The way of love Zhang Bao translated 2018.1.3 After eleven years of marriage, the couple finally gave birth to a boy.

The couple loves each other, and the boy is their sweetheart. When the boy was two years old, something happened.

That morning, the husband saw a small vial of medicine on the table, but the bottle was open. At that time, because the time was a little late, the husband was anxious to go to work, so he said to his wife,

"Remember, close the lid of the bottle of medicine on the table and put it in a drawer. The wife answered, and continued to work in the kitchen, forgetting about it after a while.

The boy saw the bottle and was fascinated by its color, and he curiously picked up the bottle and drank the potion inside.

However, the medicine in the bottle is a poison, and this dose is nothing for adults, but it is a disaster for such young children.

The child immediately fainted. When the child's mother found out, she rushed the child to the hospital, but the doctors were unable to save the child.

The child died, and the mother was stunned. She knew that she had caused a big disaster, and she didn't know how to face her husband.

When the husband arrived at the doctor and saw that the child was dead, you can imagine how he would feel.

However, when he saw his frightened wife sitting in a chair and crying, he went up to her and said a word.

Do you know what that sentence is? He said to his wife,

"I love you, darling. This statement of a husband to his wife was indeed unexpected. Because in this case, one will always think that the husband should blame his wife severely.

But instead of rebuking his wife, the husband said to her,

"My dear, I love you. "It's really smart and positive. We can think that when a child dies, there is no way to come back to life no matter what.

Nitpicking and blaming his mother makes no sense unless it aggravates the grievances and contradictions between the two.

We have also seen a family disaster, where the husband and wife blame each other, turn against each other, and end up losing both, so that they part ways and the marriage disintegrates.

It's just not worth it. And as a husband, he is not without responsibility for what happened, and if he had put the cap on the bottle and then went to work, it would not have happened.

As a wife, it was also a very sad thing for her to lose her only child, and what she needed most at this time was the comfort and compassion of her husband.

That's what husbands should do. Sometimes, we spend our time and emotions on accountability and accountability, trying to figure out who is responsible, and then reprimanding and blaming those responsible.

This will not solve the substantive problem except to vent the anger in our hearts. Whether it is in friendship, at work, or in the interpersonal relationship with us, we often miss out on giving each other sincere support and lose the warmth of the human world.

In fact, the most common mistake we make is not being able to forgive our loved ones. We should cherish what we have and use forgiveness to remove pain, trouble, and sorrow from our hearts.

If everyone could look at life from this perspective, we would have fewer troubles and problems, and we would be happier more.

Put aside the jealousy, selfishness, fear, nitpicking, and unwillingness to forgive, and we will find that things are not as bad as we thought.