Humans are very special higher animals because the mind and physiology can affect each other.

For example, psychology affects physiology. When a person's body is unhealthy, his mind will also be inclined to be unhealthy, thinking about bad things all day long. However, if the body eats something that does not have much effect on the body, or even just a glass of ordinary water, but if there is a very strong psychological belief that the food consumed will definitely be beneficial to one's health (there is no doubt), even if it is an ordinary glass of water, then the body is very likely to repair itself or change according to its mental desires. (The premise is that the food you eat does not cause too much damage to the tissues in your body, because no amount of optimism can support a serious impairment of physiology.) It's like if a person drinks a glass of water that he doesn't know has been poisoned, even though he is absolutely sure that he is drinking only water, he will still be poisoned. ）

Another example is that physiology affects psychology. When a person's mood is very low, the body's functions will also become particularly tired and listless, at this time, if you take the initiative to do some sports or some things, such as running, playing basketball, and cleaning the room, tidying up the family environment, etc., after exercising or doing those things, the mood will become inexplicably better. Even, some things that I have never been able to understand will suddenly be understood. Changes in physical function can likewise affect changes in the psyche.

True health is not only physical health, but also mental health. In other words, physical and mental health.

Living in this world, we must not only take care of the body, but also maintain the mind, and live and cherish it.

Well, because health is about to dominate my fortune in 2018, and I have completely lost the capital to resist.

On November 3, 2017, when I was still thinking that I was healthy, I found my eighth job in my life, and the company was a listed company. Well, I feel so tall, did I succeed in counterattacking? I'm sorry, I'm still just a general worker.

Although the company is a listed company, it also has branches, and I should exist in the factory of the branch. The company is called MYS, which makes carton types. And I was fortunate enough to be assigned to the most corner department in the factory, and entered a team of only a few people.

The boss's name is Brother Wan, but I call him "Boss" because he is indeed a good boss, much better than Director Li in my sixth job in my life. He prefers to talk about big truths, and most of his words are full of positive energy, and he feels that it is also a good pleasure to be led by the boss who often beats his subordinates.

There are three major technical masters and a little master who is about the same age as me, namely Brother Honglin who doesn't talk much to me, Brother Wen Chao who has something to talk to me, Brother Da Kun who treats me like a child, and Brother Baoming who seems to have a generation gap with me. There is also a master who is responsible for arranging orders.

Actually, no matter where you put me, I'm their assistant. Whoever needs me, I will help.

In the first days, similar to the previous employment, they all needed to adapt to the company environment and interpersonal relationships, and the sadness that should be boiled still needs to be boiled. After surviving it, I was still the same person who was willing to help me. Thanksgiving. (The feeling of those days lingers to this day, and it has faded, so I gently brought it)

The benefits of MYS can be said to be the second best physical work I have ever done, the first is Xidesheng. Originally, I thought that I could develop well in MYS, after all, the boss Brother Wan and several masters also intended to train me...... Can...... More on that later......

has a job, and there are a lot fewer conflicts between Xiaoshi and me, after all, having a job means having an income. Sometimes I think about it, it really responds to the sentence "poor couples mourn everything".

With fewer contradictions, there may be more romance.

In the years before I got married, I had fantasies that if I got married in the future, I would have to wash my name with my wife......

Then, at last, I became a husband. But, not to mention that I bathed with Xiaoshi together, I didn't even try to change her clothes naturally in front of me, she would always block it with her hands, or put on clothes first, and then take off her "divine clothes". Well, it feels like I'm completely defeated by her changing skills.

Although I always smiled at her when she was changing her clothes, "Honey, don't always stand in the way like that, after all, we are two in-laws." ”

She always replied, "What's there to see?

I replied, "It feels different." ”

She would also seriously reply, "What's the difference?"

I...... I...... Oh my God, is it interesting?

Sometimes when she took a shower and forgot to take her pajamas, she asked me to bring them to her.

When she opened the door and sewed her pajamas, I would jokingly say, "I'll go in and wash them too." ”

She'd just as jokingly reply, "." Then, lock the door.

I still smiled and said, "Honey, do you need this? We are two in-laws!"

Then, it's time for me to talk to each other alone.

But, finally, one time, she actually took the initiative to say to me, "Honey, why don't we take a shower together tonight?"

At that moment, I wondered if I was dreaming......

"What? I heard you right?" I couldn't believe it.

"Do you want to do it? If you don't want to, forget it, just this once. She said with a little seduction.

So, the first mandarin duck bath in my life was born!

I thought that the mandarin duck bath would be very romantic, but what I never expected was that I, a tasteful pervert, would be a little shy...... I can't let go more than my dear......

Well, it turned out that I myself choked the romantic throat and almost strangled it.

But it doesn't matter, because I will also give Xiaoshi a "biology lesson".

One night after a lingering game, I talked to Xiaoshi about contraception, about when to have children, I said to go with the flow, not to avoid, when it should come, nature will come.

Then, I talked about the high-end mass products in the contraceptive industry - the "tights" that I am embarrassed to say clearly but can express the connotation.

The selling point of "tights" is that it can stop the "thousands of horses" rushing to reincarnation, as well as the sensory enjoyment that is as thin as nothing and the friction that can produce moisture.

Xiao Shi said that he had not seen it, well, I understand. After all, I only bought it once for my "good Chinese brother" when I was an otaku.

That time, it was purely out of curiosity about what it was like for the "good Chinese brother" to wear a "straitjacket". So, I asked my good lover at the time, my right hand, to simulate a violent friction for my "good Chinese brother". In the end, it was concluded that the "good brother of China" still prefers unfettered comfort.

After becoming a husband, I don't know when I will buy "tights" for my "good Chinese brother" again, but I think it should not be far away...... (So, a year is almost over)

Cherish the days when you don't have to wear "tights", feel the real skin-to-skin kiss, and return to the most authentic original natural inheritance state.

Well, it was quite a romantic time.

However, there will also be times when romance will take a big pause......

At around 0:00 a.m. on December 18, 2017, Xiaoshi suddenly said to me: "My dear, I have something to say to you. ”

Naturally, I asked, "What's the matter?"

She smiled, "Congratulations, you're going to be a dad." ”

At that moment, my heart seemed to be still.

I'm going to be a father...... I'm going to be a father...... I'm going to be a father...... I'm going to be a father...... I'm going to be a father...... These words kept lingering in my head......

Oh my God!

I don't know if I'm happy or worried. Because my financial situation is not stable, I am afraid that I will not be able to give my children a good environment to grow up. But, I said go with the flow, when it is time to come, nature will come.

So, I'm still more happy than worried.

I had a job, my wife was pregnant, and when everything seemed to be going in a good direction, I went to the hospital for a check-up because of a physical discomfort, and it was found to be chronic nephritis, and I was advised to be hospitalized.

This news was a bolt from the blue for me at that time, which destroyed my inner world and pushed me directly to the bottom.

When you are healthy, you don't know how to cherish it. It was only after the health problems that I began to regret it. What's the use? Waiting to pay the price......

Heaven keeps testing me, I can't run away from it, I can only face it head-on, no matter what the price is, as long as I'm alive. Because this is my life experience, and I am the protagonist of my life.

The protagonist can't collapse.