Later, I don't know when, I found out that I am a very strange person, every time I always want to hurt myself, or hurt my relatives in the family, and every time I always leave good habits and good concepts, and some good things to the people next to me Sometimes I find out that this may be a very bad habit, a very bad habit, because many people want themselves to live a better life, hope that their relatives live a better life, but later I found out that I still hope that these relatives around me can live a peaceful life like before, and can live the kind of happy life they wantSometimes I find out that although our life is actually the life of the lowest peasant, I don't have so much ideological baggage, and I can live freely.

Don't think about so many messy things, in fact, people like them are very simple-minded, in fact, they live quite happily, and sometimes find that such a simple and happy rhythm is also very good, don't disturb the peace of people's lives, in our own home, in fact, people are farmers are very good, people feel happy every day, and one day I found that in fact, if you really give others a better life, others may not feel happy, because they have been accustomed to a mode of life, if you change suddenly, maybe you will not really adapt, in some communities in the county is a good exampleIn fact, they are used to living in the countryside, they like each family to have a separate yard, which is more convenient and comfortable, and when you really let them live in those unit buildings together, maybe their hearts are not so happy, they still want to live like before, they will not feel that they live in a western-style building, live in a western-style house and be happy, maybe sometimes they go to the county, just to do something for your children and grandchildren, to their sons, daughters-in-law to bring a child these things, so they will go, sometimes I think they are still forcing themselves, they themselves don't want to go, but because they want to take children, Let the son and daughter-in-law go to work, so it can only be like this, force yourself, but they are so wronged every time, to let themselves have a better life, this may be the idea of the elders, they are like this every time, give the best things to their children, so I also think that those children with parents should really be very happy, because at least someone cares, someone can give you the best life, although you think it's nothing, but at least it's good, and those children who don't have anyone to care for, in fact, there is nothing bad about it, when I say this, in fact, I think I still have a little psychological problemI don't think there's anything wrong with it, because I think it's a little strange to say this, no one wants to be a child without parents, no one wants to be a single-parent family, but in this case, people are already such a family, so there is no need to be so depressed, you can only accept the reality with a good attitude, you can only adjust your own mentality.

So when you really face the life without parents, you still hope that you can take good care of yourself, take good care of your own life, everyone is sooner or later to rely on their own children, those children without parents, in fact, they should be earlier to contact social work, to start exercising themselves, and those children with parents have been living on their parents, every time they always hope that they can get something from their parents, and their parents have always been like this, no matter what, they hope to be able to do it, hoping to provide better conditions for their childrenThis is all the psychology of parents, so we children should exercise themselves as soon as possible, but we also found that in our lives, who would be willing to endure hardship?

Because a lot of hardship and hard work in life are forced to do it. There is really no way, will face the reality like this, who will ask for hardship for no reason, maybe those who ask for hardship are just those adventurers in the United States or other countries to experience life, every country has its own way of survival, of course, in our China, such a way of survival is not very suitable at all, we will still pay attention to the family, pay attention to the life of family affection, continue to live, this may be a social atmosphere, every time like this, pay attention to yourself, pay attention to the family, in fact, there is nothing bad, can increase the affection between relatives, can increase the feelings between people。

Those who are too independent may be some individual individuals, and we are still relying on others in the process, and gradually find that the distance between us and others is very close.

Whether it's between parents and children, or between neighbors, everyone gets along better together, because there are feelings, everyone is those who have been together for decades, and I think they should have some feelings in their hearts.

So when we see the good of others, in fact, our own life is also good, in the previous time I saw a lot of articles in the text, all of which were written about how good foreign countries, in fact, sometimes I didn't refute them, because there was no need to refute, I knew it in my heart, sometimes I also felt that my country was very good, this may be due to the factors of my own feelings, many people don't know what's going on, always feel that others are good, and I always feel that I am good。

Maybe it's the difference between people and people's concepts, some people go out to travel or go shopping to buy things, they always like to bring large bags and small bags to their homes, and I always travel lightly when I go outside, sometimes I feel that I really have no way to buy some things, I will buy some necessities that I must use, and then bring other things, there is no need to bring so much, there is no need to buy so many things and bring them back, how big is the difference between the outside and our things?

I really haven't found this myself, maybe it's really like others think, there is really a difference in quality or other aspects of use, and I have never experienced it myself.

Because I am a very lazy person, I will feel very tired when I carry such heavy things from afar, so I have been lazy all the time, and I have never bought things outside, and bought them near my home, so it is more convenient, especially those large things.