"What three points?" said Auntie. Hu Pan looked forward to it and was extremely excited.

Xu Wenqu and Cheng Pengpeng's eyes also widened.

"The first point is that the goal is clear. Know what you want, whether you want to marry love or money. Of course, most girls do not have the opportunity to marry money, only love. It is also lucky to be able to marry love, and some people can only marry marriage. Du Fenglan looked at the vicissitudes of life.

"What does it mean to marry into marriage?" Hu Pan asked.

"Stupid, marrying marriage means that you must get married when you reach the age of marriage, you are in a hurry, and your family is urging you, just find someone who is not annoying and can live with a partner. Du Tunan rarely explained to Hu Pan, "There are many examples of marriage around me. After marriage, you can't say that you are unhappy, it's just a very bland feeling. ”

"The second point is to lower the standards. Du Fenglan nodded and agreed with Du Tunan's statement, "Most girls who can't find a suitable partner overestimate their own conditions and ask too much too much, resulting in not being able to find a suitable person." It's not that no one else is worthy of her, it's that she is not accurate enough about herself. It's like a student who graduated from a big book and wants a master's and doctor's salary, isn't it boring?"

"Thirdly, don't care too much about other people's opinions, just like it. Many girls always like to ask others if their boyfriend is suitable for her, whether they are worthy of her, and whether they are good to her. Two people's affairs, two people have the final say, outsiders are outsiders in the end, how can you know the feelings between you? As long as you do the above three points, the current older girls, sure that they can find a satisfactory object one by one. ”

Before leaving, Du Fenglan was still a little unwilling, and grabbed Fang Shanmu's arm: "I just sent a photo of you to a blind date group of mine, ouch, you are the most popular, many parents like you, and many girls also fall in love with you." I'm telling you, young man, if you go around with me, you're sure to have more than ten choices to choose from. ”

"Why is he not him, he?" Hu Pan pointed to Du Tunan and Jiang Chengzi, "They are younger and have more potential." ”

"Your little girl doesn't understand, he is just the right age now, he can hurt people, he has life skills, and he will cherish the second marriage more after one divorce, so the safety factor is the highest. In addition to him, Xiao Du is also good. is just one point, Xiao Du is too shy, and he looks honest, and the girls are afraid that he will be very boring in the future. ”

The crowd laughed.

A few people returned to the company, and Fang Shanmu asked each person to write a summary report, writing about their true feelings and the impact on themselves about today's events, whether they can change some previous concepts and help themselves grow, and so on.

Xu Wenqu was most touched, and after he came back, he turned on the computer and wrote without raising his head.

At noon, Lin Sansui called and said that he would have lunch with Jiang Fuyu at the beginning of the good flowers, and he would not be able to come back until he got off work at the earliest. Fang Shanmu heard that he was vague, and he knew that it was inconvenient for someone next to him to talk in detail, but from his tone, he could know that everything was going well.

When he was about to get off work in the afternoon, Fang Shanmu accidentally received Zhou Xiao's WeChat.

"Fang Shanmu, tell you a piece of news that disappoints you, I passed the customs! The headquarters did not hold me accountable, now everything is back to normal, back on track, Gu Hao's marriage is divorced, and his scheming is in vain, hahahaha. ”

Fang Shanmu thought for a while and replied a few words: "The way of heaven is good." ”

Zhou Xiao replied almost in seconds: "You can only rely on superstition to comfort yourself!"

Fang Shanmu didn't reply again, because it happened that Gu Hao's video call came in.

Gu Hao in the video, his face is a little deformed with excitement, the background is Jinhui Building, and he is almost dancing in the square of the building.

"Lao Fang, I feel that my life has turned a new page, opened a new chapter, and entered the next major turning point, you have to bless me, you must!"

Fang Shanmu could also guess what was going on, and smiled slightly: "What about Tang Meiwen?"

"She's paying the bill, we drank tea all afternoon just now and talked about life for hours!" Gu Hao's face turned red, "I only know what life is from her life experience, compared to her, my life can only be called days, ordinary days and ordinary life." ”

"It is not necessarily a vigorous life, a plain, happy and healthy life is also called life. Lao Gu, don't be led off the pace by Tang Meiwen, you must have your own principles. Fang Shanmu was kind-hearted, he was afraid that Gu Hao would be in trouble if he changed his three views in a moment of excitement.

"No, you don't understand, you really don't. Go out and walk more, see the world, and realize that if you stay in one place for a long time, you will become a frog at the bottom of the well. Gu Hao was still excited, "Wait for me to go back and have a good chat with you, if I really want to go to the end of the world after resigning, you can't let me go." The world is so big, I want to go and see it casually. ”

"Alas......" Fang Shanmu sighed heavily, "The cultivation and teaching of you in the past have been in vain, you have worked hard for several years, and you have returned to adulthood overnight, why have you grown in reverse?"

Gu Hao didn't hear Fang Shanmu's ridicule: "I'm jealous that I've rejuvenated my second spring, right? You also quickly left Sheng Chen, with your conditions, there are many little girls who like you." ”

"Get out! You're still in the second spring, are you back to your innocence, okay? Go back and find a time for me to talk to Tang Meiwen and check for you. Fang Shanmu scolded with a smile, "If it is not a last resort, which middle-aged man is willing to go through the process of falling in love, getting married, having children, running in, quarreling and being dull again? There are some things in life, it is enough to experience them once." ”

"Blind to your such good creativity and talent, as the initiator of the founder growth game of infinite care, how can you feel life more deeply if you don't experience a few emotional shocks and fluctuations in life? I was so touched that she didn't let me pay. ”

"By the way, I won't let you meet her, maybe some of her ideas and concepts are not very consistent with your three views, in order to avoid disputes between you, it's better not to see her, haha. ”

"You ......" Fang Shanmu wanted to say something, but Gu Hao no longer gave him a chance and hung up the phone.

"Gu Hao, wait for me. Behind him, Tang Yiwen was like a shuttle butterfly, light as the wind and as light as a bird, "Why did you leave me alone? Tell you, don't let me see you in the future!

In an instant, Gu Hao's memories returned to the past like sparks, and a familiar old song called "Missing" echoed in his mind: "Where did you come from my friend, you are like a butterfly flying into my window." Why didn't you have any news when you left, and only put your thoughts on my heart......"

Gu Hao's heart was rippling like honey: "I heard it, I promise not to make the same mistake next time!"

"You have made a mistake that has hurt me for 20 years, and if you make it again, I will be ruined in your hands for the rest of my life. Tang Meiwen came to Gu Hao's side and grabbed his arm, "Who were you talking to just now?"

"Fang Shanmu, old friend. ”

Gu Hao sighed in his heart, 20 years have passed, Tang Meiwen is still the same as back then, as if the years have not left any traces on her body, except for the fine wrinkles at the corners of her eyes that will not be found if you don't look carefully, it is no longer as bright as the eyes of the year always remind him that she is no longer 20 years old, and there is almost no change in other aspects, whether it is the still slender figure and melon seed face, or the lively and cheerful personality.

"Where are you going to eat?" Tang Meiwen stopped and thought for a moment, "I want to eat hot pot at night, but I don't want to eat Sichuan-style food, let's go eat Japanese." ”

"Okay, Korean style is also possible. Gu Hao likes women who say what they want directly, instead of always saying whatever they want like Jiangbian, always saying casual, when you propose what to eat, she says no, and the quarrel begins, "There are many Korean-style restaurants near Wangjing, I'll go to Dianping to find one." ”

"No, I know there is a Korean hot pot that is very delicious, not far away, 10 minutes away. Tang Meiwen pulled Gu Hao's arm, "Just follow me." ”

Although it was late autumn and the autumn night was slightly cool, Gu Hao didn't feel cold at all, on the contrary, his whole body was hot and his heart was hot. It feels like I'm back in love for the first time, wishing that time would pass slower and slower.

Gu Hao never thought that after more than ten years of marriage, he was single again, and he quickly rekindled the flame of love and restarted the passion of love, he thought that he would never fall in love with other women again in his life, Jiangbian's discipline of him made him completely disappointed in love, women in the world are the same, he extinguished all illusions.

But after chatting with Tang Meiwen for an afternoon, he felt that his previous life was simply a copy of someone else's life, without any new ideas, monotonous and repetitive, he was just repeating the life that countless people had lived for thousands of years, too sad and boring.

After deep reflection, Gu Hao came to the conclusion that he had been so oppressed by the riverside that he had lost his self and the meaning of life in the past. Now that Tang Meiwen has rekindled his passion, he knows that he is not old, his life is not fixed, and there are infinite possibilities.

Gu Hao, under the leadership of Tang Meiwen, came to Wangjing Korea Town, and the two asked for a quiet private room.

After a few glasses of wine, Tang Meiwen's face was much more ruddy, her eyes were confused, and her expression was confused: "Gu Hao, do you say that I have been busy for so many years?"

"I have stepped on the road you have walked, is this considered a peer? I have blown the wind you have blown, is this considered a reunion? I still love you, serious and cowardly, from the beginning to the end. Gu Hao had tenderness flowing in his heart, and after he chanted softly, he said, "Everyone's persistence and hard work are meaningful, as long as you have peace of mind." We spend our whole lives chasing the dreams we most want to achieve, but in reality, it is very difficult for us to reach the world of our dreams. Still, I'm sure you're going farther than me, no, everyone else. ”