Chapter 392: PUA

"Recently, there is another drama that is very popular, called thirty, which is a routine with my sister who rides the wind and waves. ”

Ding Wei said with a smile: "From the exquisite poverty under the trend of consumerism, to the determination of Shunyi mother to create the next generation of elites and even nobles, and the ubiquitous chain of contempt. ”

"All kinds of love for vanity, anxiety-making, and ungroundedness...... But the benefits are also clear: go the extra mile and keep pushing forward. If you succeed, the chicken and dog will ascend to heaven, and defeat will also boost domestic demand. ”

"For example, Cai Shaofen in "Jewels" back then, in order to wait for the opportunity for the female boss to talk, she nested herself in the bathroom for a few hours......"

"This thirty-year-old nursery rhyme, a letter of recommendation for a rich woman's kindergarten, walked down the 21st floor barefoot ......"

"It's okay to say it's humiliation, or it's okay to say that you want to take a shortcut. Now that the goal is clear, the result is of course more important than the process. And in front of the rich wife who crushes her with fame, wealth, and connections, the heroine can provide dignity, wisdom, and taste ......"

"What else?"

Shen Feng smiled, Goethe's old man once said: Eternal women lead mankind to rise.

Especially in modern life, there seems to be enough reason to prove that women have a stronger urge to make a class transition, and correspondingly more class anxiety.

After all, the country has just passed its 70th birthday, how old can OldMoney be?

What confidence do you have to look down on NewMoney?

Seventy percent of female members in luxury time are in vain?

"Chanel is the epitaph of the new middle class, and Hermes is the passport of the true lady. Last year, there was an LV, which was jokingly called the poverty alleviation package. ”

Ding Wei joked: "The little white-collar workers bought this bag with frugality, thinking that they finally have luxury goods, but in fact, they are only getting rid of poverty." ”

"No way, from afternoon tea to bags, even my husband has a chain of contempt, no matter how you pretend, people can still see through your details at a glance. ”

"After all, the TV series was written by the screenwriter, but the reality is even more cruel, do you know Rocket 101?"

Shen Feng was stunned, wasn't it disbanded?

"Except for Meng Meiqi Yang Chaoyue, the presence of other people is not too high, yesterday Rocket Girl Captain Yamy broke out a recording, from a meeting within the economic company. ”

In her absence, a boss named Xu Mingchao was close to abusive, thinking that she was ugly and did not know it. also completely denied the singing strength, personality characteristics, and dressing style. ”

Shen Feng frowned, as a person who plays entertainment, he doesn't understand the simple truth that beauty and ugliness are subjective?

Arsenic of A, honey of B, although some people are not white and beautiful in the mainstream aesthetics, but there are many fans who like them, right?

Stars are not afraid of ugliness,

The most afraid of ugliness has no characteristics!

The recognizable ugly is more popular than the unrecognizable beauty.

"I feel that in front of those agents who are used to seeing handsome guys and beauties, idols are just tools to make money and cut leeks!"

Ding Wei said indignantly: "You can't compare those LOW forces with the boss, look at the traffic of our company, how beautiful it is......"

Shen Feng waved his hand, don't be a rainbow fart.

In the draft era when you can hit ten trainees by throwing a shoe into the crowd, it is an unspoken fact that celebrities have the dual attributes of people and products: artists have both a personal side and a packaged side.

There is always a boundary between the personal attributes of celebrities and the attributes of entertainment products. It is difficult to regard a living person as a cold commodity under the operation of capital.

In fact, from the perspective of professionalism: since celebrities are also a job, their appearance and personality will inevitably be judged.

This Xu Mingchao seems to have crossed the line, and from his boss's point of view, the artist is more like a product than a colleague or subordinate. new world

The constant emphasis on absolute obedience, as if the factory was strictly watching the steps on the assembly line, hoping to produce a product that meets the requirements?

PUA for the workplace?

Ding Wei looked at the boss in front of him without waves, this incident broke out, and the whole group secretly talked about it, lamenting that she had met a good boss that was once in a lifetime!

The scariest thing about PUA in the workplace is that many people don't even realize that they are PUA.

Habitually suppressed, controlled, and dominated by the strength of the boss or leader every day......

I think I am not good enough, I don't work hard enough, my communication skills are insufficient, and my level is too poor......

As YAMY said on social platforms: I used to really think that if there was a problem, it must be my fault, that I didn't do it well enough.

The passive aggressive type is mostly male and is a master of PUA in the workplace.

The passive-aggressive male is a master at using intrigue to control others in the workplace.

They are resourceful, clever, insidious, and unfathomable.

If you're a colleague, you're just a pawn in his game.

He wants you to believe that he is not a selfish person.

Complimenting you on your abilities may seem like a great way to help you in your career, but it's just to convince you that he's got your back.

Soon he'll be victorious, throwing you far away, and you'll wonder how you could have believed his nonsense in the first place.

has followed Shen Feng to start a business for so long, in addition to the investment vision, the most admired are four words:

Do your job!

Ye Fei's Million Winner...... Kerr's true taste...... Edward's Luxury Days...... Song Yun's hipster ......

Including MCNs that have transformed from self-media to go public......

It seems that everyone around him can find the most suitable position under his men,

In ordinary people after his promotion,

Turning stones into gold!

Shen Feng also fell into thinking, the reason why many people are so-called PUA, to put it bluntly, do not see through the most critical point: the workplace must perform its own duties, and treat things within the scope of work with due diligence. But it's even more important to be aware of your responsibilities.

Victims are often belittled as useless, feeling that they can't do anything, and that all problems are their own responsibility?

But when it comes to identifying workplace relationships, ask yourself: What are my strengths?

Why did the company admit me?

What are my responsibilities?

IN THE CASE OF YAMY, FOR EXAMPLE, THE BOSS ACCUSED HER OF BEING UGLY AND SINGING BADLY, BUT WHEN SHE SUCCESSFULLY WON HER DEBUT, SHE SHOULD HAVE UNDERSTOOD THAT HER STRENGTHS WERE HER EXCELLENT RAP AND DANCING ABILITY.

Although her appearance is different from the traditional girl group aesthetics, it has never been an obstacle to her recognition.

In the mixed workplace, you must have a clear understanding of yourself and the company, so that you can know what the advantages of both parties are, how to cooperate, and whose responsibility is when something goes wrong.

This is the right way.