My temperament has changed dramatically since I became pregnant!

I used to walk slowly, and after I got pregnant, I walked with the wind; I never ate coriander, and I wanted to grab some coriander for everything I ate after pregnancy; I didn't like to eat mutton steamed buns before, and I had to eat mutton steamed buns every week after pregnancy, and I had to eat sweet garlic.

The first time I did an ultrasound doctor, he asked me if I was a bus conductor, and I smiled and asked why? She said that you are about to have a threatened miscarriage, and you are not a bus driver if you shake around every day? I smiled bitterly and said no. Coming out of the B-ultrasound room, she hurriedly looked for the old Chinese medicine doctor Gong, and she took the pulse and said that it was not a big problem. I told her that I had been running on the gym equipment before I knew I was pregnant, and I was also doing an auxiliary exercise, that is, I put a strap on my waist, the kind with vibration, and practiced for half an hour every day, mainly to lose the fat on my stomach.

Doctor Gong smiled and said, "It's not that serious, just be cautious from now on." Also, don't tell your colleagues and friends about your pregnancy first, so that there will be no mental pressure. After three months, if everything is normal, you can tell your relatives and friends, and everyone will take care of you. ”

I was puzzled and asked Dr. Gong why? Dr. Gong sighed and said, "You are a good child, but you have almost no life experience, otherwise you would not have taken so many detours in giving birth to a child and suffered such a great sin." ”

I couldn't help but feel nervous when I saw her serious expression, and quietly listened to Dr. Gong's instructions. Doctor Gong said earnestly, "Actually, I don't really agree that you are pregnant now. Because you have too much deficit in the early stage of your body, and your body functions are not very good, I wanted you to recuperate for half a year before getting pregnant, but you ignored that you were desperate and did not take contraceptive measures at all, and as a result, your body was pregnant before it recovered, which is unfair to the child, because you are not the best time. Now that you're pregnant, you've had two miscarriages before, so let's go with the flow. You can only make the effort the day after tomorrow, strengthen the diet, and try to give the child a good physical environment. ”

After listening to Dr. Gong's words, my tears fell. No one has ever told me this before, and I have never planned to have a child, I get pregnant by chance, I have an abortion at will, and then all kinds of bad habits lead to gallstones and a second abortion at the same time, what a ridiculous thing, and what an irresponsible behavior for the child and his own life. Now that I think about it, my back is cold, and God really favors me to give me another chance to get pregnant.

Doctor Gong asked me, "Didn't your mother instill this kind of thinking in you?" I shook my head, thinking about the state of being separated from my mother since I was a child, I didn't know a lot of common sense things, not to mention that there was no one to guide me, and I couldn't help but hurt myself secretly when I did things that hurt myself again and again. It would be nice if I could have met Dr. Gong earlier, but if this is the case, life is like this.

Before leaving, the palace doctor wanted to say something, and I begged the palace doctor to tell me that I was quite able to resist pressure, and I was also very strong, and that as long as it was good for the child, I would do it unconditionally......

Doctor Gong thought for a while and said, "If the child is born with deficiencies, it can be made up for the day after tomorrow, you just need to be attentive." "I begged Dr. Gong to be more detailed. She said: "You are very low, your husband is only 1.7 meters tall, if you want your child to grow taller, you insist on massaging the acupuncture points for the child every night, in order for the child to grow up healthily, you must learn some relevant knowledge of Chinese medicine, you owe the child you should make up for her through the day after tomorrow." ”

I reluctantly left the clinic and glanced back at Dr. Gong, who was also looking at me lovingly, and I could see a hint of unease in her eyes.

I was three months pregnant, and all kinds of examinations were normal, so I told my colleagues and friends the good news, and everyone took great care of me. I also enjoy the privilege of being a pregnant woman, I can eat whatever I want, and I don't have to worry about getting fat. I went to visit Dr. Gong during the monthly check-up in the fourth month, but I didn't see her in her office, and her clinic number was gone, I asked the nurse in her office before, only to know that she went abroad, went to New Zealand, got together with her child, and maybe never came back.

I stood in front of her office for a long time, this kind doctor, although we have known each other for less than eight months, but she taught me many principles of life, like motherly kindness, now in different hemispheres, maybe never to see each other again in this life.

When I was stunned, the nurse chased me out and asked, "Are you called Jia Xiaoyu?"

I was stunned and said, "Yes." ”

She said you wait, and as she spoke, she took out a square cardboard box from the consultation room and said that it was left for me by Dr. Gong. I was pleasantly surprised to take the box, said thank you, and went home with the box.

When I got home, I opened the box carefully, and I found that it was four books, books on acupuncture points, meridians, moxibustion and health preservation. Open the title page of the book: there is a line of juanxiu words: Shun four seasons and suitable for cold and summer, and joy and anger and a peaceful residence, yin and yang and tone of rigidity and softness.

Stroking the book, I couldn't calm down for a long time, grateful to meet this beautiful old lady, sowing the seeds of love in my world lacking maternal love, and injecting a little heaviness into my superficial heart.

Although my understanding is not good, but at least these books have opened a new chapter of respecting life and loving life, under the guidance of this love, my life has a different color, although I have never seen the kind doctor Gong again, but I believe that she is the noble person of my life.

The days of pregnancy are very happy, I don't vomit or have other discomfort reactions like other pregnant women, I have a good appetite, I walk with the wind, I gain weight quickly, I am low, my stomach is more like a big ball, my colleagues laugh at me and don't have to go, just hold my head and roll on the ground faster, I hit them with a folder in disgust, everyone laughed.

When I was 7 months pregnant, suddenly one day I got up and found that my leg was swollen, and I rushed to the hospital with my husband, and the doctor asked me what symptoms I had after examination, and I said no. The doctor solemnly ordered my husband: "She doesn't want to go home, she is hospitalized immediately, you go back and pack up your hospitalized things." ”

I was confused and didn't know what was going on.

Soon I was hospitalized, the doctor quickly injected me with magnesium sulfate, and I was diagnosed with gestational hypertension, and the high blood pressure had reached 160, but I had no other symptoms of discomfort.

The weather in May was already very hot, I was lying on the hospital bed playing magnesium sulfate, from morning to night, the nurse told me not to put the drip fast, it would be life-threatening, look at the watch, seven drops a minute.

One day I was suddenly stretched for a long time, and I was a happy pregnant woman, but now I was lying in the hospital bed, taking intravenous drips from morning to night, and my heart became heavy.

After lying like this for a week, I'm going crazy, but what can I do, who made me so short?

On the eighth day, the nurse took my blood pressure and asked, "Are you feeling unwell?" and I said, "No." ”

The nurse ran out, and after a while the head nurse came in.

The head nurse took my blood pressure again and asked, "Are you feeling unwell?" and I said, "No." ”

The head nurse went out in a hurry, and after a while the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department came in.

The nurse took my blood pressure again and asked, "Are you feeling unwell?" I said, "No." ”

The director checked my stomach for a long time and said with certainty: the child is very small, it should be less than five catties, and the meat is all on her belly.

He pondered for a moment with his cheeks on his cheeks, and then said to me, "It's okay, you have a good rest." He turned to my husband and said, "Come with me to the office, and I'll explain the precautions to you." Let Hou hurry out of the ward.

Later, my mother told me the details of these things. The doctor stabilized me first, because my high pressure has reached 200, that is, any sneezing may bleed heavily, and the situation is already very critical, the doctor said that surgery is necessary, but I want my husband to make a statement on the operation list: I want adults or children.

My husband quickly called my mom, and my mom arrived quickly.

The doctor told my mother and husband that the pregnant woman's condition is very dangerous and must be operated on, otherwise her life will be in danger at any time. But you have to do multiple-choice questions, whether to protect adults or children. You have to be clear that this is not a routine question for other pregnant women during cesarean section, whether to protect the adult or the child, but at present, only one can be guaranteed. I'll give you 5 minutes. ”

Then turn around and inform the other doctors to make preoperative preparations, and the surgery will start 20 minutes later.

My husband was stupid in an instant, his legs were weak, his eyes were red and he was squatting in the corner of the wall and shaking, and he couldn't hold the pen at all.

My mother rushed over and snatched the pen from my husband's hand, stood in front of the doctor, and said categorically: "I don't care if others have children or not, I want my children." Then he quickly signed.