Chapter Twenty-Eight: Marriage Is a Difficult Lesson
Xu Wenqu talked eloquently like an expert on gender issues: "Of course, the main thing in Jiangbian is that the problem is too straight, and she is a typical over-radical feminist. And Sheng Chen's problem is that she is too lacking in self-confidence and is easily influenced by others, which is the reason why you protect her too well, and you don't know the cruelty of society and the sinister nature of people's hearts. It's not that I look down on you, Mr. Fang, if you can't fundamentally pass the Shengchen and Jiangbian passes, your company won't be able to open. Marriage is a lesson, and you don't pass it. Dealing with women is also a lesson, and you haven't gotten started yet. ”
"Nonsense, day by day, it seems that you know more. "Hu Pan quit, at the beginning, he still felt that Xu Wenqu was neutral and fair, but now he finds that she is a little self-righteous and pretentious, "Uncle Fang is a mature and successful man, a rare four bad men who are not greasy, not obscene, not lustful, and not rogue, if he still doesn't know how to marry and deal with women, who else understands? He used to be the vice president of an Internet giant company, what kind of executive did you be?"
"I've never been an executive and I'm not successful, but I believe I'm right. Could it be that if I want to evaluate a refrigerator, I still have to be able to refrigerate? Comment on whether a fruit is good or not, and I myself must be able to bear fruit? Joke!" Xu Wenqu sat next to Fang Shanmu and crossed his legs, "Sit, I am very interested in your company and your understanding of the relationship between men and women, and I really want to exchange views with you." ”
"I'm sorry, I'm not interested right now. Hu Pan got angry, pulled up Cheng Pengpeng and left, "We still have work to do." ”
"No, listen to her first. Cheng Pengpeng shook off Hu Pan's hand and pressed her shoulder to sit down, "Sister Qu looks like a person with experience and experience." People with stories are our VIPs, Panpan, go get my best coffee, and ask Sister Qu that she should have returned from studying abroad, most of them like coffee. ”
Xu Wenqu smiled rarely: "If you have vision, I will give you extra points." Teacher Fang, if I'm not mistaken, Cheng Pengpeng has a higher position than Hu Pan, right?"
Fang Shanmu was not sure about Xu Wenqu's true identity now, was she an undercover agent sent by Sheng Chen or Jiangbian, or was she just their usual friend?
"Peng Peng is the co-founder of the company, and Hu Pan is my assistant. Fang Shanmu was also not polite, and went straight to the point, "Before in-depth communication, it is necessary for us to get to know each other, and it is not good to avoid any misunderstandings." ”
"I understand what you mean, you are worried that I am a spy sent by Sheng Chen or Jiangbian to find out the news, right? Haha, Teacher Fang, you and I don't need to be so tactful, I am different from Hu Pan, I don't like others to guess my mind, I like to go straight, in a way, I am also a straight daughter. Xu Wenqu laughed, and after laughing, he quickly recovered his indifference, "Okay, let me introduce myself first, Xu Wenqu, female, post-85, northerner, studied in Australia at the age of 15 and returned to China at the age of 25." Married at the age of 25 and just divorced in the first half of the year. He likes to travel the world, advocating freedom and self, rational and quiet, ......"
"It turned out to be a divorced woman in the 80s...... although Hu Pan was reluctant, he still brought Cheng Pengpeng's coffee, brewed it and put it in front of Xu Wenqu, "Can I ask you what the reason for the divorce is?"
"I'm sorry, I can't, it's a personal matter, and it has nothing to do with you. I'm now a vagrant, and I met Jiangbian through a friend's introduction, and Jiangbian said that she wanted to introduce me to a job, so I came over to talk to her, and I met you, and then ...... Because of my insistence on principles, the work is out of play. Xu Wenqu picked up the coffee and took a sip, frowning slightly, "The heat is not enough, so I wasted such a good coffee." Hu Pan, remember in the future that different coffee beans have different requirements for water temperature and steeping time, and you have to keep learning to improve. ”
"Day by day, I'm sorry, you're not my boss, I'm not waiting. Hu Panbai glanced at Xu Wenqu, "You continue your theoretical experience, I will listen to you." ”
Xu Wenqu ignored Hu Pan's attitude: "Teacher Fang, I don't know much about your Infinite Care Co., Ltd., I probably know that it is a company that develops game software, the name of the company is very literary, the employees are uneven, and it is very funny - I mean Gu Hao - so I am still more worried about your prospects." ”
Cheng Pengpeng stopped Hu Pan's intention to reminisce about the past, and sat opposite Xu Wenqu: "Sister Wenqu is well-informed, has the experience of living abroad for many years, and has a personal emotional life...... cough, it should be more unrestrained, and there have been twists and turns in marriage, can you tell us about your views on love and marriage?"
"Is the game software you developed related to gender relations?" Xu Wenqu immediately guessed something, and his eyes lit up, "This idea is good, novel and novel, but ...... Judging from the tricks just now, I still insist on my point of view, whether it is Mr. Fang, Gu Hao, or you and Hu Pan, they all have a misunderstanding of the relationship between the sexes, and it is difficult to create a successful product with such a foundation as yours. ”
"Don't think that you are more than ten years older than us, so you really know much more than us!" Hu Pan pushed Cheng Pengpeng away, and became angry, "Tell you Xu Wenqu, coffee is a fairly unbiased reward for what you just said, and leave quickly when you finish drinking." Infinite Care LLC, you are not welcome. ”
"Hu Pan, you have made another serious mistake......" Xu Wenqu took another sip of coffee slowly, "Teacher Fang is here, Cheng Peng is here, the leader does not speak, you are not qualified to make a decision." Your approach is actually no different from Jiangbian, Jiangbian instructed Gu Haoyi to treat Gu Hao as his private property and did not know how to respect his husband. You yelled at me offside, you didn't stand on your own position, and offside gave orders, which is a taboo in the workplace. ”
Hu Pan was speechless and took a step back: "Day by day......"
Fang Shanmu admired Xu Wenqu's calm and unhurried manner: "Hu Pan, it's not a bad thing to listen to other people's opinions, sometimes we are fans of the authorities, and bystanders who have no interest in us are often the best at finding the problem." Q Qu, if the thing just now is a clearance in the game, how do you think the plot is more fun and attractive?"
Cheng Pengpeng hugged Hu Pan's shoulder: "Did you hear it, Panpan, now you know why I repeatedly admire Uncle Fang, right? He can always restrain his emotions, stay sober, and always transform unfavorable factors and criticisms and suggestions into a driving force for progress, powerful, and manly." ”
"No, no, no, he's not, you misread him, he just fell in love with Xu Wenqu who was beautiful and pretended to be hypocritical. Hu Pan was also a little dissatisfied with the other party, "If Uncle Fang was perfect, he would not have fallen to the point where he is now homeless and forced to start a business......
"What are you talking about?" Cheng Peng laughed angrily, Hu Pan sometimes really didn't choose to speak, "You really have to change your temper in the future." ”
Fang Shanmu didn't care, and directly filtered Hu Pan's groundless suspicions: "It's useless to say anything now, only if the company succeeds, can I prove my vision and ability." Ask the canal, you continue. ”
Xu Wenqu took off her shirt, the heating in the office was sufficient, her face was ruddy, and there were beads of sweat: "I rarely play games, and there is no way to analyze the problem professionally for you from the perspective of a gamer." But standing in the position of an outsider, I summarize your fight just now with my own personal experience, and I regret to say that the four of you, well, including Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan, a total of six people, none of them passed the test, and all failed. ”
"Day by day......" Hu Pan wanted to refute Xu Wenqu again, but was stopped by Cheng Peng Peng with sharp eyes, she had no choice but to laugh self-deprecatingly, "Okay, you are the leader and you have the final say." ”
"Let's talk about why Mr. Fang didn't pass the test, the basic pass is actually not really passed, and what should I do to pass the test. A hint of smugness appeared in Xu Wenqu's serious expression, "First of all, Uncle Fang behaved too straight and aggressive, he was okay when facing Sister Sheng Chen, but when he communicated with the riverside, he lost his temper. I believe that Uncle Fang was not less angered by Sister Sheng Chen before, but now he is peaceful, but he is tired of arguing too much, and he has no motivation or passion to quarrel anymore. Between people, love and hate, both passion is needed. When even the passion for hatred is gone, the emotional foundation is lost. ”
Xu Wenqu suddenly remembered something from the past and froze, his eyes were confused and confused, and it took a long time before he woke up like a dream, and shook his head apologetically: "I'm sorry to be distracted, I remembered my own things...... Teacher Fang's problem is that there is too little communication with Sheng Chen, please note that I am talking about equal inner communication, not condescending or predetermined communication. So the contradiction between Uncle Fang and Sheng Chen is that the two can't talk under the same channel, Uncle Fang's truth is that everything he does is for the family and the children, and Sister Sheng Chen's insistence is that she hopes that he will always be by her side, and it is also for the family and the children! ”
Fang Shanmu disagreed with Xu Wenqu's view: "The economic foundation determines everything, and if there is no career success, it is impossible to have a happy family." Happiness is a feeling, and the basis of that feeling is material. As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, Sheng Chen's biggest problem is that everything she has is too easy, her husband who loves her, obedient and intelligent children, and a prosperous life, etc., everything that others need to pay a lot to get, and for her, it seems that if she wants it, she will have it, so she will ask for more! If the above requirements are barely understandable, then she asks not to have private contact with the opposite sex, not to chat with women on WeChat, and not even to talk to female colleagues in the group, which is unreasonable and psychologically unhealthy......"