Chapter 50: Confide

Xu Jiannan answered excitedly: "Yes, yes, that's it." He's either completely unsick or terminally ill. Of course, this does not rule out that there are many people who put more and more familiar diseases such as schizophrenia and depression on themselves. A few decades ago, there was no psychological popularization in this area, and everyone didn't seem to be depressed. Now the word depression is so common that it's like eating too much, or catching a cold. So everybody seems to have this disease. Every now and then, someone will say, 'I suspect I have depression.'" ”

Xu Jiannan talked endlessly about his feelings and thoughts, and Lu Yan listened quietly, occasionally saying a word.

Xu Jianan's mood also improved, because she found another advantage of Lu Yan, that is, it was not difficult to communicate with him at all! Unlike communicating with patients or ordinary people on weekdays, Xu Jianan needed to say it many times, and the other party might not be able to understand. Not to mention Xu Jianan's professional topic, no one can understand. But Lu Yan is different, sometimes Xu Jiannan even suspects that he also has an orthodox study of psychology. This man seems to know something...... It gives a sense of unfathomability.

When he was about to arrive, Lu Yan said, "What about you, eat breakfast before the patient arrives in a while." My first task for you is to help you learn how to take care of yourself. Then you just work hard, and when you get off work, I'll pick you up. ”

"You...... Aren't you usually very busy? Xu Jiannan tilted his head to look at Lu Yan, not understanding why he suddenly became so idle......

Lu Yan could also hear the meaning of her words, so he glanced at her and said, "Busy, you can try your best to adjust your time, I always have to set aside time for each other to get along." And this new identity, not only is you unfamiliar with, but I am not good at it. So it's better to get in touch with more, slowly get used to and get used to it, and then handle our relationship in the best way. ”

Xu Jiannan wanted to laugh a little when he heard this, and couldn't help but say: "Mr. Lu, I think it's better for you to change back to your original appearance, you are probably really only suitable to be a Tang monk." Falling in love is such a thing, coming out of your mouth, in a clear way and with a clear plan...... Don't you think it's weird?"

Lu Yan laughed and said, "Compared with you, a person who compares love to a steamed steak, I don't think I'm too weird." ”

"Cheng Tao told you!!" Xu Jianan glared angrily. Because of the comparison of love to steamed bun steak, as soon as I heard it, I knew that it was an example given to Cheng Tao when he told Cheng Tao what love was...... Who would have thought that the damn rich second generation would have so many mouths, and he told Lu Yan all of them.

Lu Yan got the car right, turned his head to look at Xu Jiannan and smiled softly: "Go get busy, remember to eat breakfast." For dopamine, bun steak can be there, and feelings can also be there. But...... You can taste it, maybe the taste is different. ”

Xu Jiannan took his bag, hugged the paper bag again, and said with a strange smile: "I'm too lazy to fight with you...... You don't have to pick me up if you're busy with work, don't go out of your way to bother. ”

Lu Yan said with a smile: "With me, you don't have to be too sensible, I want to pick you up, thousands of mountains and rivers are all along the way, there is no trouble without trouble." Go ahead, I'm gone. ”

Xu Jiannan didn't know what to say, so he just nodded. Lu Yan glanced at her, meaning to let her go first, and he watched her leave before leaving.

Turning around a little stiffly, Xu Jiannan walked into the building. It wasn't until she was almost in front of the elevator door that she heard the faint sound of the engine. Lu Yan really watched her come in, and then left.

This kind of uncontrollable emotion makes Xu Jiannan very uncomfortable. She feels like a material little girl who is just starting to fall in love, but she is obviously not. What's more, it's not that I've never been in love, why didn't I feel so restless and helpless with Zhang Ke before?

Some of them went upstairs in a daze, and the nurse who guided the clinic greeted her and said, "Dr. Xu, I was just about to call you! The patient just called again, saying that he would come in half an hour, and he came to look for you." Ready to prepare ha. ”

"Okay...... Thank you!" Xu Jiannan returned to his office, trying to make himself the same as he was a day ago. This state of indulging in an unknown mood is a mess that must not be brought to work.

But although the decision was very resolute, the actual action could not change back to the state of a day ago. In order not to let Lu Yan's kindness go to waste, Xu Jiannan hurriedly opened the paper bag. There is delicate bread and fresh milk in it, as well as other flavors of breakfast. It can be seen that Lu Yan has taken care of all tastes without knowing her.

After eating breakfast with this complicated mind that was so warm that he couldn't adapt to it, Xu Jiannan was just about to sort out the documents when there was a knock on the door.

The patient seemed really impatient...... Xu Jianan thought to himself, and let the people outside the door come in.

It was a woman in her thirties. After she entered the door, she first bent down a little embarrassed and said, "Sorry, Dr. Xu, I probably came too early......

"It's okay, the timing is just right. What do you call you?" Xu Jianan stood up and asked with a smile.

The woman also smiled and replied, "My name is Fang Jiaqi, and I have seen a lot of successful cases here some time ago, and I think you are very powerful...... I...... I'm very distressed, I just want to find someone who can understand and help me come up with ideas about what to do......"

Fang Jiaqi's expression became very overwhelmed, and she seemed to be worried that Xu Jiannan would refuse to give her advice, so she looked very uneasy.

Xu Jianan poured her a glass of water, then asked her to sit down and said: "You don't have to think too much, I think, even if you are completely healthy and don't have any psychological problems, you can take the initiative to find this place to seek to confide, you should have encountered a very difficult thing, right? These difficulties are like thorns on our psyche, if you don't take the initiative to remove it, it will bring endless damage to our psyche." So, I'm glad that you are so sober and sensible that you take the initiative to ask for help when you can't bear it psychologically. I'm willing to be your listener and talk about the troubles that bother you. ”

Xu Jianan's words made Fang Jiaqi feel a lot more relieved. She looked at Xu Jianan with gratitude and nodded, and then told Xu Jiannan about the pain she couldn't bear.

"I'm 27 years old and I really can't stand my brother and his girlfriend. It all seems like fate...... But I feel that this matter has affected my life and my future!" Fang Jiaqi said angrily.

Xu Jiannan soothed her emotions and said: "Don't worry, speak slowly, I won't interrupt you, you just start from the beginning and say everything you want to say." "Not interrupting is a means. For someone like this who is desperate to talk to, what a psychiatrist has to do is to fully understand her true inner voice, feelings, and thoughts. Once interrupted from their narration, it will have a guiding effect, and it may change the follow-up plot that they originally had in mind. Therefore, Xu Jiannan decided to adopt this non-interrupting method as soon as he came up.

Fang Jiaqi sighed and said very distressedly: "I have a good friend, it is my little friend, best friend, I don't remember how old I knew her, but she has liked my brother since a long time ago." As for me, I think she is my best friend, and I have known her for so long, and I see that she likes my brother so much, so I introduced them to each other, and slowly, the two of them developed into boyfriend and girlfriend. My brother and I don't live here, but in the city, the three of us live in a rented house together. Originally, it seemed that there was nothing abnormal about all this, my brother and I both had jobs, and we thought that we would work hard here, and maybe we would be able to do something on our own in the future. However, since my best friend became my brother's girlfriend, everything has changed...... Our lives have become a mess, and I'm even starting to think about dying rather than living with them anymore. I don't understand why, after knowing each other for so long, I never knew that my best friend was so naΓ―ve! I remember that once she was not in my impression of this...... But since we've lived together, my brother and I have been driven crazy by him......"

Xu Jianan always looked at Fang Jiaqi, so that Fang Jiaqi could keep knowing, even if he didn't interject or interrupt, Xu Jianan had been listening carefully. Confidants, this sense of certainty is very much needed.

"This best friend of mine, since I lived with my brother, I have become her nanny. Every morning when I got up, I would prepare breakfast, and then my brother would wake her up. Dr. Xu, can you imagine? My brother has to kiss her, hug her, and play with her in bed for a while before she is willing to get up! We both have jobs, and sometimes we wake up early, and if we call her early, she loses her temper. Crying and fussing, unreasonable crazy tantrums, and not being able to coax her! My brother patiently coaxed her over and over again, apologized, and apologized until she laughed. This process can sometimes last up to an hour, and my brother is often late for work because of her! If I had known that if I had introduced her to my brother, she would become what she is today, how could I have harmed my brother? I don't think it's just coquettish, she's crazy!!Perverted!!How can a normal person be like this?My brother can't help it...... I had to feed her every time. But I can't look past it, and the more I look at it, the more angry I become!"