Soon another week passed. In late May, I met Ms. Liu at work at noon that day, and she said, "Mr. Wang, I will give you a refund of 40 yuan, and your Wang Xile has not been to the intensive class for almost a month." ”

After listening to Mr. Liu's words, I immediately understood the reason why Wang Xile published an article and others said that he felt "cow", and that his refusal to study and strengthen the class was a challenge to the teacher's authority. I was embarrassed to say, "How can this be, I'll go back and discuss it with the child and see what is going on." ”

Teacher Liu looked at me with a strange gaze. In fact, I understand her mood very well, and there is room for negotiation when it comes to children's learning in the world.

When I got home in the afternoon, I said, "Joy, I met you Teacher Liu on the way to work at noon today, she said that you are doing well in school and have made significant progress in your studies, but you haven't been to the intensive class for almost a month, what's going on?"

"I don't want to be like the kids in your middle school who don't do their homework when they grow up, so I don't want to go. ”

The son's voice trembled, he was afraid, because he had never told his family about not going to the intensive class. My son's heart did change, and I turned my body to my son, and tried my best to make my words relatable, saying, "Rejoice, it is a good thing for you to have an opinion on things and dare to act, and it is also the hope of our whole family for you." Over the years, Dad has given you so much freedom to develop your sense of intuition, that is, I hope you can be your own master as soon as possible, the intuition cultivated by people through practice is usually correct, you don't want to study the strengthening class is your own business, but two points Dad must make clear to you: one is to do things to have the spirit of perseverance, and the other is that students' test scores have a lot to do with the interests of teachers. If you do not participate in the learning reinforcement class, the relationship between the teacher and the teacher will become estranged, and the teacher's attitude towards you may also change. ”

"Dad, the teacher knows it's wrong, will it do it?"

"Man is an animal of feelings. Teachers are also human beings, and no one can dominate the environment. ”

"Dad, I see. It's my own business. ”

After this conversation, the taste of happiness in Wang Xile's one-hour study plan became stronger and stronger, as long as it was time to study, his pen tip seemed to be dancing on the homework book, which was particularly energetic.

This good form continued until the end of May. On Sunday, the son spent the day playing outside. In the evening I asked, "Joy, are you done with your homework?"

"It's over. ”

"Hurry up and take a shower and go to bed early. ”

After that, I went to my desk to read. After a while, my son came and opened his mouth to cry. I said, "Joy, what are you crying for, there is something to say." ”

"Daddy, hit me!" the son cried.

"Why hit you?"

"I'm lying to you again, you can beat me!"

"What did you lie to me?"

"I haven't finished all my homework," said my son, "Dad, you beat me up, you will always trust me, but I often lie to you by talking about panic, Dad, I beg you to beat me up, I feel really uncomfortable." The son cried.

"Joy, I didn't finish my homework within the allotted time, this is the first time in May, this is much better than before, and everyone has a time when they can't finish their plans. Besides, it's not a bad thing to not finish your homework, and Dad doesn't have the right to beat you. ”

"Dad, you beat me, I beg you, I feel so uncomfortable. ”

My son was clutching his hands at his chest, crying and begging for me to beat him up. I felt that my son's soul was strongly stimulated, but he did not do anything evil, and he absolutely could not satisfy the child's unreasonable demands. I had an idea and said, "If you feel uncomfortable, go read 'Unexpected Cruelty'." ”

The son finished reading. It was still very painful inside, and he continued to cry and asked me to beat him. I said solemnly, "Joy, Daddy doesn't have the right to beat you, if you still feel bad, then you can go to your bedside and tell your ancestors to knock down the head three times, even if Daddy beats you." ”

Suddenly, there was a bang, knock, knock sound from the child's bedroom, and when Wang Xile returned to his desk to do his homework, I saw a red patch on his forehead......