Chapter VII Decisions
I listened to Xu Minghui counting his dissatisfaction with me one by one, and I felt very uncomfortable, the reason why I was so tight on family finances was also for the long-term plan of our small family.
The reason why I say this is because at that time, both parents were over seventy years old, all kinds of diseases were coming, and the children were also going to college at that time, or facing jobs after graduation, in short, we needed to spend money everywhere, and the two of us will no longer be young, and our bodies and energy will be much worse than before.
Because of this, I am so tight on my life, I am reluctant to buy myself expensive clothes, and at the same time in all aspects of family expenses are carefully calculated, it is by virtue of such diligence and thrift, Xu Minghui and I have been married for more than ten years, in order to rely on a dead salary in addition to the welfare housing of the unit, in this big city where every inch of land is expensive, we can also have a set of commercial housing that belongs to us, and we can rent it out to earn an extra income.
Xu Minghui didn't pay attention to these contributions I made for my family, but complained that I gave him too little spare money on weekdays, why didn't he say that I was more reluctant to spend money on myself? Besides, Xu Minghui does not have any spare money in his hands, while I control his salary, I will also set aside a part of his pocket money every month, which can definitely meet his basic entertainment expenses, of course, if he wants to go out to eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, it is not enough, I also prevent him from learning well in many entertainment, so I stuck him in this regard.
There is also the fact that when Xu Minghui went out to socialize, I chased him on the phone more closely, I did this, first, I was worried about his safety, you didn't come back in the middle of the night, now the society is so chaotic, can't I care? Besides, in the society where we fly, God knows how much dross there contains, now the social atmosphere is so bad, it is too easy for men to learn bad, it is simply a matter of minutes, I urge you on the phone, I hope you come back soon, one is to show my concern for you, and the other is to remind you of your sense of responsibility to this family, sadly, in the end, this has become Xu Minghui's "crime" of abusing him one by one, which is really sad and lamentable.
looked at Xu Minghui talking endlessly, one moment said that I did this to make him unable to raise his head in front of his friends, and he was very faceless, and for a while said that it was because I felt a little depressed here, so I looked for sustenance from Xia Yan and pulled and pulled.
The more I listened, the more wrong it became, and then I simply interrupted him and said, "Xu Minghui, I can understand it, you have been cheating for a long time, did you force me to cheat for a long time?" When you were doing piston exercises on Xia Yan, did you count the atrocities I had abused you over the years?"
Xu Minghui saw me say this, smiled reluctantly, and quickly pushed the responsibility on me: "Haichao, look at you, you let me speak from my heart, in the end I told the truth, but you don't like to listen to it......"
I lit the table and said to him coldly: "I let you say, I let you tell the truth, do you say these things are truthful?"
Xu Minghui looked at me embarrassedly, and then snorted: "Anyway, what I said above is all heartfelt words, and saying it to you today is also to let our husband and wife reflect on the way we got along before, and hope that we can improve in the future." ”
I stared at Xu Minghui with wide eyes, and I laughed out loud, Xu Minghui looked at me in surprise, I don't know why.
After laughing enough, I squinted my eyes, squinted at Xu Minghui, and said to him coldly: "Xu Minghui, you want to be faced! Now it's your cheating in marriage that makes me catch rape on the spot, but you pull me to reflect with you? People are shameless, and they can't come to this point, right?"
Xu Minghui looked at me and said this, his face turned pale, and he couldn't say anything for a while.
I stood up slowly with the armrest of the sofa, and when I got up, Xu Minghui rushed and asked, "Haichao, what are you going to do?"
I waved at him, and then replied, "Our relationship has reached this point, don't say anything, let's get a divorce!"
Hearing me say this, Xu Minghui was also stupid, and after a moment of stunned, he pulled up suddenly, grabbed my arm and said to me: "What I said just now was all what you asked me to say! I thought you had the strength to say it, but I didn't expect you to be so unacceptable, I knew that I wouldn't say those words just now." I never thought about divorcing you, even if I was with Xia Yan, I was confused for a while, and I never thought about what would happen to her. ”
I shook off Xu Minghui's hand and said to him solemnly: "Xu Minghui, I thank you for telling me the truth just now, otherwise I would still be like a fool mixed in the mountains, Yun Shen doesn't know where to go, I think I am very happy and happy, but in the eyes of others, I am a fart! Now you have made me understand everything, and I know what to do next." ”
"Then what are you going to do?" Xu Minghui asked me blankly.
I thought about it, and then replied to him softly: "You think about it, and then draft an agreement, let's agree to divorce, if you don't agree to the divorce, I will also go to court to sue for divorce." I'm not at home these days anyway, I'll live in our new house first, give you a few days to think about it, and call me when you're ready. With that, I slowly walked towards the bedroom.
Xu Minghui stood there in a daze, unresponsive for a long time, and then he turned around and shouted at me: "Wei Haichao, I will not agree to divorce, which husband and wife have no contradictions? Which husband does not make mistakes? Just because of a mistake, he will beat me to death? No way! I will never agree to divorce!"
Looking at Xu Minghui's appearance of yelling at me with red ears and red ears, this is just like his usual gentle and unsurprised image, I smiled coldly in my heart, shook my head, ignored him, and walked straight back to our bedroom.
I went to the bedroom to pack my things, put some clothes into my suitcase, and walked out of the bedroom with my suitcase.
Seeing me come out, Xu Minghui blocked the door, grabbed my arm and said to me eagerly: "Haichao, you can't go!"
I tried to shake off his hand, but he held it so tightly that I couldn't break free.
In desperation, I had no choice but to put down the suitcase in my hand, frowning and shouting at him, "What do you want?"
At this time, Xu Minghui was also anxious, his face was swollen into a purple red like pig's liver, he looked at me and gasped violently, then grabbed my hand, and said to me eagerly: "Haichao, give me another chance, okay? Just forgive me this time, okay? I won't dare to ...... next time."
Xu Minghui shed tears when he said these words, watching him cry, in fact, I didn't feel good, after all, it was a precious relationship like the rainy season that came all the way from the university! How many pairs of lovers in the university can finally achieve positive results?
But Xu Minghui and I have cultivated, we should have cherished this precious fate, who would have expected to break up with today's ending?
We stood silently at the door of the bedroom like this, without speaking for a long time, Xu Minghui looked at me with tears in his eyes, red face, and longing eyes, I turned my head sideways, trying not to look at Xu Minghui's eyes full of begging, in fact, I couldn't help crying at this time, but I didn't want Xu Minghui to find out my cowardice at this time, so I turned my head sideways and didn't look at him.
After a long time, my emotions calmed down, turned my head to look at Xu Minghui, and said to him in a dumb voice: "You better let me go, let's both calm down for a few days, think about what to do in the future, in this situation, the two of us barely live under one roof, staring at each other, and even more ...... It's embarrassing, it's better to cool down for a few days first, don't you say it's reasonable?"
Hearing me say this, Xu Minghui sighed, he reluctantly let go of my wrist, and then said to me in a low voice: "Haichao, if you just want to calm down for a few days, then I'...... Let you go, but I hope that after you calm down, you can come back again, and our family of three will still live like before, okay?"
Looking at Xu Minghui's eager and eager gaze, I nodded at him randomly, in fact, at this time I am not sure what direction we should go in the future, at the moment I just want to get rid of him as soon as possible and find a place to think calmly about our future.
Seeing that I seemed to agree, Xu Minghui hurriedly reached out to take the suitcase in my hand and said to me, "Then I'll send you over." ”
I looked at his flattering look, and didn't speak for a moment, in fact, I wanted to say that I still had to take a taxi by myself, but I wanted to be entangled with him for a long time, so I acquiesced to his move, just like that, Xu Minghui helped me carry the suitcase, and went downstairs with me, and then he drove me to the commercial house we bought newly.
In fact, this house has always been rented out, but because the quality of the tenants is not very good, the bathroom and kitchen made a mess for me, and finally I did not wait for the contract to expire to drive away the unqualified little couple, and then find someone to clean up some of the bathroom and kitchen equipment that they damaged, ready to rent it to some reliable tenants after a while.
I didn't expect such a thing to happen now, and now that I have moved in by myself, I am probably going to set up camp here for a long time in the future, and it is impossible to consider renting out for the time being.
Xu Minghui drove me downstairs to the new house, I asked him to go back, didn't let him go upstairs, I told him, let's both calm down for a few days, and then inform each other's opinions, then decide what to do next, Xu Minghui agreed.
After living in the new house for a few days, I kept thinking about whether I should divorce Xu Minghui or not, and in the end, I decided to divorce him.