Chapter 009: Licking the heart of a dog, you can't control the master's knife
The first thing to do is not to learn those messy skills, not to memorize those fanciful words, and not to learn other people's local love words.
The first thing we need to do is to correct our concepts and correct our mentality!
Society has brainwashed us with many concepts that everyone agrees with, such as "women want to chase", and then "marriage proposals need diamond rings", or "no gifts for holidays this year" and so on.
Many people don't realize that most people agree that ≠ is right!
Yang Yikun can teach Li Shoucheng a lot of his "tricks", help him quickly tease women's hearts, make them emotionally fluctuate, and then move in and out, skillfully promote, and finally win.
But Li Shoucheng doesn't have the right mentality, he doesn't have consistency! No matter how powerful the tricks are taught to him, the effect often can't be played!
Licking the heart of a dog, you can't control the master's knife!
Li Shoucheng was still a little opposed, but Yang Yikun directly poured cold water: "Let me ask you, do you dare to question or deny her words in front of your goddess?"
Li Shoucheng hesitated, moved his mouth and said nothing.
He saw it at a glance: "You don't dare!"
The woman I dated asked me: Are you talking to girls all day long? Guess how I answered?"
Li Shoucheng was thinking to herself: How can she answer this question? Will she definitely deny it? Otherwise, she will feel that she is not a serious person, and if she talks to her sister all day long, she will hate herself and reject herself!
But Yang Yikun is not either: "I said yes! I am such a person!"
"That's my consistency! I'm the same on the outside as I am on the inside, I don't say yes in my heart, I don't say yes in my mouth!
"What partner do women need -- or females? They need a responsible, decisive man! Such a man In primitive society, when he says I protect you, he will do what he says! Because he has a promise, he has the same heart, so he is highly valuable in the eyes of women!"
"And you don't dare!So you don't have the same heart, what will the female think? They think: he lied when he did it, this is a liar, he may not be able to guarantee my food source, he may not be able to guarantee my safety needs - so I must not be easy to get along with him! Otherwise, if I am pregnant, I will die if I have no food and no security!!"
"Once you show the characteristics of a provider, a woman's genes require her to constantly test you, test you! Until you, the provider, make her feel secure enough, she will not have any further relationship with you! And this process is often very long, difficult, and very patient!"
"In fact, there are a lot of things that seem ordinary in your eyes, which can reflect the level of value! What I just said is a bit extreme, so let me say one more, when many men socialize with women, such as going out to play, they obviously think in their hearts, but they don't dare to make up their minds, so they are always asking women: Is it okay to go to the movies? Is it okay to go over there to drink milk tea?
"Okay, okay, okay, okay,
"Don't say that you're too frustrated, you can't change, a lot of changes are just a matter of one sentence - you just change the question to a declarative sentence and see!You say: Let's go to the movies! I'll take you to that store to drink milk tea...... You immediately went from a low-value behavior to a man with decisions and ideas!"
"Many men, just a little bit of a turn, but they have been licking and licking for ten years, warm and warm...... I said, aren't you tired?"
After hitting one after another, Li Shoucheng begged for mercy: "Don't say it, I know that I am wrong, big brother!
Yang Yikun emphasized: "Makeover requires determination!"
"As long as you don't break the law, I'm willing to do anything!"
To deal with this kind of opening his mouth, Yang Yikun usually released his soul torture: "Then call and tell your goddess: tonight's fee is AA, you transfer the money to me." ”
"What?"
Li Shoucheng was taken aback.
How could he do it!
Yang Yikun continued to lean back, leaning back in the chair and sneering!
Li Shoucheng saw it, this guy really dared to do this!
"Although you feel embarrassed, and women may think you are stingy, your behavior will leave a deep impression on her mind - more than the impression of you licking the dog!
Li Shoucheng was afraid: "Then there will be no drama in the future!"
"Not necessarily!" Yang Yikun shook his head, "Okay, it's too embarrassing for you now, I guess you can't do it either." Then start with small things, you need to change yourself and improve your self-confidence!"
Li Shoucheng was in high spirits and poured wine for the big guy: "Please speak!"
"I'll give you a few tasks, and you can do them one by one. ”
"The first task, you learn to take the initiative to greet everyone from today, meet in the elevator, meet on the company road, even if it's just a good morning, but can slowly step out of your comfort zone!"
"The second task, learn to look strangers in the eyes, especially women, until the other person staggers their gaze first!
"The follow-up mission is up to you. ”
"At present, you can practice around the company, you can go to a shopping mall with a lot of people, look at a woman's eyes, say hello to what you are interested in, just say a word, and you slowly accumulate a lot. ”
"Is there really hope?"
Li Shoucheng was a little suspicious of himself, because he looked ordinary and had no demeanor, he felt like Yang Yikun was shameless in talking to a woman, and he was so nervous that he couldn't speak.
Yang Yikun did not force him to make a choice: "Then you can continue to take the beta route, because even if you are a donor, you will eventually get married and start a family, and the donor is actually the majority model of society, just like you and my parents, just like thousands of families, plain and ordinary." ”
Li Shoucheng pursed his lips and hesitated.
Yang Yikun's eyes seemed to see through people's hearts, and his words pierced his heart: "Your heart is not reconciled! You are unwilling to sleep with an ordinary wife, unwilling to be picked by women, unwilling to chase for half a year before holding hands and paying all kinds of false hypocrisy, but asking for a house and a car at all kinds of prices." ”
However, they can give some bad men a few days into their arms, and believe in love without anything...... It's up to you to choose which way to go. ”
Yang Yikun's words and sentences are like a hammer, beating in Li Shoucheng's heart!
He is really unwilling, why is the scumbag half-hearted, and the woman keeps changing! And I am serious and loyal, and I have a good temper with people, and I have no resentment when a woman is an hour late! But I can only lick the dog with a spare tire? I can only wait for the pick-up?
"If there is hope, if someone teaches me! Who wants to be a spare tire for licking dogs!"
Li Shoucheng has made up his mind!
Because he also wants to be like Yang Yikun with such a master's demeanor, he also wants to dare to talk when he sees a favorite girl on the street, and he can talk and laugh, so he let it go!
Yang Yikun has the first treatment target, Li Shoucheng - like many ordinary people in society, he is not confident enough because of his identity, he is not high-spirited enough because of his status, and he does not dare to cross the existing social rules!
"Trust me!"
Yang Yikun patted him on the shoulder,
Because that's how I came here!
(PS: Ask for a ticket)