Under the trellises, sunlight passes through the leaves, leaving dappled shadows of light.

Jin Xiao and Jin Hui each lay on the recliner, looking at the grapevines above their heads in a daze.

It was their favorite place to stay when they were younger, and now that they have grown up, the playfulness of childhood is almost gone, and they are just silently enjoying this quiet time.

"By the way, brother, you have changed so much recently, I almost didn't recognize you when I saw you just now. Seriously, did you quietly go for plastic surgery?"

"Nope. ”、

"No, no way, why did you suddenly become handsome without plastic surgery!"

Jin Hui sat up straight and looked at Jin Xiao seriously.

If you look closely, the facial features do not seem to have changed much, but the overall feeling is completely different.

"The main thing is that my temperament has changed, and now I am no longer the same person I used to be!"

Jin Xiao said triumphantly.

Of course, he can't say that he used the special effect card of the perfect face and got the most handsome face in the big data of all mankind, he can only attribute his changes to the outside world to the change of temperament.

The so-called temperament is a stable psychological characteristic that is manifested in the intensity, speed, flexibility, and directivity of mental activities. Differences in human temperament are innate, conditioned by the characteristics of the processes of activity of the nervous system. When a child is born, the first difference is the difference in temperament, some children love to cry and be active, and some children are stable and quiet.

It only paints people's words and deeds with a certain color, but it cannot determine people's social value, nor does it directly have the meaning of social moral evaluation.

Temperament cannot determine a person's achievements, and any person with temperament can achieve achievements in different fields of practice as long as they work hard, or they can become mediocre people.

Temperament is one of the psychological characteristics of human personality, which refers to the stable dynamic characteristics such as the strength of strength, the speed of change and the degree of balance in people's cognition, emotion, speech and action. It is mainly manifested in the speed and slowness of emotional experience, the strength and weakness of the performance, the subtle manifestation of the performance, and the sensitivity or sluggishness of the action, so it dyes a thick layer of color on the performance of all human mental activities.

What temperament manifests in society is the sublimation of the quality of a person's inner charm from the inside out, and then the sublimation of the quality of a person's inner charm. There are many personality charms referred to, such as self-cultivation, morality, manners, dealing with others, the feeling of speaking, etc., etc., which are elegant, noble, quiet, gentle, arrogant, informal, and immediate. So, temperament is not what you say. Moreover, the combination of one's long-term inner cultivation balance and cultural cultivation is the result of perseverance.

According to psychology, temperament is divided into four main categories.

They are polysanguine, mucous, choleric, and depressive.

Among them, people with a lot of blood are flexible, easy to adapt to changes in the environment, sociable, energetic and efficient in work and study, interested in everything, but interested in easy to change, some are opportunistic, easy to be proud, and can't stand the same life.

Mucous people are slow to react, persistent and steady hard work; slow and composed, able to restrain impulses, strictly abide by the established work system and life order; emotional excitement is not easy to show feelings; strong self-control, do not like to show their talents; more fixed than flexible.

Choleric people are emotionally agitated, quick to react, quick to act, irritable and powerful, impatient, have a strong and rapidly burning enthusiasm, unable to control themselves, have perseverance in overcoming difficulties, but are not good at considering whether they can do it, have obvious periodicity in work, can devote themselves to the cause with great enthusiasm, and are also ready to overcome and are overcoming many difficulties and obstacles to the goal, but when the energy is exhausted, they lose confidence, and their emotions suddenly turn to depression and achieve nothing.

People with a depressive temperament have a high degree of emotional susceptibility, subjectively perceive very weak stimuli as strong effects, often move emotions for trivial reasons, and are powerful and persistent, slow in their actions, somewhat withdrawn, indecisive when encountering difficulties, and extremely fearful when facing danger.

Depressive temperament is a type of human temperament, according to the ancient Greek doctor Hippocrates in the 5th century BC, there are 4 kinds of body fluids in the human body (that is, blood, mucus, yellow bile, black bile), the proportion of each body fluid determines the difference in human temperament, among which people with black bile are dominant belongs to depressive nature.

People with depression have a weak neurotype, they experience emotions in fewer ways, and stable emotions are produced slowly, but they experience emotions deeply, powerfully, and persistently, and have a high degree of emotional susceptibility. Depressed people are cautious, thoughtful, and prone to indecision in the face of difficulties.

People with depressive temperament generally manifest themselves as withdrawn, unsociable, observant, very sensitive, shy, sentimental, slow, indecisive, and obviously introverted.

People with depressive temperament are often generalists, with many specialties and strong abilities, who are good at adjusting and reconciling various relationships, have the ability to operate, analyze and design, and plan, and can sell goods. It is suitable for economic planning, statistics, design, commercial promotion, program hosting, cross talk actors, etc. In addition, depressive qualities are also suitable for professions such as proofreading, typing, typesetting, inspector, engraving, embroidery, custodian, confidential secretary, artist, philosopher, scientist, etc.

Of course, the temperament that Jin Xiao said is not this kind of temperament, but the external embodiment of a person's inner cultivation or cultivation.

Temperament is an inner and unconscious exposure, not just a superficial effort. If there is no ink on the chest, then let it be decorated with gorgeous clothes, this person has no temperament at all, but gives others a superficial feeling. Therefore, if you want to improve your temperament and achieve outstanding temperament, in addition to dressing appropriately and speaking in a measured manner, you must constantly improve your knowledge, moral cultivation, and constantly enrich yourself.

Jin Xiao said that his improvement in college this month is huge, so there has been a huge change in temperament, which has indirectly affected his appearance.

He is completely a mouthful, but no one can tell it, Jin Hui stared at Jin Xiao for a long time, and finally reluctantly accepted this statement, after all, Jin Xiao can't really go for plastic surgery, which she can also affirm.

The two sat in the courtyard for a while, and the aunt's family also came. My aunt's family is also a daughter, coupled with her daughter's identity, my aunt's sister is even more unfavored in front of her grandparents, and her grandparents will not treat her badly, but they are good to Jin Xiao, and they can't share even a little bit with their aunt's daughter. Fortunately, the little sister of the aunt's family, Tsunami, didn't feel the kind of differential treatment of her grandfather and grandmother, and the little girl went directly to the second sister of the second aunt's family to play.

Jin Yue is only three years old this year, she is still a little doll, and her aunt's daughter is nine years old this year, and the two are actually relatively close in age.

Jin Xiao and Jin Hui are relatively close in age, and they can play together, so now the situation of the fourth generation of the Jin family is that Jin Xiao and Jin Hui are in a group, Jin Yue and Zhang Miao are in a group, and the two groups of people do not disturb each other or affect each other, and they play their own games.

With my aunt on board, the kitchen was overcrowded, but the speed of cooking was also greatly improved, and in just half an hour, the meal was ready.

"It's eaten, it's eaten!"

Zhang Miao pushed open the courtyard door and shouted twice, then turned around and ran back.

Jin Xiao's three female elders are very good at craftsmanship, the mother is good at stir-frying, the second aunt is good at cold dishes and pasta, and the aunt is good at stew.

"Son, do you want to show your hand?"

Jin Xiao and Jin Hui walked into the kitchen together, and the veranda outside the kitchen was the only road leading to the small courtyard, so when they entered the house, they must pass through the kitchen.

As soon as Mother Jin said this, the aunt and the second aunt immediately looked at it curiously.

"Xiaoxiao can also cook?"

The second aunt looked at Jin Xiao and asked.

Although my aunt didn't speak, that look was already very revealing.

In fact, the atmosphere is very good at this price, but there are actually some contradictions between Jin Xiao and the three of them, mainly focusing on the second aunt.

The second aunt has an opinion on Jin Xiao and their family, which is completely normal, after all, they are all daughters-in-law of the Jin family, but Jin Xiao's mother gave birth to a single seedling in Jin Xiao's thousands of hectares, so the tide rises at home, and the old man and the old lady's concern for Jin Ma makes the second aunt's eyes very hot, of course, it doesn't matter if it's just like this. Who let this kind of preferential treatment be directly linked to the future inheritance? Because the second uncle and the second aunt's family have no son, basically the old man's future inheritance has nothing to do with them.

Especially the real estate, it is almost certain that it is Jin Xiao's, and the second uncle's family can get some money at most, but is it not optimistic at all compared to the two houses? Especially with such a large yard.

The second aunt therefore had some opinions about Jin Xiao and them, but it was reasonable.

But this matter, Jin Xiao doesn't count what they said, it's all the old man's own decision, Jin Xiao can be regarded as suffering from an unwarranted disaster.

Because of this, the second aunt is usually dissatisfied with Jin Xiao's family, as long as there is an opportunity, she will be all kinds of cynicism, of course, that's all, after all, it is a family, but she is a little dissatisfied in her heart, and she can't even be a family.

On weekdays, the second aunt's favorite thing to do is to show off.

Because the second uncle's job is not bad, the second aunt herself is a primary school teacher, and Huihui's academic performance is also very good, so on the bright side, the second aunt's family has been pressing Jin Xiao and their family.

Especially Huihui and his academic performance, the gap is really big.

For example, in the very important high school entrance examination, Jin Xiao once scored only more than 400 points in the high school entrance examination, and he couldn't go to a key middle school, and in the end, his family spent 50,000 yuan to buy him a place for a school choice student before he went to a key middle school. As for Huihui, the high school entrance examination is a key middle school that he was admitted to completely based on his own results, and he is more than a little bit stronger than Jin Xiao.

This time in the college entrance examination, Jin Xiao's grades were not bad, and he was admitted to Pengda, which finally made the second aunt quiet for a few days.

Everyone knows that the college entrance examination is more difficult than the high school entrance examination, and Pengda is a good university, although it is not the 985 and 211 focus like Qingbei, but as a book, it is already the ultimate goal of many students' college entrance examinations. Huihui's results in the high school entrance examination are good, but no one can say what the results of the college entrance examination will be in three years, so the second aunt has not been as flamboyant as before recently.

It's just that when I heard that Jin Xiao could cook just now, her energy came up again, but this time it wasn't to show off, because Huihui couldn't cook, and in such a traditional family, a woman's inability to cook was a bigger problem. Huihui blatantly said that her grandparents were eccentric before, but in fact, she was expressing her dissatisfaction, because at a certain party before, her grandparents had made it clear that Huihui, as a girl, was wrong and shouldn't be able to cook.

Huihui's temper, of course, can't bear it, she once talked back to her grandparents because of this, and it can be regarded as a contradiction that the whole family knows.

So now when the second aunt heard that Jin Xiao, who had never cooked a meal before, actually wanted to show her hand, she first expressed her disdain, and then she didn't believe it.

Jin Xiao didn't say anything, and when he heard his mother's suggestion, he glanced at his second aunt, walked to the vegetable sink and began to wash his hands.

The skill card he bought was home cooking, and although home cooking did not belong to the eight major cuisines, it was the basis of Chinese food.

Home cooking is the source of Chinese cuisine and the basis of local cuisine. Families can also stir-fry dishes using existing condiments.

And home cooking is not only the foundation of Chinese food, but also has many benefits in itself.

New research shows that eating home-cooked meals can help you live longer.

Researchers from Monash University, Treasure Island Medical Centre and the Institute of Health in Australia looked at the cooking habits of a number of people aged 65 who lived alone and were 47 percent more likely to be alive after 10 years compared to other volunteers. For the surviving volunteers, cooking at home is an important factor in their health and longevity.

According to the researchers, 31 percent of the volunteers ate at home at least five meals a week, 9 percent cooked at home three to five times a week, 17 percent ate at home no more than twice a week, and the rest claimed never to cook at home.

The study's leader, Mark Wahlqvist, professor emeritus at the Asia-Pacific Centre for Health and Nutrition at Monash University's Asia Institute, believes that those who have home cooking habits tend to have healthier eating habits. He pointed out that cooking is an act that requires both good mental and physical qualities. People with home cooking habits have a more comprehensive knowledge of nutrition than those who don't, and they tend to make healthy food and cooking methods. Therefore, eating home-cooked food regularly is not prone to nutrient deficiencies, which may also be the reason why cooking habits are associated with longevity.

Of course, these are more scientific things, according to the family, home cooking, is the foundation of a family's life, there is not too much gorgeous technology, but there are great requirements for taste and heat and family taste, home cooking is done well, directly affect the family's diet level, so don't look simple, in fact, it is very important, and the difficulty is not as low as imagined.