Chapter 9 Stockholm Syndrome
The result of Lou Shang's withdrawal from school was not so much forced by Shuai Ge's "My Roommate Who Was Dumped Fifty Times by the Same Girl" series, but by the Stockholm syndrome that he himself hit the south wall fifty times and was reluctant to turn back.
Stockholm, the capital of Sweden, even represents a mental illness.
This point, if it weren't for watching Shuai Ge's live broadcast, maybe Lou Shang would never have found out.
Lou Shang never knew why he was dumped fifty times by the same girl.
Why is it so uncomfortable every time, and choose to forgive every time.
Until I saw the doubts raised by a psychiatrist in Shuai Ge's live broadcast room - [Does this roommate of yours have Stockholm syndrome?]
At that time, Shuai Ge's "My Roommate Who Was Dumped Fifty Times by the Same Girl" series had only aired the first episode, and it hadn't had time to become popular, and there weren't many people swiping the screen, so this Stockholm was obvious.
Stockholm syndrome is also called hostage syndrome.
It is said that in Stockholm in 1973, there were two robbers who, after a failed bank robbery, took four hostages, escalating from robbers to kidnappers.
After a 130-hour standoff with the police, the kidnappers finally chose to give up.
The hostages were rescued.
The story doesn't end there.
Among the four kidnapped hostages, the kidnappers can simply be called the top 10 people who moved Sweden in 1973.
The mental activity of the four hostages is as follows:
The hijackings have all been hijacked, and the kidnappers have the right to kill and kill the hostages.
Did the kidnappers do it greatly?
The kidnappers let the four hostages survive unharmed!
Such a good kidnapper, the court actually asked the hostages to identify him.
Isn't this repaying virtue with resentment?
This is absolutely not a no-go!
The four hostages didn't need to be bought and discussed, and there was a unanimous decision - to defend the kidnappers!
Identify something, something that doesn't exist!
At such an angry moment, helping the two kidnappers' little brothers who were prosecuted to raise money to fight a lawsuit is what the hostages of Zhi'en Tubao should do.
It's not enough!
The walls of the prison can't stop it, and a beautiful and kind hostage lady is determined to make a promise.
The kidnapper is still serving his sentence, and the young lady can't wait to get engaged to the kidnapper in prison.
Is there any reason for this?!
This series of bizarre operations is recognized by psychologists as Stockholm syndrome.
This is not a joke, this is the truth of history.
Essentially, it's when someone is persecuting you, but you're dependent on the person who persecuted you.
It may sound like a mental illness far removed from people's daily lives, but it is a personal experience that many people have experienced at one time or another.
If, once, a girl told you that there are so many men in the world, why did I let you be my spare tire and not let others come?
If you agree with this girl in a bad way, then you have a lost Stockholm syndrome.
If, once, a father said to you, "There are so many children in the world, why do I just punch and kick you and never hit others?"
If you agree with this abusive man, then you have severe Stockholm syndrome.
Gratitude to those who persecuted you is the most intuitive manifestation of Stockholm syndrome.
At the beginning, Lou Shang was only the kind that was lost.
Stockholm syndrome is far more common than people realize, and most people probably have it to a greater or lesser extent, and the degree of loss does not affect daily life.
However, as the number of times Lou Shang was dumped increased, he became more and more inseparable from the courtyard flower who clearly used him as a spare tire.
The more persecution, the more dependence.
The whole world can see it, and even Lou Shang himself understands it in his heart, but he just can't get out.
The girl who threw Lou Shang fifty times in a row, with a height of one meter six and a weight of one hundred and sixteen, is named Yu Ting.
Yu Ting is a college classmate of Shuai Ge and Lou Shang, and she is also the college flower of the brewing engineering major.
Don't doubt Yu Ting's weight, and don't doubt why the word Yuanhua is not in quotation marks.
The victim can become dependent on the persecuted, so what's so strange about the 160 pounds of yard flowers.
To allow a college of 300 people, only Yu Ting is the only female student, and this special situation exists.
is so "outstanding", the title of the courtyard flower, who else is her?
At the beginning of college, it is officially the most vigorous time for male students to secrete hormones.
At this time, don't say that Yu Ting is just fat and not fat, even if she is ugly and fat, there will be countless suitors.
Do you want to know, how can a bad-looking girl be loved by thousands of people?
Plastic surgery changes fate or something, the risk is too great, not to mention the cost, there are risks, and it is easy to be addicted, it is not once and for all.
Did you learn anything from the courtyard flower who threw the building fifty times?
Do you want to know how a boy who is ugly and has no money can become the focus of attention of many girls?
If, you're already in college, there's basically no way around.
If you haven't, you've got a chance to change your life.
Female students can look for a major with a male-to-female ratio greater than or equal to 100:1.
Male students can look for a profession with a male-to-female ratio of less than or equal to 1:100.
In that kind of profession, as long as you are of the opposite sex, you will become the natural focus.
Compared with other colleges and other majors, those of the opposite sex who can't even take classes together.
The opposite sex in this major is like a treasure.
A little fatter, a little shorter, a little uglier, a little bit worse, that's fine.
A hundred people of the opposite sex combined, no one can see through your "slightly ordinary" appearance, and it is really unlikely that you can see your "extraordinary" soul.
In a 299:1 "Monk Academy", Lou Shang actually had just stepped into the college building on the first day of college admission, and his back foot was confessed to the public by the courtyard flower, which was simply not for the remaining 298 male classmates to live.
You can't really become monks, right?
Yu Ting was quarreling with her boyfriend at the time, so she chose to be at the gate of the academy, and confessed to whoever she caught, and if the person who stepped into the gate of the academy at that time was handsome...... Belch...... Don't make such assumptions.
Lou still didn't know the reason why Yu Ting did this, he only knew that it was the only time in his life after the age of seven that he was treated gently by a woman.
Lou Shang instantly put Yu Ting in the position of a person who wants to get along for a lifetime.
Without knowing the cause and the consequences, Lou Shang pushed himself step by step into the abyss of Stockholm syndrome.
Lou Shang found his problem from the suddenly popular "My Roommate Who Was Dumped Fifty Times by the Same Girl" series.
It took him three days and three nights to figure out something.
If he is in the same environment all the time, he can't help but convince himself with the same reasons, so that it is impossible for him to get out of this "relationship" at all.
Lou Shang chose to drop out of school and go to an isolated place to start a new life.
Lou Shang didn't discuss with his father's building, so he dropped out of school directly.
Because in addition to having a girlfriend who treats him as a spare tire, he also has a father who abuses him.
Since he was a child, Lou has not received any affirmation from his father.
In addition to the addition of sticks, it is indifferent to each other.
Lou Shang is still grateful for this, grateful to his father for not abandoning him.
No one else can understand the heart of a boy trapped in Stockholm syndrome and desperate for recognition.
The fans of the begging league said that the dumped brother was calm and professional, not smiling, and liked to write more than to talk, that is, they had never seen Lou Shang before the age of seven.
How bright the smile is, how overflowing the language.
Just like at this moment, drunk in the soundproof glass room.
Clear, quiet, without a trace of concern, as if you will wake up laughing in the next second.
Literature rushed to the soundproof glass room to check the situation, and Shuai Ge had already arrived one step ahead of him.
Shuai Ge stood outside the glass room and did not go in, incidentally preventing Literature from worrying about opening the soundproof glass room and going in to check Lou Shang's current condition.
Fat Ge Ton moved his fat but still flexible body, and found an angle that could help Lou Shang block the lights of the venue, before turning his head and saying to Literature with a shaking chin: "Let him sleep like this for a while." ”
"Isn't there really any problem with Master Lou Shang lying on his stomach like this?"
"I stood dead, and he couldn't sleep. "How vicious Shuai Ge's mouth is, how warm his actions are to help the sleeping Lou Shang block the light.
"I've never seen Master Lou Shang drink wine, I really didn't know the consequences would be so serious. "The fears of the national gentleman are just as genuine.
"I've never seen this girl greedy for a glass when she was tasting wine, and I thought it was an evolution. Shuai Ge rolled his little white eyes that others didn't feel at all and said, "Why did you fall asleep? Why don't you have stomach bleeding, intestinal bleeding, cerebral bleeding or something." ”
"Do you want to call an ambulance?" Literature, frightened by Shuai Ge's words.
Ben Shuai was in school back then, and I saw that this girl was forced to drink once by the teacher of the comprehensive experiment class of brewing technology, and she had a spring on her face. ”
"After drinking, it became like this?"
"Yes, he should be awake in half an hour. If you're not in a hurry, can we wait for him?" After getting out of the live broadcast room, Shuai Ge is not the fat guy who has to be funny in every sentence.
Three big men. One was asleep, one blocked the light, and the other expressed endless worry.
Friendship between men, like women, has never required holding hands and using various greasy titles to confirm the relationship between each other.
The content of Shuai Ge's conversation with literature sounds like he is scolding Lou Shang, but his subconscious actions can't be faked.
It's just that Fat Geton's heavyweight "sweet pet" did not achieve the expected effect.
In Shuai Ge was busy explaining with literature, Lou Shang really just fell asleep at this moment.
The girl who couldn't wait for literature to come back to her for a long time.
With a puffed face, he posed as a curvaceous man, and returned to the ceremony to find his brother.
Wenyi looked at Literature and Shuai Ge outside the glass room, and then looked at Lou Shang who was sleeping contentedly in the glass room, and instantly thought of the wise saying "The hatred of the night cannot be left".
An extremely quirky smile quietly climbed up the face of the coquettish enchantress, the extreme Lori.