At the same time, Xu Jiannan also had to contact Cao Li's family. Tell them exactly what problems they may have after quitting drinking, such as hallucinations, delusions, alcoholic epilepsy, memory loss, etc. He needs a quiet environment, the light should not be too strong, there is a possibility of obvious impairment of consciousness, disordered behavior, and living to see terrifying hallucinations, delusions, so someone must be supervised to avoid accidents. At the same time, once he withdrew, he may sweat profusely, tremble, have problems with body temperature regulation, and at the same time, his body will be in a state of stress, his immune function will be impaired, and he will be extremely susceptible to infections, especially in the lungs. This is not an easy task, especially for Cao Li's family, there are old and young, and there is a second child waiting to be fed. But as a doctor, Xu Jiannan must tell the truth.

The conversation with Cao Li was always in a decadent and hopeless atmosphere. Xu Jiannan tried to guide him and let him get out of the shadow of the past first. Hypnosis is also a necessary means when necessary.

It's a long process, and it doesn't take a day to change the status quo. Xu Jiannan is worried about ...... Cao Li will not hold out until that day. As he said when he entered the door, he was completely "forced" to come here. Like, his parents asked him to get married, so he found someone to marry. His wife wanted a child, and he agreed. Everything was arranged by someone else, not by his own volition. How many times can you insist on seeing a doctor with this kind of compromise?

Xu Jianan's conventional way of talking did not change Cao Li's feelings too much. To be honest, she was a little frustrated, but it was also inevitable. After arranging all the recommended medicines, Xu Jiannan ended today's course of treatment. If we continue to talk about it, it will only make Cao Li more tired, and it will shorten the number of times he will come again.

When Xu Jianan finished the conversation, Cao Li looked at Xu Jianan gratefully and said, "Thank you, Dr. Xu!

Xu Jiannan shook his head helplessly and said, "You are sane, there are no harmful actions, and no one can force you to do anything." But...... At least in this matter, your family's persistence is really for your good. One day, when the child grows up, when he asks you why you have become like that, how do you want to answer him? Or do you really not care at all? In this life, nothing can be kept forever, you can only cherish the present, leave some good memories, and leave some best memories of their father to the children. ”

Xu Jianan's words were serious, which made Cao Li look a little pensive. Seeing that he could hardly listen to him, Xu Jianan said again: "When you get married, you may not love her enough, but if she doesn't love you, how can she always tolerate you, cherish you, and have children for you." The so-called love of your heart is in the past. If you ignore the person in front of you for the sake of someone who doesn't exist, you're doing the same thing as you did in the first place. Put down the glass, let go of the past, calmly, and look at your life from another perspective. You have pampering parents, you have loving wives, you have children, and you don't have to work like a masochist if you want. As far as I understand, not all courier companies torture themselves like you, right? Your job is prone to masochism and self-punishment. That's your subconscious choice. Mr. Cao, everything is still in time, you have a choice for everything, but you don't want to. ”

"Do I really have a choice...... Cao Li muttered to himself in confusion. Then he raised his head and looked at Xu Jiannan and said, "Thank you, Doctor Xu, I want to ...... I'll try to do what you say. It's very comfortable to talk to you, and I feel much better...... Thank you and I will be back next week. ”

"Okay, we'll see you next week. This is the sentence Xu Jiannan wants to hear the most at present.

Seeing Cao Li leave, Xu Jiannan sat on the chair with some sadness, looked at the empty seat opposite, and was in a daze for a long time. She felt that she should be grateful for her luck, how much love and marriage in this world are inseparable? In Cao Li's situation, Xu Jiannan didn't want to say how affectionate he was to his old love. Because of his behavior, he clearly failed two people, and even said that he failed everyone. But it is not easy for his current mental state and mood to maintain this. Take your time, Xu Jiannan believes that as long as she can get Cao Li to cooperate with the treatment, then there must be a possibility of curing him.

It is impossible to say that it has not affected his mood at all, Xu Jiannan is still thinking about Cao Li's treatment plan while working. At this time, Zheng Yan knocked on the door and came in. Xu Jianan smiled and said, "What's the matter? Are you about to get off work?"

Zheng Yan ran to Xu Jianan's side and whispered, "It's because I'm about to get off work that I came to you." I want to tell you that you've been a little more careful with the doctor lately. I've always felt like she's not been normal lately...... Get nervous. She's always aimed at you, so I'm here to remind you to be more careful!"

Speaking of this, Xu Jiannan also frowned and said: "Yu Leer has been feeling weird recently, I don't know what is going on with her, I always feel that she is in a trance, and she is very worried. In such a state of mind, in fact, you should not continue to work. ”

Zheng Yan's eyes widened, and she lowered her voice and said, "Hah, you don't know yet, do you? Her appearance is obviously less normal than some patients, but I saw that there are several patients in the appointment record that she handled." I didn't see any patients, but it must have been on the record. You said...... In her current state, can she really be a psychologist for patients?"

Xu Jiannan was still surprised when she heard the news, because she always thought that Yu Leer had been transferred to a civilian position to be Lin Weizhou's assistant, but she didn't expect that she was still treating patients? But what an irresponsible performance? The last time I saw her, I saw her in the state when she was talking to Lu Yan, she was a resentful woman, and she also had schizophrenia precursors, how could she deal with patients like this?

Zheng Yan patted Xu Jianan's shoulder and said: "In this center, everyone knows what some things are going on, and everyone doesn't need to say it too clearly, anyway, it's just to mix a salary for eating and drinking." But you're different, both of them are targeting you, so I'm always worried about you. ”

Xu Jianan looked at Zheng Yan with emotion, shook her hand and said, "Thank you, thank you very much." You always care about me so much, and if there is anything related to me, you will always remind me as soon as possible. I don't have any friends at work, and it's rare for me to have a friend like you, a colleague. ”

Zheng Yan smiled: "Ha, what is this, thank you for what you say." I just like who you are, and I can't get used to seeing them cover the sky with one hand. I think...... Sooner or later, this place will become a clean psychological clinic. ”

Xu Jianan looked at Zheng Yan's longing look and asked, "Do you have time to have a meal together?"

"Ahh And ah, you and your boyfriend are so close and loving, I don't want to be a light bulb!" Zheng Yan said happily. She really likes Xu Jianan's personality very much, and she also appreciates her personality, so she really wants to be friends with her and develop into a good sister other than colleagues.

Xu Jianan smiled and said, "What nonsense, then you wait for me, I'll clean up, and let's go out together." It's early today, so let's have a meal together. Xu Jianan said, and was about to send a message to Lu Yan to ask him not to pick her up, Zheng Yan helped her again and again, cared about her, and always shared the trouble for her as much as possible at work. Of course, she should be invited to a meal.

When she went downstairs, Xu Jiannan was sending a message, but Zheng Yan secretly tugged at her sleeve. As soon as she looked up, she saw Lu Yan walking towards her. The proper clothes, the handsome posture, as well as the chic pace and powerful aura. Walking against the light, he shook people's eyes, as if his whole person was glowing.

Walking in front of Xu Jianan, looking at her a little stunned, Lu Yan smiled and said, "How can anyone look at their boyfriend stupidly?"

"Ah...... Me, I was about to send you a message...... Let me introduce you to you, this is my colleague, Zheng Yan, who usually cleans up troubles for me at work, and treats me very well. Belch...... This is my boyfriend, Lu Yan. Xu Jiannan was a little embarrassed to introduce, after all, this was the first time to introduce Lu Yan to friends other than girlfriends.

Lu Yan looked at Zheng Yan politely and smiled: "Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you, thank you for your concern for Jia Nan, she is a simple-minded person who doesn't know how to take care of herself, and it's rare to have a friend at work." ”

It was the first time for Zheng Yan to see Lu Yan clearly at such a close distance, and she was a little stunned at this moment, after Lu Yan finished speaking, she was stunned for a few seconds before she reacted and said: "It's okay, it's okay, I like Jianan's personality very much, I'm very happy to be a colleague and friend with her!" After speaking, he looked at Xu Jianan and whispered: "Wow...... Your boyfriend really lives up to his reputation. ”

Xu Jianan pursed her lips and smiled, and then said to Lu Yan: "I was saying that I would invite Zheng Yan to dinner, so ...... Together, right?"

Lu Yan glanced at his watch and said, "It's me who came early and didn't receive your message." Hmm, is it convenient?" Lu Yan looked at Zheng Yan and asked for her opinion.

Zheng Yan's heartbeat was accelerated by this sight, and she quickly nodded and said, "It's convenient!!As long as it's convenient for you, I can do it!"

Lu Yan smiled: "Okay, let's go." He took the bag and coat in Xu Jianan's hand with one hand, and gently hugged her to the car with the other. Finally, after opening the car door for the two women, he drove to a restaurant he frequented.