Dear authors, dear readers,

Hello everyone, the topic I want to talk about today is "friendship and love", this topic is a bit big for me, due to limited experience, I have summarized a little connection and four differences between friendship and love: friendship is the foundation and premise of love; love is the development and qualitative change of friendship.

The first point is that the pillar of friendship is "understanding", and the pillar of love is "affection". The most important thing in friendship is mutual understanding of each other, whether it is the strengths and advantages of the other party, or the shortcomings and shortcomings of the other party, love is to use feelings to beautify each other's shortcomings.

The second point is that the status of friendship is "equal", and the status of love is "one". Friends have the same position and equal status, so you don't have to be too polite, you can persuade each other bluntly, even if there are contradictions, it's nothing. Love has a sense of oneness, and the hearts of two people are one, so they cannot touch each other, but can only merge with each other.

Third, the system of friendship is "extensive", while the system of love is "unique". Two people have a strong friendship, and as long as they have the same interests, the third and fourth people can join at any time. Love is not, two people are in love, and it is absolutely not okay for a third party to intervene.

Fourth, the atmosphere of friendship is "trust", and the atmosphere of love is "uneasy". A sincere friendship, with an absolute sense of dependence, is like a stone that will not be shaken. On the contrary, a man and a woman who love each other, although they are not dependent on each other, are always surrounded by all kinds of uneasiness, such as, "I love her deeply, does she love me deeply?"

It has been said, "There is no real friendship between men and women." "I think that's too categorical, too hypocritical. Who can say that there is no real friendship between boys and girls. Indeed, love often follows friendship, and many boys and girls go to love because of friendship. Therefore, there should be a degree of communication, otherwise you will slip into the trap of making people fall if you are not careful.

Having said so much, in connection with reality, one thing must be clear as a high school student, in addition to studying, friendship is essential, but love is completely a burden, falling in love is definitely playing with fire, and when the time comes, it will burn the hearts of both parties and ruin the future.

Now, the love I'm going to talk about can happen to you, it can happen to you, it can happen to you, it can happen to everyone. The story is all true, and for the sake of convenience, I use the first person.

The following paragraph is the opening sentence that I think is the best I know, my husband and I went on a date for the first time, the first meal I ate, the first sentence I said, I don't have time to fall in love with you, I want to get married, this sentence said that you may think I am very two, but you must know that at that time, I had just ended a six-year love, and I loved carefully and compromised in love, we rarely met, and the most commonly used contact method was to send text messages. I always feel that a man's greatest promise and compliment to a woman is to marry her. And we never talked about it between us, and I knew very well that it was because he didn't love me enough, and that's it, and I waited for a year, two years. I wanted to fight him, but six years have passed, I feel that I can't stand it anymore, and love is slowly leaving me.

The next day we went back to our hometowns, we reported to our families, and then on the third day, our parents flew all the way from our respective cities to Beijing to meet, and after a week we decided to get engaged, and another week later, we got married. I think it's very unreliable to know who told me what a blind date was a flash marriage before, but then the facts told me that the so-called moment, if you meet the right person, that moment can become eternal. That was four years ago, and now we are together and living really happily, with a son who is three years old this year.

There is also a story, for ten years, a person told me, he said that he liked me for ten years, the first side, was in a lot of people on an occasion, he saw me from afar, at that moment he was moved, but at that time I didn't notice his existence at all, after ten years, he met almost all the friends around me' Colleague and family, in fact, we have many opportunities to meet and get to know each other, but every time this time, he will give up such an opportunity, he said to me, because he understands that I am the right person, but that ten years, is not the right moment, so in those ten years, he is so far away, far away to pay attention to my every move, and I experience my joys and sorrows like this.

Ten years later, I finally began to stumble to start my life, and at this time he finally appeared in front of me, when we sat down for the first time really face to face, he was very calm, I was also calm, but I understood that at that moment, we were calm on the outside, and the heart was full of vicissitudes, he told me the story of the past ten years, and then he let out a long sigh and said, hey, this is the remembrance, there must be a memory. I think love is like that, meeting the right person at the right time. You have to have courage and luck, love is sometimes as beautiful as the sunset, a little trance, after it goes down, you will be a little desperate, thinking that it will never rise, but the next day, the sun will still hang in the sky like a ghost, still bright, still dazzling. I'm proud, I have a pure heart, it's been toyed with, it's been deceived, it may have been broken, but it's still beating, it's still loving. Indeed, even if love will make you bruised tomorrow, you still have to love today, even if it is only for a moment, because at the moment of your love, this world is really incomparably beautiful.

Thank you.

Finally, I would like to give you a poem: it is the most beautiful fantasy when I look at you

The right hand that you have led,

It seems to be desolate for me.

The lost love,

No more hesitation,

No more grief,

The smile that used to be on your face.

As if quietly exiting,

Your favorite,

While holding my right hand,

Sending out good wishes for the future.

My favorite,

While holding your left hand,

Looking at your affectionate face and secretly laughing,

DID YOU KNOW THAT

When you let go of my right hand,

My heart is dead.

When you are in love,

It's sweet talk,

When you break up,

Just north, south, east and west.

Love in the right hand,

Where has it gone.

In hate;

Growing up to care or not to love,

In the future where there are no choices.

a certain place,

The alternation of a certain gaze,

At a certain time,

Maybe it's the beginning of a relationship......

I packed my bags,

Pack up your mood,

Pick up that wandering heart,

decided to go looking for love,

Even if it's the end of the cape......

I don't know how long the road ahead is,

I can only measure the depth of my love for you with my feet......

Love is a puff of smoke caused by sighing,

The lover's eye has it purifying Mars,

The tears of lovers are the waves it stirs.

It's the wisest madness,

The bitterness of choking, the sweetness of the tongue.

Love

It is the brightest and most awake,

And compared to all the higher than the sky,

It is more immortal.

The life of the meteor dyed the entire sky in the moment of disappearance,

The stars cling to their attachments in the sky,

In the sky of my love,

I don't want you to be the meteor of my journey,

And be the star of my love.

Let's keep that golden old days,

Love sublimates into music in heaven,

Music is restored to immortality in heaven.

In fact

Life you can love,

It is also possible not to love;

world

You can choose,

You can also choose not to choose.

Love is like on the back of a snail,

Squeezing on the tip of the heart on top of each other,

There is only one point,

But it is enough to penetrate the whole heart and soul.

I think I'm willing to follow the tune of love myself,

Come and sing the lyrics of love yourself,

But the voice is only in the bottom of my heart,

But there was silence in his mouth.

philosophy

I have searched hard to find your form,

Open your eyes that never close,

In this sea of love.

No monuments will be erected,

And let all the roses,

Bloom just for her every year.

I want to love you with everything I have,

It's not too long,

Just for a lifetime.

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