(8) Freedom of speech is also relative

Whenever Su Mu had such an idea, she would rarely share it with Ling Feng, because Ling Feng didn't care about these things, and she wouldn't understand why she had such an idea. So Su Mu just expressed her opinions on various social platforms and chatted with those who felt the same way.

Su Mu did not deny that she and Ling Feng had a lot of common language, which was due to the fact that she usually socialized with people of different ages and at different levels, but the age difference and experience between them were obviously there, so when it came to eating, drinking, and enjoying life, the two of them would never have any differences, but when it came to something a little deeper, the two of them would often be in a state of inability to communicate.

Su Mu was able to understand Ling Feng, because after all, she was also from that age, and the friends around her would also give her some influence, so she would often try to understand Ling Feng's approach. However, although Ling Feng would listen to Su Mu's nagging, most of the time he listened to his left ear and his right ear, and he never really thought about these problems, and even felt that Su Mu always thought about the problem very complicated, and always thought about something that had nothing to do with him at all.

Of course, Ling Feng had hardly said these words to Su Mu, and occasionally mentioned one or two sentences, all of them were in a joking tone, and he didn't get distracted. But Su Mu didn't take these things to heart like him, on the contrary, Su Mu cared about these things very much, so even if Ling Feng was just joking, she took it to heart and never mentioned anything similar to Ling Feng again.

Ling Feng never understood how the common topics of the two of them had become less, in fact, this was the reason, plus he didn't like to share his life with Su Mu, and he only talked about the more important things that happened in his life, so there was nothing to say. Su Mu knew this very well in his heart, but he didn't want to admit it all along.

However, this experience of the Old Summer Palace did not make Su Mu feel unhappy, although there was no way to share the idea with Ling Feng immediately, but because of Ling Feng's sudden choice, the two of them embarked on another tour route. This kind of experience has almost never happened to Su Mu, so she feels very magical and has a lot of fun along the way. Although she missed something because of this, she felt that their trip was worth it.

Later, perhaps because of this reason, when Ling Feng proposed the idea of going back to the hotel directly after eating, Su Mu didn't feel anything wrong, and happily agreed. And probably Su Mu's appearance was very infectious, making Ling Feng unconsciously happy when he looked at it, although everything they did together after that was very ordinary, every time they thought about it, they would have a very sweet feeling. So much so that for a long time after that, Su Mu kept thinking about whether if he could really be a little more patient, try to change his state of mind, or pretend to be happier, then the two of them would not have gotten into that kind of field that could not be reunited.

She had always felt that such an idea was right, but what made her feel ridiculous was that Ling Feng had never thought about these issues like this.

The days of getting together are always short for people in long-distance relationships, and after these two days have passed, the two of them will start a new round of long-distance relationship life.

In order to stay together a little longer, when two people choose tickets at night, they try to choose tickets that are about the same time and not too late.

The rest of the trains were also Su Mu had seats, and Ling Feng could only stand. Seeing that the situation was like this, Ling Feng didn't want Su Mu to suffer like him, so he insisted on letting Su Mu sit back. But Su Mu didn't want to, the two of them argued like this for a long time, and even had a tendency to quarrel, but in the end Ling Feng still chose to compromise.

The next day, because there was no time limit, the two of them slept for the first time and woke up naturally, and after waking up, they were still tired of being in bed for a long time, and they didn't get up to pack up until noon when they were about to check out.

When they were about to have lunch, the two of them almost didn't discuss it, so they chose Haidilao together very tacitly.

However, this can't be regarded as a very tacit understanding, because Su Mu knew that as long as he came out, Ling Feng would definitely choose a day to eat this, and he was too tired to go to it for the past few days, so today without any other arrangements, Ling Feng would definitely not have any accidents and would choose to eat this, so she didn't say anything else. And even if she had to choose, she didn't know what to eat, and she didn't reject Haidilao, she didn't have anything to eat, so she went with Ling Feng.

Because they came out just in time for the meal, Su Mu was also worried that queuing for too long might affect their trains, but they didn't expect that they were very lucky, as soon as they arrived, there was just the last table vacant, and there was no need to wait in line at all.

Haidilao was still so enthusiastic that Su Mu felt very embarrassed, so in order to avoid some services that seemed completely unnecessary to Su Mu, she never raised her head except for taking pictures during the whole process, and she would tell Ling Feng if she needed anything, and then let Ling Feng relay it to the waiter.

Many people praised Haidilao's thoughtful and enthusiastic service, and also said that they liked this service attitude very much. Su Mu did not deny that their service was indeed outstanding, but such enthusiasm really made her feel a little frightened for a person like Su Mu.

Su Mu once expressed his opinion on this kind of service attitude on a social software, but that remark only existed for less than a day before it was deleted by Su Mu. It wasn't because Su Mu felt that her remarks were wrong, but that she suddenly discovered something she had never cared about before.

She has always believed that the so-called freedom of speech is relative freedom based on moral and legal norms, just as she thinks that "stillness is relative to the referent". But when she posted her feelings online, she found that many people did not understand the true meaning of "free speech" in the comments that flooded her. Nonsense and nonsense are not within the scope of freedom of speech, and taking quotes out of context and generalizing are not within the scope of freedom of speech, let alone maliciously distorting facts and changing concepts. There are other examples of this, but even on the Internet, such people like to wantonly make some irresponsible remarks under the guise of "freedom of speech," and even rise to the level of personal attacks.

Just like Su Mu's opinion on Haidilao service this time, she just said that Haidilao's service is really enthusiastic, but people like her are really unblessed, so they try to avoid people's sight, for fear of causing trouble to others, and there are comments below that if you don't like it, don't go, no one begs her to go, and it is said that Su Mu is hypocritical, and her service attitude is cold and disliked, and she is too enthusiastic and disliked, and people like Su Mu should not come out to eat.

There are many similar remarks, and that afternoon on the high-speed train, Su Mu was really angry and laughed several times when he looked at these comments.

First of all, she didn't accuse Haidilao of anything wrong with its service, and she has been engaged in the service industry, and she also has her own standards and attitudes towards customers, so she really thinks that Haidilao's employees are very enthusiastic about customers, almost responsive, and even in the stores she went to, the employees she saw could think first and prepare all the things that customers needed, and sometimes customers didn't even have to speak, they could see what customers needed. This is not something that can be done in the catering industry, Su Mu can't do it herself, so she admires Haidilao's training of employees, and besides, she said throughout the article that she feels that they are too enthusiastic to accept it is her own problem, she is indeed such a character, even if she doesn't even want to trouble her friends, she is even more reluctant to trouble the waiter, I really don't know if some people don't have eyes or brains, they can say those words. God knows that Su Mu is really a very generous person, when she went to the restaurant, she ordered a dish and asked not to put garlic, if the chef didn't listen to her request, she would almost never say it and let the family remake it, so she just didn't want to trouble others, how could it become that she was too hypocritical?

Although there is no explicit stipulation of the bottom line of this kind of morality, many things are conventions in people's hearts, and they do not have to be as clearly marked as the law. It's just a pity that because there will be no explicit regulations, there will be all kinds of differences, and because there is no unified standard, there will be ambiguity, so too many people take advantage of such loopholes.

There is no way to do this, because when society develops, ideas will change with it, just as culture also has dynasties, and so is thought. But no matter what happens, some things will never change.

Su Mu has always believed in this truth, so although she likes to be alone, she will never enclose herself and trap herself in a corner. She will try to accept all the new things in the outside world, so that she will not lose touch with the world because she is used to being lonely.

At first, Su Mu didn't think there was anything like this, but the more she went on, the more she realized how significant the decision she had made was.

Su Mu still didn't tell Ling Feng about this matter, because she knew very well that when Ling Feng knew that she had done such a thing, the first thing she said would definitely be why she made such controversial remarks, she would feel that she was very naïve, always getting these useless things, and then she would definitely say that she just cared too much about these things, and if she didn't want to see them, she wouldn't just look at them, and there was no need to be familiar with these people. Anyway, he would never give her the comfort and support she needed in the first place, so Su Mu didn't think about talking to him about these things, saving himself the time to add to himself.

After fishing out of the sea, they found that there was still a long time before the train of the two people, Ling Feng thought about it, and still felt that it was not safe for Su Mu to go back too late, he was not at ease, so he secretly flipped through the ticket, wanting Su Mu to go back earlier.

There was no choice for his ticket, because the latest train that could be changed had already departed, and if it weren't for this, he wouldn't have to carry Su Mu on his back to check these things. It wasn't until after he checked it out that he probably had some calculations in his heart that he told Su Mu what he thought.

Of course, Su Mu disagreed, no matter what Ling Feng said, she didn't agree. Ling Feng was coaxing and coercing, it didn't work, and he couldn't grab Su Mu's hand, so in the end, he really had no choice but to give up his idea under the gaze of Su Mu's aggrieved eyes.

To be honest, Ling Feng was reluctant to let Su Mu go first, if he could, he even thought about letting Su Mu move to Haicheng and find a job in Haicheng, so that they could live together and not have to live in a different place. He had been thinking about this idea for a long time, and he had told Su Mu once before, and Su Mu also thought it was a good decision at that time, but later no one thought that Su Mu's grandmother would get sick and need Su Mu's care.

After this plan was put on hold, Ling Feng kept looking for opportunities to stay with Su Muduo for a while, especially every time he quarreled, he couldn't control himself and Su Mu after losing his temper and making her cry, he would regret it more and more. Although he was still unjustified in wanting to win the argument at first, after calming down, he would regret why he had just done it. After repeating this a few times, he began to want to see Su Mu more and more, wanted to hold her in his arms, and wanted to touch a real her. But the reality is that it really doesn't allow it.

First of all, the round-trip fare is a problem, Su Mu doesn't make much money, and he is not a wealthy family, the ticket money of seven or eight hundred yuan back and forth is really painful, and he is embarrassed to ask for money with his family because of this kind of thing, and if her mother knows that he used so much money to come back to see Su Mu, it will definitely cause a lot of trouble. What's more, if this money is saved, she can buy things she likes for Su Mu, and he still has the ability to order takeout for her when she doesn't eat, which is much more real than spending all the money on the travel expenses.