. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. In Africa, there is a species of porcupine with a stiff and pointed fur. When it's cold, they gather together to keep each other warm. But when they get closer, the tips of the hairs on their bodies will sting each other and cause them to separate immediately, and then they will come together again because of the cold, and then they will separate again because of the pain, and so on several times, and finally they will find the best distance between each other—the greatest warmth under the lightest pain. In fact, love is also like a porcupine, and the distance of a porcupine is actually the distance of love.

Finally, I want to say that everyone's love is a movie, and I am the protagonist and director of this movie, and whether this movie I interpret is an art film, a tragic film, a silent film, a commercial film, and a disaster film, it all depends on my attitude towards life! Thank you.

Relationships will have different feelings and thoughts at different stages. Now I'm going to talk about love around us college students. I remember my uncle telling me when I was in junior high school that college was a paradise for love, but I now think how superficial this idea is, because my first love has not yet been given away. But my first kiss had already ended one summer, and when night fell, I don't know if it was my dad or my mom.

I have seen the personality signatures of many classmates, the most direct male classmate is the mother-in-law, it's time to ship!Second, I want to know what will flash in your mind when my name slides over your ears, this sentence I once asked a man, he said that it is similar to a cold and fever, this metaphor I can only reveal that he is studying medicine, but I don't think a single girl is a sin. Single girls are not tired, I even feel that the days without men are not lonely, and the days without girlfriends are terrible. There are three possibilities for insomnia in girls, the first is to have a crush on a boy, and what I think is the farthest distance in the world, not life and death, but I stand in front of you, but you don't know that I love you. The second is to talk about it, I can't sleep because I think too much about it, and the third is that I eat too much.

The university environment has its uniqueness: for university students, it provides a buffer environment for young people to enter society. Young people are able to socialize more calmly and develop their self-concept more perfectly, without feeling the strong contrast and psychological discomfort of falling directly into society from mid-adolescence. Falling in love with a college student is not a bad thing, it is very helpful for the maturity of youth. Whether it is psychological or physical needs, they are eager for the appearance of their ideal other half.

In the contemporary college campus, it can be said that "falling in love" has been regarded as a landscape, the backs of male and female students holding hands can be seen everywhere on campus, and even some students think that "I have never been in love in college, which is a pity", "talking about a vigorous love" is "a compulsory course in college", and some students also joked that not falling in love is a manifestation of not mistaking a career. I also kind of think that I have been watching it very perfectly, and I like one of the songs in it very much, I just want to be your princess and have that ordinary happiness.

University, such a place of wind and snow, at this time girls are inevitably still childish, but the psychological maturity is far greater than that of boys, it can be said that the youth of girls is priceless, but at this time boys have neither much wisdom, nor wealth and status, but also no career, if there is a girl who is sincerely with him, he should cherish it, because this girl will encourage him to continue to grow, how beautiful the days of struggle together, in this boy has nothing, the girl spends with him in her most beautiful and beautiful age, so boys should know how to love more, usually bullied by the girl she loves, scolded, and doing all kinds of work is as it should be.

Although the meaning of love has a positive side, it can sometimes harm the mental health of young people. What does it mean to be in love, why do I always have tears in my eyes, () because I love you for the depth of your love. But no one is perfect, there will be shortcomings, and the further development of love will also bring social problems, such as impulsiveness, an extra life, which causes a psychological burden on girls to be overweight.

What if you fall out of love, because your goddess or male god has found a better one, at this time it can only be nerve mind, you will find someone like him, you can bless them, go out of school, go to marriage, and then divorce. But there are also many young people trapped by love, and all kinds of suicides are not news. Without proper psychological guidance or strong self-regulation ability, the psychological blow of falling out of love is great for young people.

People are so contradictory, and if you want to be sweetly rewarded, you have to stand the test.

I don't have a negative view of college love, but love should be carefully considered, it must be like-minded and destined, otherwise it will only bring too much pressure and trouble to people in the end. Love is originally a thing that would rather be lacking than abundant, and it is not in a hurry, and it is not in a hurry. Wang Guozhen also said not to love easily, let alone hate, let alone to live more easily, so that youth can leave more chic marks.

Finally, to borrow a sentence from Yu Minhong, one thing to do in college: fall in love. "It's best to be in love, because love life in college is a sincere relationship. If that's not possible, pull it down. That's my talk. Thank you!

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