Dad's illness has a great impetus for me, in the dead of night, I began to look back on the years I came to Kunshan, people walked, or to stop and summarize and review, although the first five-year plan to Kunshan to buy a house in Kunshan has been put in place, but the care and care of my parents has always been the lack and regret in my heart, I am seriously thinking about how to combine the second five-year plan and filial piety to my parents, thinking of my parents for me to pay so much, thinking of his old man and cancer, so I set the second plan to Kunshan two parameters: 1, I want to buy a townhouse, so that my parents can live in their son's villa in their lifetime and enjoy their old age;2, I want to have another child surnamed our old Zhao family, so that my father is sincerely happy.

One night in the crisp autumn of '06, when my wife and I were walking on the city ** square after dinner, I told her about the second five-year plan, and when she heard my plan, she immediately expressed her total opposition, and her reason was very simple: "1, I don't live with your parents, and the old man's time is different from ours, which is inconvenient; 2, I don't plan to give birth to a child, and I want to give birth to yourself." I replied to her in a simple, rude and non-negotiable tone: "Living with my parents, if they get sick, I can know in time to send them to the doctor, they are healthy and can help with some simple housework, so that they can enjoy the joy of family, I have been living in the same house for three generations since I was a child, and besides, a large family just shares a kitchen and living room, what's inconvenient? Could it be that you can wear shorts and run upstairs and downstairs? Regarding the issue of having a child with my family name, I will tell you clearly: with my current ability, it is not difficult to find a woman outside to give me a child, I hope you think it carefully and don't force me to make mistakes! When I fell in love, I made it very clear to my father-in-law that if my parents have no place in my heart, your daughter will not have a place in my heart in the future, so on the issue of treating and filial piety to the elderly, I hope you don't challenge my bottom line, I will treat your parents equally, one day we will be old, I believe this is the best word and deed for children!", seeing that I am so strong, she is no longer silent, it can be regarded as a unified opinion!

When I returned to my hometown to visit my parents, we were talking about a cup of tea like friends, and I swore to him about this plan, and he was very happy but said: " I don't go to Kunshan, firstly, the living habits of the two sides are different, which may affect the two of you; secondly, my eldest nephew has not been admitted to university, and I will never go to Kunshan with you, I must make up for the guilt and regret of the year, and help your eldest sister train her son to graduate from college, and she will not be bitter when she is old in the future, and it can be regarded as soothing the pain in my father's heart. I nodded heartily: "No problem, then wait for my nephew to be admitted to college!"

A few months later, the plan was successful, she was really pregnant, a check is still a twin, she has genes in her family, she and my mother-in-law want to give birth to the baby, looking at the son who is already four or five years old, if he gives birth to two

"Phoenix" is a little better, in case there are two of them

"Bald", don't I want it

"Four feet to the sky", besides, if I have more sons, I will not necessarily be very happy when I get old in the future, rather than this, I should only have a son to cultivate him with good moral character, and save myself from working so hard and tired.

But my mother-in-law and what she wanted to give birth to, two to one vote, and my mother expressed the same opinion as me: now is not the age of having more children, but the age of having children, if it is two girls, I also support it, but it may not be guaranteed!

In this way, she gave up the twins in tears, and I hugged her tightly and comforted: "Let's work harder in the future, thank you for your hard work! As long as we go on with the plan and goal, we will succeed in the end!"