Chapter 9: Metamorphosis IX
Man is a very emotional animal. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć info one minute is giggling, the next minute it can be sentimental. Or, it's the same with other animals, we just don't understand it.
"Chicken Soup for the Soul" often says that people should live with their mentality, not their mood.
It seems to make a lot of sense. However, many people can't do it, thinking that it's just "easy to say". Even, those who can't do it say that "chicken soup" is poison. Slowly, more people who were originally optimistic began to follow the crowd, believing that "chicken soup" was poison.
Hmmm, that's understandable. Because most people have a weakness, that is, what they can't do, they will resent. Resentment can be expressed in a way that is just too aggressive with words, or it can be too aggressive with body movements. Anyway, it's just to express the kind of dissatisfaction that you can't do in your heart.
Nor can it be said whether they are right or wrong. After all, both right and wrong are relative.
However, in my personal opinion, I don't think Chicken Soup for the Soul is poison.
That's right, many of the big truths said in "Chicken Soup for the Soul" have to be applied to the cruel reality, and sometimes it's just a fantasy. However, if you can't apply it yourself, it doesn't mean that those big principles are useless, you can only say that you can't use them or don't know that you're already using them.
To use an analogy, some people are sick, make chicken soup to drink, and their health gets better quickly. And some people are also sick and make chicken soup to drink, and as a result, their health is even worse. Because chicken soup is compatible with certain medicines, and some people are not suitable for drinking too much chicken soup. In other words, if you don't understand the characteristics of chicken soup, you may be in a worse condition. And some normal people drink chicken soup but feel that there is no change, so they say that chicken soup is useless. However, the nutrients in the chicken soup have indeed been absorbed. Just because they don't feel it doesn't mean they don't. Is it useful to drink chicken soup to grow taller or fatter, etc.? You know, chicken soup is not a panacea.
It is only used as a nourishment for the soul, and occasionally to replenish the mind.
Not knowing how to use that great principle is a personal problem, not a problem of that great principle. After all, there are a few people who can do it, and since someone can do it, it can only mean that the big truth is not a problem, but the problem is still limited in their own ability.
Optimistic people are actually very emotional. It's just that the way optimistic people get emotional is a little more relaxed than the way pessimistic people get emotional.
Optimistic people sometimes pretend to be happy when they are unhappy, and you could say that is self-deception. However, they can really come back happily even if they pretend to be pretended.
Pessimistic people are unhappy, and sometimes even magnify their unhappiness, eager to let the whole world know about their unhappiness. However, only when they vent their unhappiness in this way will they have a little comforting joy in their hearts.
I'm also a lot of emotional hitters, but luckily, I have a lot of ways to vent my emotions. And the way I vent my emotions is the foundation of my growth. For example, writing, drawing, etc. In order to grow, I don't even let go of emotions......
I don't know if my mentality is better than before, at least I feel that my current self knows how to explain myself better than I used to be. I am very pleased with this. Perhaps, after watching "Chicken Soup for the Soul", the nutrition is still there.
In this "My Favorite Girls", in fact, I am the only real protagonist. As for the real heroine, it seems that there is none. Because at each stage, there seems to be a corresponding short-lived heroine. And I, just by constantly liking girls, portrayed how I changed from the beginning to the person I am now.
This, without the flavor of fiction at all, is at best a memoir.
However, even though this is only a memoir, I also worked the idea that came to my mind: if one day, I could write down my upbringing and make a book, how wonderful!
So, I still relied on my feelings to write, even though I knew I wasn't writing a novel......
This will come to an end the moment I enter the age of marriage. Because, that moment means that I already have a real heroine in my life!
So, how much longer?
Step by step, look at the front, and look at the back, there is no figure of her.
Did she walk faster than me and get to the front where I couldn't see, or did she walk slower than me and still far behind what I couldn't see?
Should I hurry up to catch up with her, or should I slow down and wait for her?
Who is she? Who is she?
I'm afraid that if I walk too slowly, I won't be able to catch up with her, and I won't be able to wait. I'm also afraid that if I go too fast, I will miss her and make her unable to catch up.
There are many speeds in the world, some are fast, some are slow, some are slightly faster, some are slightly slower, and some are not fast and not slow......
Some people pursue the fastest speed and always want to be at the forefront of the times, while some people don't care about speed and are accustomed to picking up memories at the back of the times, while others maintain a flat rhythm and speed in the future and the past.
I don't know what kind of speed she prefers, I'm just walking at the speed I like......
As I walked, I saw many of her. But which one is her, is my she?
There is her who walks faster than me, there is her who walks slower than me, and there is her who is in sync with me. Which one is her?
Only feeling can give me the answer......
Close your eyes and feel the sensations. I think if it was her, then she would have awakened all my feelings when she walked past me. I believe it!
However, time flies, and she still hasn't been seen in my sight. Is it that I can't see clearly, or am I unable to see through?
Phew, I can only tell myself: go at your own pace! If it's yours, then she will definitely meet you! All you need to do now is to keep making yourself excellent! Only in this way, when she appears, can you have the ability to love her!
Well, don't disrupt your own growth rhythm and don't give up any chance you might meet her.
I heard that my aunt helped me find a blind date, ninety years old. Age, it's not an issue, I just believe in feelings......
So, let's take a look......
Step by step, looking forward to my angel, coming to my world.
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