My apprentice and assistant Xu Lihua is one of the people I have to say, she was recruited in 2004 after I jumped from Kunshan Dayun to the Kunshan branch of Taiwan Bayang Shipping Co., Ltd., at that time she was still like I first came to Kunshan, interlaced like a mountain, I didn't know anything, I used almost all of my free time to take her to teach her, of course, including everyone else, so they all followed me to the new company.

She is a native of Wenzhou, Zhejiang, a typical Chinese Jew, very smart and studious, it can be said that she will learn and will soon be able to draw inferences, she is the smartest of all the apprentices I have ever taken. The strongest one, usually as long as I am not in the company, I will be very relieved to hand over all the daily affairs of the company to her to take care of, she is the assistant to the general manager and the manager of the operation department and the manager of the settlement department, so the title can be seen how much I attach importance to her; and her husband Mr. Sun Jianhui later became my good friend, when the two of them first met and fell in love, they all lived in the air-conditioned dormitory provided by the company for free, and invited him to participate in every company dinner and activities, when her husband lacked start-up capital in the early days of his business, I also did not hesitate to support him, so Mr. Sun has always respected me very much, I really look at it like a big brother.

She was also my confidant, so much so that when my wife came to the company to be the cashier, she even suspected me and Manager Xu for a while

"There is a leg", looking at me with suspicion all day long, until my wife and I patiently and carefully analyzed and explained, she believed that there was really nothing between us: "Yes, how is it possible if you think about it carefully?" First of all, she is indeed smarter than you, but not as beautiful as you, if I was smart, I wouldn't have chosen you back then, so you have to have enough self-confidence; secondly, every time I teach her to take her, it's when I'm at work or during the lunch break or a special meeting and training time; moreover, her husband Sun is also my good brother and friend, you also know and are familiar, I think I still have a little bit of the minimum principle of proportionality and moral bottom line; In addition, I know that some men are indeed cheap bones and like to think with their lower bodies, but not all men are like this, understand this

People who are "cheap" will not do this

"Cheap" thing, at least I'm definitely not!", I simply took out the strength to eat milk to finally convince her.

Manager Xu Lihua has been with me for eight years, after she gave birth to a second baby, there is really no one to take care of the child and I have to resign, she is not beautiful, with a little dark skin, and two small tiger teeth that are not too obvious, but it is definitely a typical Wenzhou people's smart, her resignation once made me lose confidence in the development of the company, once repeatedly summarized their lack and deficiencies in the work, it took a long time to relax, of course, there is no banquet in the world, of course, the earth will not be less who will not turn。

She hadn't been in touch until she left the company for two years, and she suddenly called me crying and said: "Boss, I really don't have the courage and confidence to live, I really can't find anyone to talk about this, you are like my eldest brother, I want to meet and talk to you, okay?", I still respect me so much after leaving the company, I am very happy, although my first batch of apprentices still call me a master when they see me, but her words behind me made my heart suddenly chuckle.

After I told my wife about the situation, I made an appointment to meet her in a café behind the city, and she cried and told me: It turned out that when she was pregnant and gave birth to a second child, her husband Sun always hooked up with another woman, and it seemed to be progressing very quickly, she really couldn't think of any way to make him change his mind, and she didn't have the courage and confidence to live, so she had to turn to me for help.

Because I helped Mr. Yang back then, no matter what he still thinks I am a more reliable and credible brother, he is still very selling my face to listen to my advice, although we have not contacted many times after she left the job, looking at her thin and haggard, tearful face full of expectations and waiting, I did not hesitate to agree to help her solve this matter, I don't know if I was born to do it

The life of the "political commissar" is still that the three-inch tongue has been salted, and then the night when Mr. Sun came out to drink, he was persuaded by me to cry like a child, and finally he promised me to turn back to the shore...... In the end, I was successfully persuaded to turn back.

Being respected is a kind of enjoyment, but also a kind of self-requirement and spur!