If people don't have dreams, what is the difference between them and salted fish?

Only dreams can be disappointed.

Dreams are destined to be lonely journeys, with doubts and ridicule on the way.

If you take fewer detours, you will miss the scenery, no matter what, thanks for the experience.

Dreams, like classics, will never fade with time, but are more precious.

Yuan Changwen remembered the chicken soup he had read before, and whenever he felt uncomfortable, these words and sentences were like opium to soothe his anxious heart.

But I never thought about it, what are these!

Why dream?

Now Yuan Changwen is full of truth, and the so-called dream is just a definition woven by "self".

It's a wonderful definition, it's engaging, it's able to distinguish between yourself and others.

In fact, any self-definition exists to distinguish others.

Even squatting and sitting,, can be the two major factions. Some family members will even look down on each other because of this matter.

If the "self" needs to survive, then it must be defined and distinguished from others.

Yuan Changwen's life is the same, a dream, he seems to be superior to others, and he seems to look down on people who only pursue reality in his heart.

But when I saw others making a lot of money, I was also envious in my heart, but I didn't dare to say it, so I could only say that I was a person with dreams.

Which dream isn't for money?

Which dream is not for the spotlight?

Who would have made begging a dream?

As I figured out before, success itself is built on the insuccess of others.

Curse that all mankind cannot succeed, and only then can he succeed.

If everyone succeeds, then their dreams are ridiculous.

Who would make it a lifelong dream to breathe freely?

The so-called dreams are actually just desires, and they work hard for what they don't have.

Because we can all breathe freely, only those who are dying will plead with God, "Nothing else, just let me breathe!"

But why take the breath out of the dream?

Even those who are dying seem to think that the dream of all eyes is much more arrogant than the desire to breathe.

But aren't they all the same in essence?

It's all things you don't own.

Is it because there are too many people who give up on their dreams because the whole society is advocating dreams?

If the whole society pursues their dreams, and no one sweeps the floor and no one acts as the grassroots, then does the society want to advocate social responsibility and the like?

No matter how gorgeous and dazzling the dream is, it cannot escape the scope of "self-woven definition".

Yuan Changwen: "I want to kill my dreams!"

The doctor laughed, "I guess you'd say that, but well, 'no dream' is a dream in itself, you say?"

Not again!

Yuan Changwen was a little angry, but soon this emotion dissipated, which was just the basic defense mechanism of the "self".

You can't deny the "self", otherwise you will be angry and uncomfortable, or you will be angry and hit others.

"No dream" is a dream in itself.

"There is no definition" is a definition in itself.

Yuan Changwen suddenly found that even if he killed the matter of self-definition, he hadn't thought about it carefully.

It's just that with a sense of anger, fed up with emotional pulling, this anger, to kill yourself.

As the doctor said, the absence of self-definition is itself a kind of self-definition.

However, once you start thinking about it, you realize that you can't seem to kill anything at all.

It's the devil who cheats!

That's right, it just doesn't want me to keep slashing.

I don't know how to resolve this contradiction, but I know that what is holding me back is the devil's trick.

Since I can't kill any self-definition at all, why should I kill it?

Why do you want to stop me?

Why should I stop killing?

If the devil is kind enough to prevent me from wasting my efforts, then Lao Tzu is willing to waste time!

Anyway, over the years, there have been many wasted time, no less than this one!

For three hours after work every day, I either watched TV, played games, or went out to drink and sing.

A year is more than 1,000 hours, I can afford to waste so much time, now it's only 24 hours, what are you afraid of!

Yuan Changwen: "That's right, it's a contradiction, so what?"

The doctor played with taste: "In this case, your so-called slashing is a joke." ”

Yuan Changwen: "What about jokes? In Yuan Changwen's life, there are few things that have been ridiculed!"

Doctor: "Well, you still care about other people's eyes. The hidden meaning of your words is, 'Wait and see, one day you won't be able to laugh and make you fall at my feet,' right?"

Is that right?

Right.

Yuan Changwen will not deny this, because this is the "self", and the former self firmly grasps these "self" and does not let go.

I used to think that the definition of these self-weaving is myself.

But now, everything is false except that stupid background.

On the contrary, Yuan Changwen is grateful to the doctor for being able to bring this up. If you kill on your own, you don't know how long it will take to find this hidden self-definition.

However, seeing is not the same as killing is complete.

A long time ago, Yuan Changwen knew that he was carrying the eyes of others all the way. The reason for choosing to do many things is what others think.

If I do this, will anyone laugh at me?

If I did, everyone would think I'd be good.

If this happens to me next time, then everyone will have nothing to say.

If someone points it out, then it will be super embarrassing in an instant, blushing and heartbeating, and then pretending to be calm and excuse to deny.

Yuan Changwen still remembers that he had this feeling, and he cares too much about other people's opinions!

But at this moment, this self-definition has not been killed, or this is the means of survival of the "self".

Saying that you don't care about other people's eyes, where is it so easy to do it?

Even if it is an angry slash, this self-definition still lurks in the dark corners.

You see, inadvertently, Yuan Changwen's words once again exposed this.

Think about it, after more than 20 years of continuous renovation and reinforcement, how could those buildings in the desert be killed by themselves in an instant?

Those so-called epiphanyes are estimated to be only a short period of time.

No one can kill all self-woven definitions from a single epiphany and become a Buddha on the spot.

At least Yuan Changwen doesn't believe it!

To kill the definition of self-weaving, there must be time in it. It is not impossible to even be accidentally deceived by that demon and go around in circles on the path of slashing from then on.

Yuan Changwen: "Yes, this is another definition that needs to be killed. Thank you, in addition, Yuan Changwen found that it is easy to say it, but it takes time to actually do it. ”

Doctor: "How many years, ten years, or twenty years?"

Yuan Changwen: "I don't know, only after watching it for a year, I don't know how long it will take." However, there are so many things in life, and reality is colliding with the 'self' at any time.

Every collision is an opportunity to kill. As long as Yuan Changwen is firmly nailed to 'I exist', any emotion can be killed. Once killed, then kill the next time.

Believe, self-woven definition, looks sturdy and huge. But as soon as the slash begins, then over time, the self-definition will be like burning cotton, and it will die by itself without the need to continue slashing. ”

Doctor: "That's all your guess. ”

Yuan Changwen: "Science is just a guess. You don't know science, but the whole world says it, and you believe it. And it is still a blind belief that as long as the information published by the highest scientific research institutions, you will receive it all.

What is the difference between this kind of behavior and the medieval pope giving a speech and then people blindly believing it? He is the authority, Yuan Changwen does not need the teaching of others, there is nothing to teach at all. ”

Doctor: "Okay, so let's move on?"

Yuan Changwen: "Come on, please whip!"